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no limit slave - 2/15/2006 7:24:49 AM

nolimitslaveCA

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hi i am wondering why the Dommes in california are into sensual play and the no limit Dommes and Owners all seem to be out of the state ?

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 7:40:30 AM

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The NC Dommes would say you live in the wrong state! <smiles>--don't let location hinder your search--I know more than a few Dommes who have moved to be near a submissive.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 7:43:02 AM

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So your limit is finding/serving a Domme who has limits?

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 7:45:27 AM

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You will find the right Domme for you. I lived in the same state as my Dragon for 10 years before we finally connected. It has been bliss ever sense. Dont give up hope.... she is out there.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 9:01:14 AM

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Welcome to the boards.
I am afraid I am going to have to agree with M here. This is not to give you a hard time, but to point out to you the dangers of throwing around words like "no limits".
As M stated, if you are a "no limits" slave then you should not be limiting yourself to a geographical area. I am sure that not all Dominas in California are only into sensual play, and I am sure that there are plenty of Dominas in other part of the USA and the world who are only interested in sensual play.
If you are not (and that is a rarity!) then state such in your profile.
If you wish to continue to insist you are a slave with no limits, do review this, written, I assume, by yourself, in your own profile:

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it begs You to use it for slavery, pain and degradation for your amusements. its limits that it begs You grant are no permament harm, no health risks and no illegal activity.

Here you have just stated limits, therefore you are not a no limits slave. Any Domina should, and usually does, take good care of property. So one would think this is understood, but it is not always. If you are unsure of that, I will refer you to this thread entitled when does a mistress go to far . Please read it.
Finally, I notice that you refer to yourself as "it". There are some Dominas who enjoy this, and might even command it. But not that many. So this appears to be another limit. You must be an "it". I don't want an "it". Most of the Ladies I know do not want an "it". The way you present yourself in your profile will make a difference in the interest level, regardless of the geographic location.
You state you are willing to relocate. You joined the site on January 27th of this year. It is February 15th. So the purpose of this post was???
You can ,of course, present yourself in any manner you please, and jump to whatever conclusions you wish. I'm just saying....

< Message edited by GoddessDustyGold -- 2/15/2006 9:05:10 AM >

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 9:38:35 AM

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lol, well I seem to find that the 'right' Domme is always where I am not ;)

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 9:52:49 AM

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hi i am wondering why the Dommes in california are into sensual play and the no limit Dommes and Owners all seem to be out of the state ?

boy

I suspect the possibility of having to meet a "no limit" slave makes those closer to you less willing to endulge the fantasy. Those further away can write all the checks their tongue wants knowing there's little likelihood they will get them cashed.

Ever sane person has limits. The lucky ones have the same limits as the people they play with. I recall one European participant in a suicide/murder scene who insisted that the person who killed him eat his body. Obviously, being killed without the culinary follow-through was a limit.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 10:23:06 AM

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Again, I agree with John. It's quite easy to have no limits where no limits can be enforced..in cyberspace.

I would love to play out this game with you. So let's. You say you have no limits? really? I suspect that's not completely true. But, if you truly are a no limits slave...well, I have developed a chainsaw fetish and I really need a volunteer...Oh, and I'm moving to your town next week...

You found a limit, didn't you? Thought so.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 10:23:26 AM

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yes Miss Dusty it agrees needs to adjust limits to be for play situation in owned position it offers total control

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 4:58:19 PM

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Again, I agree with John. It's quite easy to have no limits where no limits can be enforced..in cyberspace.

I would love to play out this game with you. So let's. You say you have no limits? really? I suspect that's not completely true. But, if you truly are a no limits slave...well, I have developed a chainsaw fetish and I really need a volunteer...Oh, and I'm moving to your town next week...

You found a limit, didn't you? Thought so.

To quote Laura Antoinou:

No limits? Moose vomit enemas!

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 5:04:09 PM

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as many others have already pointed out... 'no limit's' doesn't truly exist unless they are one sick puppy...

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 5:07:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: yourMissTress

Again, I agree with John. It's quite easy to have no limits where no limits can be enforced..in cyberspace.

