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lally2 -> RE: why?? (7/1/2009 1:31:50 AM)
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why do we obey? - well, i dont always, lol - but thats another topic for another time i guess.
largely i do and its because i want to but also because if i dont or didnt, what on earth would be the point. i might just as well find myself a 'nilla bloke who doesnt expect it from me.
the entire premis of this type of relationship is that you (we) the subs, fulfill that part of us that wants to please and give all that we are to the person we are with. they do the same in their own way and both are satisfied and happy and that, basically, is what we do. is who we are and why we're here. from that basis everything else swings.
if you start saying no, or refusing or failing to do as is expected of you it starts to become less than it was intended to be, it starts to become a power struggle rather than a power exchange. it stops being D/s or Ms and starts to become something else.
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