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Reigna -> Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/3/2009 2:33:15 PM)
I usually require my sub to wear a tight strap around his cock and balls when we play. When trussed up thus, he will occasionally look and sound like he's having an orgasm, and he'll report that it felt like he had one but that it was less spectacular than he'd anticipated. (The poor thing!) He says they're not anal orgasms, and I can testify that when this happens there's no jizz. Anyone care to hazard a guess what he's experiencing?

Politesub53 -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/3/2009 3:14:39 PM)
Its probably a dry orgasm, whats known as ( I think ) retrograde ejaculation. This is when the semen is forced back into the bladder instead of out the front door..[:)] Men can experience an orgasm with no ejaculation, or an ejaculation with no orgasm. The former can be an effect of surgery or drugs, or in this case the ring. The later is down to timing, edging and stoping at the wrong point can cause this.

Reigna -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/3/2009 3:52:15 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 Its probably a dry orgasm, whats known as ( I think ) retrograde ejaculation. This is when the semen is forced back into the bladder instead of out the front door..[:)] Men can experience an orgasm with no ejaculation, or an ejaculation with no orgasm. The former can be an effect of surgery or drugs, or in this case the ring. The later is down to timing, edging and stoping at the wrong point can cause this. Huh, bad timing. Stopping at the wrong point. That little whelp! We'll have to work on this. Practice makes perfect, right?

Politesub53 -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/3/2009 4:28:43 PM)
Only if I can go play [8D]

islandgyrl -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/3/2009 5:50:04 PM)
Pleasure?

Reigna -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/3/2009 7:01:01 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: islandgyrl Pleasure? Well, sure, I hope. My sub is welcome to all the pleasure he can take from what we do. But from my perspective, it's good to know what else is going on so that I can figure out how to use it for my own devious ends. [:D]

AlexandraLynch -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/3/2009 8:16:34 PM)
An FYI... My husband and I were once doing some edging, and he had one of those. Unbeknownst to either of us, he also had a UTI. The infection also backflushed and ended up giving him epididymitis. He says he would rather have had a kidney stone. So you may want to just practice good urinary tract hygiene before doing this.

Iamsubfkme -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/3/2009 8:52:35 PM)
omg.. what happened to him? like after, the recover required what? (has too had one of these orgasms before, worried)

undergroundsea -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/4/2009 10:55:49 AM)
I too thought of a dry orgasm and retrograde ejaculation, which can occur if one physically blocks ejaculation. This practice can be used to achieve something close to multiple orgasms since blocking ejaculation and disrupting full orgasm seems to lessen or avoid the refractory period. I moved away from the practice when I read that regularly blocking ejaculation can lead to malfunction of the valve which prevents retrograde ejaculation from occurring under regular circumstances--retrograde ejaculation can then become the norm even when no attempt is made to physically block ejaculation. I am not able to find the source I had read at that time about this risk. If you wish to know you more, you might research the matter or consult a urologist. Cheers, Sea

AlexandraLynch -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/4/2009 12:30:36 PM)
Antibiotics and a week off of work because he hurt like hell while recovering.

rob425 -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/4/2009 1:03:33 PM)
I have had ruined orgasms before but to me they weren't dry. I was usually being teased at the moment and I ask for permission to cum a second to late and I couldn't hold it back. So I would cum with no stimulation. That is what I though a ruin orgasm was. I have had dry orgasm but never retrograde of ejaculate that I know ot.

Politesub53 -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/4/2009 4:01:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: islandgyrl Pleasure? Torture me, i`ll never tell. [8D]

Iamsubfkme -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/4/2009 4:43:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AlexandraLynch Antibiotics and a week off of work because he hurt like hell while recovering. Ouch.. wait.. how did you explain that to the doctor?

Reigna -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/4/2009 5:26:49 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea ... regularly blocking ejaculation can lead to malfunction of the valve which prevents retrograde ejaculation from occurring under regular circumstances ... Not what I'm after. God knows, he has enough trouble with his motorcycles.

Politesub53 -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/4/2009 5:37:24 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Reigna Not what I'm after. God knows, he has enough trouble with his motorcycles. Is this code for something Ma`am, or are you just informing us his piston isnt working < Smiles innocently >

allisonludwig -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/4/2009 7:43:38 PM)
As far as holding back on ejaculation as you cum, I don't really think it does any damage. My husband has been practicing this for years, and is able to have 5,6,7 orgasms, and only ejaculate just a little each time and does not have any adverse side effects. Maybe the OP's sub would be able to work up to multiple orgasms and/or orgasms without even being touched. Allison quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea I too thought of a dry orgasm and retrograde ejaculation, which can occur if one physically blocks ejaculation. This practice can be used to achieve something close to multiple orgasms since blocking ejaculation and disrupting full orgasm seems to lessen or avoid the refractory period. I moved away from the practice when I read that regularly blocking ejaculation can lead to malfunction of the valve which prevents retrograde ejaculation from occurring under regular circumstances--retrograde ejaculation can then become the norm even when no attempt is made to physically block ejaculation. I am not able to find the source I had read at that time about this risk. If you wish to know you more, you might research the matter or consult a urologist. Cheers, Sea

Reigna -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/5/2009 11:37:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 Is this code for something Ma`am, or are you just informing us his piston isnt working < Smiles innocently > Oh, his piston's fine, apparently, as long as the valves don't get confraggled or some such thing. Touchy little devils.

Venatrix -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/5/2009 1:01:30 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Reigna quote: ORIGINAL: undergroundsea ... regularly blocking ejaculation can lead to malfunction of the valve which prevents retrograde ejaculation from occurring under regular circumstances ... Not what I'm after. God knows, he has enough trouble with his motorcycles. I understand completely. I hate it when my motorcycle ejaculates.

Politesub53 -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/5/2009 1:04:10 PM)
The dreaded backfire Ma`am..... The noise alone scares me. [;)]

Venatrix -> RE: Ruined orgasm, or what? (7/5/2009 1:13:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Politesub53 The dreaded backfire Ma`am..... The noise alone scares me. [;)] I think you're getting mixed up with a bad case of flatulence.

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