I would love to play out this game with you. So let's. You say you have no limits? really? I suspect that's not completely true. But, if you truly are a no limits slave...well, I have developed a chainsaw fetish and I really need a volunteer...Oh, and I'm moving to your town next week...

You found a limit, didn't you? Thought so.

One of my friends liked to reply to such claims with "Great. I want a traditional marriage with 2.3 children, a dog, a white picket fence, PTA meetings, and sex once a week missionary position lights out." She said it was a good way to not have to hear back from someone with claims of "no limits".

People say "no limits" like its this wonderful thing or somehow shows more "realness". Frankly I think it shows the exact opposite. Someone with no limits does not known him/herself very well and clearly has little experience; they also aren't selective at all about whom they scene with (which I find insulting).

Personally I prefer people with understood hard limits, a nice set of soft limits and a desire to explore those soft limits with another person as the trust and the relationship grow.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 5:40:22 PM

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quote:

Again, I agree with John. It's quite easy to have no limits where no limits can be enforced..in cyberspace.

I would love to play out this game with you. So let's. You say you have no limits? really? I suspect that's not completely true. But, if you truly are a no limits slave...well, I have developed a chainsaw fetish and I really need a volunteer...Oh, and I'm moving to your town next week...

You found a limit, didn't you? Thought so.

To quote Laura Antoinou:

No limits? Moose vomit enemas!

[grin] Laura does have a way with words

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 5:44:25 PM

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LOL yes she does...

I gotta say though....anyone who says "no limits" to someone who straight out SAYS they are a sadist...just isn't all there.

Believe me. We'll find things you won't do.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 9:06:31 PM

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Ever sane person has limits. The lucky ones have the same limits as the people they play with. I recall one European participant in a suicide/murder scene who insisted that the person who killed him eat his body. Obviously, being killed without the culinary follow-through was a limit.

http://www.joblo.com/arrow/index.php?id=3166

Yes that incident has been turned that into a new horror movie. You have be careful were fantasy ends and reality begins with no limits.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 9:22:43 PM

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ORIGINAL: nolimitslaveCA

hi i am wondering why the Dommes in california are into sensual play and the no limit Dommes and Owners all seem to be out of the state ?

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Hello, nolimitslaveCA. I saw that you added yourself to My list of admirers, and at first glance your profile intrigued Me. Upon re-reading it, however, I felt it was insincere, due, mainly, to the reference to "no" limits.

While I would ideally love to meet someone who would not impose predetermined limits on anything I might want to try, I have sense enough to know that I need to find someone who observes the same limits that I do.

Ergo, if you have 'no limits', we are incompatible.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 9:29:33 PM

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Personally I prefer people with understood hard limits, a nice set of soft limits and a desire to explore those soft limits with another person as the trust and the relationship grow.

What she said.

And speaking for the Dommes in my fair state, I think your dichotomy that if one is not looking for a no-limits slave that, by definition, makes the Domme sensual-only is flawed. You can ask my submissive.

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 9:38:18 PM

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While I would ideally love to meet someone who would not impose predetermined limits on anything I might want to try, I have sense enough to know that I need to find someone who observes the same limits that I do.

Ergo, if you have 'no limits', we are incompatible.
Texas Maam

Right! His problem is not lacking limits and wanting to be enslaved; I suspect it is about not finding the domme who wants to play to the extent his fantasies reach. There is of course nothing wrong with wanting to experience edgier things, just find someone who wants those same things.

In my understanding, someone with no limits is someone who will adhere to my limits (no matter how tame/outrageous) being the slave. Having no limits shouldn't come with an attached list of things I will be doing to him so that he will be satisfied I'm edgy enough for him. M

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 10:11:18 PM

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While I would ideally love to meet someone who would not impose predetermined limits on anything I might want to try, I have sense enough to know that I need to find someone who observes the same limits that I do.

Ergo, if you have 'no limits', we are incompatible.

imo that reads almost like poetry!

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RE: no limit slave - 2/15/2006 10:21:22 PM

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While I would ideally love to meet someone who would not impose predetermined limits on anything I might want to try, I have sense enough to know that I need to find someone who observes the same limits that I do.

Ergo, if you have 'no limits', we are incompatible

imo that reads almost like poetry!
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