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masters' fantasies - 7/16/2009 2:22:18 PM   
daintydimples


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Top/Doms/Masters: How likely are YOU to share your deep dark fantasies?
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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/16/2009 2:31:43 PM   
GeekFreak


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Status: offline 		Extremely...because...well...I'd intend to have her play out most of those fantasies. :P

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/16/2009 3:56:08 PM   
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Status: offline 		It would be great if Sir shared His fantasies, I'd love to make them come true! 


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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/16/2009 5:24:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		If by "share" you mean just tell conversationally, I suppose I might. But more likely I'd just "make it so."

Last Tuesday for example ...


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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/16/2009 5:52:31 PM   
daintydimples


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Status: offline 		Thank you for the responses.

Many Masters would of course "just make it so." I guess the operatives words there were "deep dark."

Many (I would say most) doms want the sub to confess deep dark fantasies, but as sweetsub pointed out, some do not reciprocate.







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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/16/2009 6:20:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		I know he fantasizes about tying two women at once. But he also isn't going to make it so, at least not with me as one. Deep, dark fantasies are quite likely to remain that way since too often they aren't safe and they could damage the submissive or the relationship.

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/16/2009 8:57:45 PM   
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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 12:27:56 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love it when my Dom shares with me.. It lets me have the chance to please without being told to.. or at least if it's doable.

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 1:55:51 AM   
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Status: offline 		We might not actually put them into play so to speak but yes, I like to share my desires and fantasies.  I like a sub to share hers and it's a relationship and it's a two-way street so I share mine too.

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 6:30:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

It would be great if Sir shared His fantasies, I'd love to make them come true! 



    You probably have.


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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 7:51:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Joseff

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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

It would be great if Sir shared His fantasies, I'd love to make them come true! 



   You probably have.



aaawww  That is so sweet.  Thank You.  :)

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 9:08:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: daintydimples

I've been reading the other thread about subs and fantasies, and did not want to hijack that one.

Top/Doms/Masters: How likely are YOU to share your deep dark fantasies?



My pet's introduction to kink comes mostly (exclusively) from her mistress and I. It took her some time to grow less and less judgmental of my desires. When we first met, the idea of cum in her hair was appalling and vile and not at all sexy. Now, she'd beg for it. I'm open with my girl, but I don't treat her like a journal.

I'm not in a unique position, in that I have a small submissive side, but align predominately as dominant. She knows my topply preferences, I've made my fantasies quite clear, with no remorse or shame. My bottomly tendencies, while she knows some of those kinks, we don't spend much time developing it.

I wonder what the occurrence rate of submissive fantasies is among dominant men, and how many of those are open and honest with their fantasies. Being open with fantasies one is expected to have is easy. Wanting taboos is hard. More accurately, expressing a desire for something taboo is hard.


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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 10:04:52 PM   
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Status: offline 		HK,what is it with cum in hair anyway? And he only wants that if I have just finished washing it. I've never gotten a straight answer out of him, he just laughs.

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 10:18:37 PM   
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HK,what is it with cum in hair anyway? And he only wants that if I have just finished washing it. I've never gotten a straight answer out of him, he just laughs.


I think it's a mix of marking and "my girl will do what others find appalling and ghastly." To me, knowing that her devotion to my happiness is so strong that her desire (to not have to brush spunk out of her hair for an hour) comes second is very flattering.

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 10:21:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		It is ghastly. It's like glue in the hair. Takes a full wash with extra conditioner to get it clean. And when you have as much hair as I do, it's a major pain.



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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/17/2009 10:29:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		I and my little girl have and will continue to share our fantasies. She has an obligation to bring me any thoughts along those lines. I share mine with her because she deserves it, and she loves hearing dirty, nasty stuff.

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/18/2009 3:38:50 AM   
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Status: offline 		My biggest dream, would honestly be to help my Master to live out his deepest fantasy. Yes even the squicky ones.

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/18/2009 5:55:54 AM   
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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

It is ghastly. It's like glue in the hair. Takes a full wash with extra conditioner to get it clean. And when you have as much hair as I do, it's a major pain.




I know =\. Likely, he knows too. But while a submissive and a dominant can feel mutually happy engaging in certain acts, that makes it harder (scientists assume) to learn the lesson of "dominant first." Compared to trying times, in which the "sides" become clear. The reason the submissive is willing to continue is purely to serve, to fulfill his wishes. If asked out of context, she'd say "PFFT NO!" Which means all the motivation is directed toward him.

I'm not suggesting it's the best way to learn, nor that all couples can learn that way... But if it's available, it is rather effective.

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/18/2009 5:46:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		No argument. My comment was meant to be more light hearted. Not that other people won't do it or it is humiliating or anything, but it's so difficult to clean. On the other hand, the more often I have to wash this mop repeatedly to get it clean, the sooner the drain clogs up. And since he does the drain declogging, all I can say is payback is sweet!

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RE: masters' fantasies - 7/18/2009 5:56:59 PM   
daintydimples


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Status: offline 		Thank you all for responding. Much appreciated !!

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