Padriag
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ORIGINAL: daintydimples Top/Doms/Masters: How likely are YOU to share your deep dark fantasies? Two thoughts come to mind. First and most important, I would not want someone as a slave if I weren't able to be completely open with them about whatever fantasies I have. This is just part of my personal view of how I want things in my own home. Specifically... in my home, I ought feel completely comfortable. Since, at least in theory, I own said slave... why in the world should I have to hide such things from my own property in my own home? If she can't handle it, whatever "it" turns out to be... then she doesn't belong there. But second, I find as I've grown older... I don't really have any deep dark fantasies anymore. I'll admit I used to when I was younger... and some of them I explored. But the curiously enough, as time has passed I've found that many of those old fantasies lost their appeal for one reason or another. Some of them I discovered I didn't really want... oh they sounded erotic enough, some still do... but the reality just doesn't match the fantasy. Others, I tried, and they were fun for awhile... and then they weren't. Then there are some that... well... I tried them, I liked them... and they don't seem either deep or dark anymore... just another kink, but minus whatever mystery was there before. Funny how your perspective changes over time. Besides, as I've also learned over the years, no matter what your fantasy may be, you'll find a surprising number of people who share it. Take for example one of mine. Taking a slave out into the woods in some remote area, strip her naked, give her a 10 min head start and then "hunt" her. I once had a sort of short story about that in my journal... it garnered quite a bit of email from various submissives who thought it was a huge turn on... a couple of which volunteered to be hunted... and two of which I am still friends with (one of whom is now a Domme and probably reading this). Now if I'd never posted that, just think the adventure I'd have missed out on... not to mention two very lovely friends.
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Padriag A stern discipline pervades all nature, which is a little cruel so that it may be very kind - Edmund Spencer
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