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variation30 -> RE: Why wont they go away? (7/9/2009 10:37:41 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey
I run a local TNG group along with my Leather sister.
In the past (about 2 years ago) our mutual ex and his now current ex wife, tried to start a TNG group here but failed. They couldent get people organized, they had no real idea of what they were doing, ect.
Well, I spent a month (after leaveing the ex) setting a TNG email list up, ect. We have now had one offcial meeting, and quite a few unoffcial events, munches, ect.
Thr group has been together 3 months and is just astounding in how active and wonderful the memebers are.
Now the Ex's are pissed off because we the new TNG dont have the same ideas or rules and regulations as they did when they tried to start a group.
Obviously, this was done for a reason. they failed with what they tried, so my Sister and I went a different path and have succeded.
Now they are on my email list constantly bitching and moaning about how crappy of a group we are running ect.
I dont want to kick them out of the email list, for a fear of looking childish to the community, by "getting back at them" for being bitches on my forum.
How do I deal with this? They are just getting stupid and vicious. I or my sister have YET to insult anyone or insinuate their group lacked in anything ect.....
So I dont really know what to do. They are throwing personal attacks into the groups, that no one but me or my Sister would understand. So i cant really prove they are being childish and drama queens.
What do I do?
if they don't like it, they do not have to participate.
keep doing a good job and anyone they try to complain to will view them as petty. treat all grievances and suggestions, even theirs, openly. that will kick their legs out from under them because if their complaints are invalid and are shown to be motivated solely because they are upset they aren't running things, it will be apparent to the group will ignore them. you'll get rid of them without having to worry about politics.
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