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ORIGINAL: littlewonder


If what you seek is the beat n fuck type you'd be better off going to a local bdsm club. You'll find lots and lots there who are looking for exactly that for a night.

Good luck to you both. You'll need it.

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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW

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i am tired and you people are as stubborn and hard headed as my children . crap !!! just so you can sleep tonight , no one here thinks that subs are doormats . we simply dont want a committment with anyone . He made a committment and it was to me . we are not poly or mormans . to extend a committment to another would be unfair and dishonest . we do not want anyone to quit thier lives to be part of ours ...why is that so freaking hard to swallow ???? when you go out to eat you look at the menu and decide what you will order ect ....you do not take the cook home .....

Ok, just to clarify terms here, what you are looking for is a -bottom-... someone who just wants a casual BDSM play relationship, and doesn't want any kind of a commitment or relationship along with it.

It sounds to me like it is an issue with the terms -you- are using, not with the things people are asking for. You've made it -very- clear that your husband has a slave, and it's you, and you're not looking for anyone to 'rock your happy marriage boat'.

I have a -huge- question... the "elephant in the room" so to speak... if your husband has a slave, and you two are, as -you've- implied, NOT poly and are already everything you need for each other, why are you out there looking for play partners anyway? What are you looking for? What kind of play? What kind of service? What are you offering if you're only offering the equivalent of a BDSM one-night-stand, and why should they pick you?

The way you're written up, I don't know -any- of the bottoms in our area who'd even consider a situation like you describe, and yours and your wife's hot-headed, snarky responses to comments on the boards certainly wouldn't entice any of the bottoms I know. (And yes, I'm familiar with dealing with bottoms. I do temporary artistic piercing, and don't have a full-time person who enjoys piercing, so that's why _I_ look... and they get the endorphin high and usually a snapshot of some incredible artwork on their bodies in exchange for an hour or so of sitting while I insert needles... usually along with some pleasant conversation and maybe even dinner and a drink (a well-fed bottom manages much better for a session of needle-work).

Dame Calla

Dame Calla

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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal

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I'm just being a sweetheart and providing a much needed part of the game.

Not to mention a much-needled part of the game.

I'm glad I read this silly thread as far as I did. The game idea is excellent.

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ORIGINAL: LinnaeaBorealis

Sheesh!!  I always get here late.  The OP's profile is no longer found.  Harumph!!  But I love the cribbage game idea & the recipes.  Yummmmmm

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Someone might play my game!!!!!!

If anyone does, please post in Positive Experiences.  I would love to read about it.

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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

Were you on a steady diet of crack while you were "away"?

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And one more thing   anyone else find it hard to decipher who exactly they were talking to each time?

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ORIGINAL: MisterP61

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I am starting a petition drive to get a scampering unicorn smiley for DemonKia

And one more thing   anyone else find it hard to decipher who exactly they were talking to each time?

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WyldHrt

Oh yeah. There was more than one post where they appeared to be making a childish personal attack on themselves. Gotta love trolls on crack!

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ORIGINAL: werurdom

see now a logical conversation is lost