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Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 7:49:34 PM   
GrImmDarklight


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Status: offline 		I am posting this on behalf of my Master. He has things under control but is trying to think of different disciplinary actions that can be taken with minimal equipment, noise or visible marks. We trying not to be repetitive but find ourselves limited.

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 8:01:25 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GrImmDarklight

I am posting this on behalf of my Master. He has things under control but is trying to think of different disciplinary actions that can be taken with minimal equipment, noise or visible marks. We trying not to be repetitive but find ourselves limited.





Mmkay... another dom with a lack of imagination.

I refer you to my journal, for funishment ideas.


That's all I've got, for now. Good luck with that.


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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 8:03:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		How about the old-fashioned school marm punishments...
such as standing with arms extended to the side holding a heavy book in each hand.

Now that I think about it, sadists who attended catholic school have a leg up on those who didn't.


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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 9:02:46 PM   
GrImmDarklight


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Status: offline 		dreamerdreaming:
i'm sorry to say but your journal wasn't that helpful.

Arpig:
Thank You. Master said he wishes he'd been to a Catholic school, but it gives us a whole category of punishment ideas neither of us thought of (probably because neither of us are Catholic).

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 9:08:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are MANY different things that one can do. It requires an Imagination.

The Main question is are you doing this for Fun and Enjoyment or do you just keep fucking up and needing to be Punished.

If you are looking for Kink and Funishment then Your Imagination is the limit without an Imagination I would ask what is the point.

If you are looking for ACTUAL Discipline I would want to know why you are constantly in need of it?

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 9:12:38 PM   
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Status: offline 		It's not that there is a constant need, but i am new to this and can get a bit headstrong sometimes. Master feels that repetitive punishment ceases to be punishment.

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 9:18:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		I have a simple punishment that requires no tools and requires no noise.

Each time you get headstrong you get sent away for a day longer than you did the Time before.

First time. One Day NO contact
Second Time. Two Days NO contact.
So on and so forth. Eventually you won't have to worry about screwing up in the time you are away there will be sufficent time to find someone who WANTS to surrender to him.

This Might sound very Rude but I think this would get you in the right head space because the fact is Punishemnt of ANY kind obviously isn't working it would seem the only thing that matters to you is getting what you want out of him so remove the thing you want "HIM" and maybe just maybe your desire to be headstrong might be less driven.

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 9:19:40 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GrImmDarklight

It's not that there is a constant need, but i am new to this and can get a bit headstrong sometimes. Master feels that repetitive punishment ceases to be punishment.


The punishment, of course, should fit the crime. What kinds of things are you doing that need to be corrected?

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 9:41:18 PM   
GrImmDarklight


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Status: offline 		I just get hyper sometimes and keep bugging Him.
For instance, today, i kept wanting to touch Him, but my touch was light and tickled His arm. He was working on His computer and got rather irritated.



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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 10:27:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: GrImmDarklight

I am posting this on behalf of my Master. He has things under control but is trying to think of different disciplinary actions that can be taken with minimal equipment, noise or visible marks. Here



Here is a fresh IDEA.  Do As your told,  When your told!  Then HE won't have to be creative.  I can count on one hand the number of times I had to teach my girl of over 4 years a lesson. 

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/12/2009 11:33:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SteelofUtah

Eventually you won't have to worry about screwing up in the time you are away there will be sufficent time to find someone who WANTS to surrender to him.

This is normally and personally what I'd think also but a few weeks back, while talking with a good friend of mine from the boards, I came to a certain mini-epiphany that some people may actually need/want their dominance/submission/dynamic to be reinforced and exhibited through a life of tumult, where at each moment of disobedience there is the opportunity for the D-type to assert hir dominance via the punishment and for the sub to assert hir submission by being put in hir place (whereas I and, I think, you would have our dynamics more reinforced by a passive balance where the need for punishment isn't necessary because obedience has been firmly established).

