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ORIGINAL: ishyB


Greetings luci,

You are right of course, my expectation that he keeps me only on his own terms is being met... If not, I'd walk in a heartbeat.
Basically I guess I have the expectation that he does not take my expectations into consideration in any way.
Wait.... so by doing that he's doing the opposite? See now what you have done, you're confusing me.

I guess what I'm trying to say is that I do not have expectation as to how he fills in what slavery means to him. He can keep me as a spoiled princess if he likes, or chained, naked, half-starved and sleeping on wet concrete... It's his choice, and with neither I would feel like my expectations weren't being met, simple because the only thing I expect is that he makes that choice.

I wish you well,

ishy

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He just doesn't let any of my needs dictate anything he does or does not do, because he knows that that would destroy the whole foundation on which our relationship is build.