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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 9:49:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I had a fem top who I absolutely adore... she is an amazing person... and while there was definite pain involved in our play, there was also much sensual stuff...

soft whispers of love/promises of more pain...

gentle touches following/followed by pain

caresses and kisses

None of it was sexual (in the sense of penetrative/oral) sex.

Time with her is still counted as in the top three experiences of my life.


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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 9:50:06 AM   
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Status: offline 		Also, its pretty difficult, to introduce something like that into a scene allready based on another sensation. Imagine if you will,

A heavy flogging scene, nothing particularly "nice" about it, (assumeing safe players here..go with it) the top drops the floggers, reachs down and just punches directly into the meat/soft spot on the side of the asscheek, at that point the top holds the submissive up (charly horses are a BITCH) and *lightly*  trails the tip ends of a soft ostrich feather over the outside of the submissive's pectoral region (forgive, im going with guys on this also, us Lady tops can be just as awesomely crule) slowly making long circles until, they flick the top of the nipple with their thumb. Sorry at that point, me as the submissive? Total sensory overload, and honestly the reaction could be anything from tears to begging for sex.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 9:53:02 AM   
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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 9:55:14 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know, I fucked myself up on that one....damn my twisted mind. SEE?!!! thats the cool part of being a switch, I Dom myself into puddles of goo.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 9:57:40 AM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 9:58:39 AM   
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< Message edited by Sunnyfey -- 7/17/2009 9:59:48 AM >

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:05:29 AM   
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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:06:26 AM   
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Status: offline 		*raises brow* No miss Greedy one, I'm single again.

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speaking of sensuality - 7/17/2009 10:09:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		She starts by winding Her fingers through my hair, bends my head over to the side, leans down breathing on my neck. Her lips part and She reveals her teeth...  She dives in.. her teeth on my neck, knawing. She sucks avidly at the flesh in Her mouth while knawing it. i close my eyes and groan long.  She Increases the intensity of her bite.  Her hand twisting in my hair, pulling it, Her teeth on my neck all a delicious pain...  im rapidly looseing myself to Her as she pulls me from myself.. my moans, my groans increased in frequency. She has me, and She is acutely aware of it.  i inhale shaply as Her teeth all but tear into me... Her presence More then felt.. but known on an indescrible level wich far deeper then anything ive ever previosly known!  i melt.  im utterly Hers. i couldnt move now if i wanted to. im totally lost to Her...
She starts to pull away... my flesh still between Her teeth... pulling it as well..  my flesh gets abraded and pinched as She slowly pulls Her mouth off my neck. with my flesh so sensitive by then, i whimper with reaction.  She takes her time, drawing it out...  afterward, i can feel Her hot beath still on my neck... and her tongue licking the spot she had bitten.  
 
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yes this happens. i end up uhhh... whew.. i cant do much for a time after one of those.  just kinda stand or sit there.  hopefully sit so i wont fall down.

~vasha

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:09:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		oh, so you are definitely fake./..because you cant possibly be single and wanting sensuality....  *giggles* 

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:10:17 AM   
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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:13:24 AM   
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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:14:25 AM   
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Status: offline 		So, uh, Ms. GreedyBoy......

Will your husband kick my ass if I mention that I would love it if you and I co-topped the divine Miss Sunnyfey?  Right about NOW?

Edited to add: In a sensual sensual way of course.


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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:15:37 AM   
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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:15:39 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Sensuality is high on my list of things I enjoy.  I teach a class called

quote:

Playing Without a Toybag Can you do an entire scene without resorting to a toybag? Playing without toys can be a refreshing change and an invigorating challenge. Most of us use our hands and our mouths but there are so many more possibilities. Bondage and restraint using only the weight of the whole body, fingernails cut into spikes, the hair used as a soft caress or as rope to strangle a cock or cut into a cunt. Guttural grunts or elegant whispers layered with sharp grasping fingernails or the gentle brush of hair can send a submissive over the edge in an almost lost art called guided fantasies. Free yourself from the line waiting for a spanking bench or a cross and sit them in a simple chair, tilt them off balance and away you go.


Sometimes layering that sensation with contrast can be quite sensual.  Whispering softly in their ear about how beautiful their tears are to you can be quite sensual as your hot breath caresses their neck, your lips brush softly against their ear all while brutally forcing your cock in and out of their ass.

OH!
 
MY!
 
G-D!
 
THUD!

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:17:40 AM   
GreedyTop


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

So, uh, Ms. GreedyBoy......

Will your husband kick my ass if I mention that I would love it if you and I co-topped the divine Miss Sunnyfey?  Right about NOW?

Edited to add: In a sensual sensual way of course.



I'm allowed to top girls ;)


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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:19:23 AM   
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30 points......

*runs off cackeling*

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:25:50 AM   
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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

So, uh, Ms. GreedyBoy......

Will your husband kick my ass if I mention that I would love it if you and I co-topped the divine Miss Sunnyfey?  Right about NOW?

Edited to add: In a sensual sensual way of course.



I'm allowed to top girls ;)



There's your answer.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:31:45 AM   
Sunnyfey


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Status: offline 		Nap time for me and the roomies um's, Keep talking yall, I want lots of sexy awesome sensuality stories, and your general thoughts on why it isnt as popular in the scene at large as it should be.

Love you all,
Sunny

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:35:30 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey

I want ... your general thoughts on why it isnt as popular in the scene at large as it should be.

Love you all,
Sunny


Because most people play casually, it tends to be hot for the persons in the scene but it is boring to watch and isn't showy like using a single tail or florentine flogging and doesn't make all the newbies hot and bothered.

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