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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: JonnieBoy

Personality of course, sense of humour and a filthy mind (you know who you are ... )

Pirate

I do NOT have a filthy mind... (well, not usually.. you must bring it out in me....)

For me, personality, sense of humor, intelligence, self-confidence.

Ok, and the bald head, and understanding that I am owned by the cats (and being ok with that!!) doesn't hurt either!!  LOL

• Mutual desire.
  
  
• The afore-mentioned, ineffable, & oh-so-eloquently discussed chemistry.
  
  
• Kinkiness.
  
  
• The usual suspects: honesty, positive attitude, hard working, smart enough, funny . . . . .
  
  
• I do like pretty, but that's so much in the eye of the beholder: for instance, I think Paul Krugman's adorable & sexy & way more desirable than a whole stack of obvious eye-candy . .. . .
  

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An accent.

the.dark.

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

This is Darcy

the.dark is very, very sexy! [;)]

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What attracts you to another?

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What attracts you to another?

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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda


Yeah, but you don't always consciously recognize what the reasons are, because they're often vibrating at a frequency too low or too high for the human mind to hear. Only the heart can hear it. I've long since given up trying to explain what makes someone "click" for me; I've finally come to accept that I'll never know for sure, and that it really doesn't matter. If it's there, it's there, and if it ain't there it ain't never gonna be there. I don't care what else is there; if the click isn't happening, nothing else is happening either. I don't care how much i like someone, i don't care how beautiful she is, I don't care how wonderful a person she is, if the chemistry isn't right, we can never be happy together.

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ORIGINAL: Darcyandthedark

This is Darcy

the.dark is very, very sexy! [;)]

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ORIGINAL: xBullx

<-----magical vibe

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ORIGINAL: daintydimples

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ORIGINAL: ThatDamnedPanda


Yeah, but you don't always consciously recognize what the reasons are, because they're often vibrating at a frequency too low or too high for the human mind to hear. Only the heart can hear it. I've long since given up trying to explain what makes someone "click" for me; I've finally come to accept that I'll never know for sure, and that it really doesn't matter. If it's there, it's there, and if it ain't there it ain't never gonna be there. I don't care what else is there; if the click isn't happening, nothing else is happening either. I don't care how much i like someone, i don't care how beautiful she is, I don't care how wonderful a person she is, if the chemistry isn't right, we can never be happy together.

Truer words were never spoken, about this subject at least. Allow me to substitute he for she.

I'm starting to like ThatDamnedPanda

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ORIGINAL: Esinn

The heart is a involuntary muscle, about the size of your fist, designed to pump blood through the body using 4 chambers.  Our heart works if we desire it to or not, it simply does not give a shit.  The heart knows nothing of love, happiness or emotion - it simply has not evolved in this fashion - this is a medieval misunderstanding

What we can change, understand and enjoy are our thoughts, our ideas, our ability to communicate.  Becoming more sensual, playful or informed. 
Many have expressed: Intelligence, Passion, Humor, Pride and strength.  These all fall within the realm of the mind.  Possibly ancient Egyptians believed this had something to with a heart.  Since that ancient time we have now learned to understand this is simply untrue. 

The thumping of the heart is one of the major systems which keeps us alive.  I understand the metaphysical connection people wish to make.  However, it is just a lazy view of looking at things.

Why not really question ourselves and demand answers?  Being open and honest with ourselves is so much more fun - who more important to be honest to?

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"The thumping of the heart is one of the major systems which keeps us alive.  I understand the metaphysical connection people wish to make.  However, it is just a lazy view of looking at things.

Why not really question ourselves and demand answers?  Being open and honest with ourselves is so much more fun - who more important to be honest to? "