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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 3:37:25 PM

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I agree which is why I have invested my time in how to be sensual in so many ways from a kiss to a touch to an icecube ran down her back after a good spanking and her body is red hot and aive...It does do something to them that they totalyy do not expect..I call it by its name Sensual torture and I am perfecting it to a science by taking mental and physical torture and combining it with sensual torture and calling it Sir Nathan's OMW...

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/17/2009 10:20:21 PM

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I do not have a youtube video of this so I will try to explain.
(VNV Nation softly in the back ground)

Sensual is roughly cinching back the rope Bound calves and knees thrust hips up throwing the ass in the air. This posture was done to avoid the burning the rope might have caused if pulled directly across the body. With a hand full of hair pulling the head towards your waist while gently stepping on the back.. Sensual is not intentional, it is discovered in the moment. This posture forced now by the top. Everything snaps in place. The contour of the spine up to the ass seems so natural - like a wave in the ocean. The neck pulled back forcing out the chest - the moment is exquisite. Your mind envisions the position being held forever some wine? hot wax? Gently but with more pressure on the back the knot was tied off in place. Trying to look up and over, "If you do this you can not access me." Shut the fuck up! whispered in the ear *smack* this is not about the sex*smack* Now grabbing the throat running the free hand down all the contours of the body, "I will show you what this is about". A hook smacks down to dangle in front of the face then inserted in the nose to maintain the postures. "This is what it is about"

Stepping back, not loosing the moment to see what you have 'created'. After the onneness randomly on each 2,3, or 4th beat of the music watching each welt bubble causing the body to roll like the wave.

Not considering Hollywood sensuality. . . Sensual is an unplanned overwhelming desire to loose one self in the moment with little regard of consequences often present is well thought moments/scenes. A dinner date, a movie, a scene. It is not 'bdsm' specific.

Listening with unquestionable attention during obviously drawn out after care so the moment can be savoured can be sensual/erotic.

Possibly this definition is unique to me. I've never tried any of the above and could use a volunteer to verify it's sensuality.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 1:24:49 AM

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Good answer Esinn!!!

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 2:22:06 AM

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Now sensuality is talking my language....

I can quite easily be brought to the brink my hearing and feeling his breath on my neck or ear, by sensing he is stood right close behind me without actually touching me, when he runs a finger so delicately from my ankle up to my neck... then we go to the whole hot versus cold thing. Ice and wax is your friend.

I love sensory torture... gearing your body up to expect one thing and then giving it something completely opposite.
Mmmm it really does drive me wild.... I can climax without sex and this is probably the best way to do it.

Another thought.... It works even better for me if one sense is restricted while the others are toyed with, it heightens my reactions expenentially. So blindfold me then whisper in my ear and watch me writhe in delight

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 7:50:25 AM

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Say I as a woman, if the above mentioned situation were to occur, i know I would feel a deeper emotional release, on top of said physical reactions. At that point its not about anyone watching, its about me and the Other. I dont care if we are infront of thousands of people, I wont hear, or sense anyone but the person infront of me. so by that theroy alone, wouldent one think, that it would establish a greater connection between the two people involved?

Had meant to return to this earlier (particularly as it relates to public play). There is a distinct difference in the directives of such play based on who the (subsconsciously?) intended audience is. This may likely be the case also depending on how emotionally intimate the players are.

Unless it's a more private group setting, I think many tops can get caught up in the "display" of the acts. I mean...a whole bunch of D-types in a public courtship-oriented setting trying to project an aura of 'dominance' that will attract potential partners (or at least some concept of peer respect) means the most flamboyant or extreme play will come out because the audience is the onlookers.

Going back to what you wrote above, however, when the focal shift switches to treating the bottom as the audience, the result has the potential to change drastically. Where I'm being directly conscious of every bead of sweat forming on her skin, the increasing vibration of her knees, the shifting pace of her breathing...where, like you said "I dont care if we are infront of thousands of people, I wont hear, or sense anyone but the person infront of me."

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 7:59:07 AM

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*mutters under her breath and scratches her nose*

Thank you for agrre ing with my point. heh

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 8:00:28 AM

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quote:

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*mutters under her breath and scratches her nose*

Thank you for agrre ing with my point. heh

*ahem* Sorry, cant type quite yet

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 8:20:12 AM

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did you see mine? page two...

just curious

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 10:28:32 AM

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quote:

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Good answer Esinn!!!

I try my best.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 12:33:10 PM

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Personally, I find sensuality far more satisfying and enjoying than sexuality which on some occasions reminds me of animals copulating. I enjoy the mind sets, the innovating techniques which can be used and which can also be quite arousing even without touching any of the sexual areas. Of course this can lead to more erotic things and even intercourse is desired by both parties. For similar reasons I don't flatter or make passes. Flatter is often based on a falsehood and thus a lie and passes are usually crude and a huge turn off. Complements and direct honesty works better in my experience. Still this just one man's opinion and others will fond things different for them.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/18/2009 8:00:54 PM

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Okay okay, this one makes me puddle every time. After a good, hard flogging, caning, paddling, etc, while the heat is reaching the highest point and nearly radiating from your skin... a wartenberg wheel that has been stashed in the freezer slowly ran over that still hot flesh... the mix of the chill and the sharp pricking sensation...

*ahem*

Um.... heh, there you go.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 2:40:42 AM

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*wanders off to buy a wartenburg wheel*

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 7:25:12 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: caelestis

Okay okay, this one makes me puddle every time. After a good, hard flogging, caning, paddling, etc, while the heat is reaching the highest point and nearly radiating from your skin... a wartenberg wheel that has been stashed in the freezer slowly ran over that still hot flesh... the mix of the chill and the sharp pricking sensation...

*ahem*

Um.... heh, there you go.

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*wanders off to buy a wartenburg wheel*

Was thinking last night; that may not be quite as easy to make a homemade version of...

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 7:27:40 AM

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Oh one could make one.....

I'm thinking a small wooden wheel, like for toy cars, with sharpened tacks (could take a long time, but worth it), then connected to a handle that allows it to freely turn....Bet I could make one in a few hours with the right supplies.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 11:20:22 AM

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I am loving the thriftyness and ingenuity here!

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 11:24:19 AM

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I'd rather make something then buy it

thus my reasoning for learning how to plate rawhide. I'm gonna make myself a new whip....I think, purple and black paracord...

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 11:51:52 AM

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quote:

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I'd rather make something then buy it

thus my reasoning for learning how to plate rawhide. I'm gonna make myself a new whip....I think, purple and black paracord...

Oh wow... that sounds gorgeous, would love to see it when its done.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 11:53:08 AM

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Definately!!! Now I just have to learn how to do it, though, I've been doing macrame or, corchet and knitting for years...bet i can figure it out.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 11:54:29 AM

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Martha Stewart of the BDSM world?

Sorry, couldn't help myself.

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RE: Sensuality 101 - 7/19/2009 12:54:08 PM

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Now I wants to start a tv show...thanks kitten

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