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Wulfchyld -> RE: Rudeness (2/17/2006 2:26:35 PM)
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*True Fear*
*Without trepidation she submitted to his commands. Understanding she is a submissive she gave herself to his will. The private scene, with not another soul aware of, escalated. Yellow she cried and his cruel laughter filled the air as she struggled against her bonds. Red she cried as his sadistic strokes turned to brutality with the paddles edge. She cried for help but none could hear.
“You will go to jail!” She told him.
“None shall know. Like a good little sub you told none of your whereabouts.” He laughed cruelly.
“I will report you, you bastard!”
He drew from his dark robe a vicious knife. He reveled in her pain as he slowly dismembered her. He scatters her across a hundred miles and returning home her lit a cigarette, opened a beer, and logged on looking for the next. *
First let me commend you HarleyBeauty, I would encourage all to be very specific, Dom and sub alike. It saves time. If you don’t fit on the list, move on. However if your meshing on do’s, don’ts, likes, and dislikes, time to get on the chat then, phone, public meet, you know how it works.
The above scenario depicts more truth than anyone would care to know, unfortunately. I wouldn’t not be so profane as to say it is an occurrence within the lifestyle. However many serial killers hunt, and victims pile up, within more amiable hunting grounds. I will not go into the details; we are obviously on the web so you can do your own research.
Negotiations: WTF is it with people saying “I’m the Dom you do what I say.” Rule 1. The sub will not bring a handgun to kill the Dom! It’s a good rule and I expect the sub to have a similar rule. I don’t know about everyone else but I have about 120 rules that I feel real strongly about. Any sub who says “what ever you want” I plug in my copy of Fatal Attraction and rethink. I guarantee I will whip out my list of laws, do the same.
The submissive: yes it is the sub that makes the lifestyle possible. People by nature exhibit their dominance/submission everyday. In the community we get to live a little more closer to our natural proclivities. No we can’t get out of the car and kick the shit out of the cop for being a dick, but we can enforce, through discipline, the behavior we expect from our subs/slaves. It is our personal lives that we have power over. By Hades have power over it.
The Dominant: Lots of people or giving others grief over being a “True Dom”. Here’s the news; you were a true kindergartner, you were a true 6th grader, yada yada yada… Just like all things in life you are on your journey. No not everyone here has mastered the great Dom handbook (still trying to find a copy of it) but we are trying to implement our desires into our lives. Again this place is a great resource regardless of your level.
Profiles: Be candid in your profile. You don’t have to be nasty. As with HarleyBeauty I get a lot of grief because I am very explicit with my do’, don’ts and such. What boggles my mind is people joining as subs and actually insulting others. There is a whole lot of Dom’s that did not cane enough hide off of suby ass, or a whole lot of subs that have no ideas what respect means. Get a free site, geociteis.com, bravenet.com, etc… (there is a bunch of them) they are easy to build and have both visual editors (what you see is what you get) and HTML (Big spooky code stuff, that is actually easy to learn) editors.
Meeting and matching: You can make a lot of good friends on this site, and some bad ones. I am open for friendship from anyone. That said, my profile and website www.geocities.com/lockranstormbringer has the specifics I am looking for. My priority is friendship. That alleviates the expectations of something more growing from chat. My profile and website are specific. If it is you… cool! We can talk beyond friendship. Eyes are wide open and we can discuss your do’s and don’ts. I can look through profiles and say to myself: I don’t have a clue what that sub is looking for, wow she was specific and isn’t me, or Hmmm….. intriguing.
The web: with the anonymity of the web let’s look at a few points.
1. You don’t really know who your talking to.
2. They can be male, female, or other.
3. They can be rich, poor, or cross-eyed.
4. They can be sane, insane, or somewhere in between.
5. They can be experienced, inexperienced, or anything between.
6. Just because they didn’t follow your guidebook doesn’t make them anymore or less than you.
7. There is no such thing as a poser, observers yes. You are or you are not. It is the degree that sets you.
Closing: Success in life depends on your ability to use your skills to navigate through this life. Consider this when you post or reply to anything. People look at your posts as a window into your being. Is this person strong or weak, intelligent or simple, in control or out of control? What you say tells a great deal. If you want to be thought a bitch/asshole, post rashly. Remember those tend to remain alone. I have posted my opinion on this issue. I do not claim to represent anyone other than myself in this. Be well all.
Loki
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