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 12:50:04 AM   
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Status: offline 		I've always found the introduction of clowns tends to change the dynamic a lot. And balloons. And ice cream cakes. And...oh, wait, we were talking about birthday parties, right?

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 1:48:55 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think you'd best ask this question in the sub section and phrase it differently as like: what is your favorite punishment... you might get perhaps a better response...

He could...
-put a peg on your tongue if he gets sick of your nattering all the time
-make you do the house work in the nude whilst whipping you if you have not done all your jobs correctly
-Tickle you till you almost pee yourself if you dissagree with him about anything
-make you go shopping with your boobies tied or wearing a nappy if you nag him to come with you
-use you as a footstool whilst he watches his favorite program if you have complained about something or want to watch something else.
-Or have you naked and blindfolded next to him on the settee while he watches porn.

I could go on and on and on and on... what do you (not) like?

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 2:00:05 AM   
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I think you'd best ask this question in the sub section and phrase it differently as like: what is your favorite punishment... you might get perhaps a better response...

I disagree. Such a post would most likely get a bevy of questions/ lectures on punishment vs funishment.

OP- if he is wanting to correct an undesired behaviour on your part, it's best if the punishment fits the crime, so to speak. It doesn't have to be creative, it just has to work (the most frikkin boring thing in the world might be the best punishment, and often is). As your D, I assume that he knows you much better than we do.

If you are after "funishment", that is another thing entirely and has nothing to do with correcting behaviour.
If your D is mixing the two, that might not be a good idea. Mixed signals rarely are. 




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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 3:18:33 AM   
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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

I think you'd best ask this question in the sub section and phrase it differently as like: what is your favorite punishment... you might get perhaps a better response...

I disagree. Such a post would most likely get a bevy of questions/ lectures on punishment vs funishment.






as it seems to do here unfortunately, how boring

Op: for touching his arm so lightly and annoying him i think he should tweezer out quite a few of your body hairs, that might teach you

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 7:12:00 AM   
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ORIGINAL: ranja

I think you'd best ask this question in the sub section and phrase it differently as like: what is your favorite punishment...
Personally, as an "s" type, I don't think you should have a FAVORITE punishment.

For me, just knowing he's perturbed with me works better than anything else he could come with.

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 7:45:43 AM   
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Status: offline 		oh yes...the disappointed 'look'
maybe be grounded for a week
not get any pocket money?

To me the whole BDSM thing is a game...and i like playing it, it is in my blood...
I personally love it when my Husband is sick of me nattering on about something and starts tickling me until i beg for mercy and promise Him i will shut up...
i love laughter... if He would decide i have been out of line and am to stand naked in the corner with a carrot up my butt thinking on my short comings for some time... i would be well impressed...

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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 8:15:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GrImmDarklight

It's not that there is a constant need, but i am new to this and can get a bit headstrong sometimes. Master feels that repetitive punishment ceases to be punishment.


i don't know that repeated punishment is going to make you any more willing to obey. i'd recommend you take a good look at your own motives here.  From my perspective, submission is not something that can be punished into a person. You either want to submit or you don't. If you don't at this time, then i suggest looking at why. Are there some fears going on? Do you trust your Master? Don't be afraid to look inside. There's nothing wrong with an unwillingness to surrender if you can't do it. It is important to stand toe to toe with what you're honestly feeling and communicate that to your Master. You can play this punishment game if that's what you both want - but if you're seeking something else, then look deeper.


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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 8:36:52 AM   
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dreamerdreaming:
i'm sorry to say but your journal wasn't that helpful.



Oh, darn.

Yeah see I don't have a punishment dynamic with my slave. Its just not necessary because he is my willing, obedient slave.

So the stuff in my journal is all funishment. That's how we roll.





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RE: Creative Discipline - 7/13/2009 9:56:13 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GrImmDarklight

I just get hyper sometimes and keep bugging Him.
For instance, today, i kept wanting to touch Him, but my touch was light and tickled His arm. He was working on His computer and got rather irritated.





I would tell you to go to your room until you were ready to act like an adult. How long that took would be up to you.

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