LadiesBladewing
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I came into this via the long, and somewhat rare path (in this day and age). I came in as a servant, served for 5 years, learned what I could from that, graduated to First Servant/Chatalaine status, spent time in that role and trained other servants to House standards, was offered mentorship in the household I served in as a dominant member, completed my mentorship, and was given a station in the Household commesurate with my years of overall service to the House and what I could offer from skills obtained outside of the House.
It's taken me over a decade to get here. I wouldn't have done it any other way.
The woman with whom I share matriarchal responsibilities here came in as a mentored dominant member. She, too, spent years training, though she didn't do the "servant" end of things formally, like I did.
There are different paths for different people, but don't rush yourself. Patience and dedication will serve you well in the long run, even when they seem tedious and boring in the short term.
Lady Zephyr
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ORIGINAL: Neocrash
Hello. I am a beginner. I am finding that I am interested in submissive men. I am interested in learning more about becoming a Domme. I have talked to some men online and there seem to be alot of people sort of in it for a quick fix. I am interested in learning more how to make a man submit to me. I know everyone is different but how do you get out of the starting gate? 
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