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NihilusZero -> RE: Sensuality 101 (7/18/2009 7:50:25 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Sunnyfey
Say I as a woman, if the above mentioned situation were to occur, i know I would feel a deeper emotional release, on top of said physical reactions. At that point its not about anyone watching, its about me and the Other. I dont care if we are infront of thousands of people, I wont hear, or sense anyone but the person infront of me. so by that theroy alone, wouldent one think, that it would establish a greater connection between the two people involved?
Had meant to return to this earlier (particularly as it relates to public play). There is a distinct difference in the directives of such play based on who the (subsconsciously?) intended audience is. This may likely be the case also depending on how emotionally intimate the players are.
Unless it's a more private group setting, I think many tops can get caught up in the "display" of the acts. I mean...a whole bunch of D-types in a public courtship-oriented setting trying to project an aura of 'dominance' that will attract potential partners (or at least some concept of peer respect) means the most flamboyant or extreme play will come out because the audience is the onlookers.
Going back to what you wrote above, however, when the focal shift switches to treating the bottom as the audience, the result has the potential to change drastically. Where I'm being directly conscious of every bead of sweat forming on her skin, the increasing vibration of her knees, the shifting pace of her breathing...where, like you said "I dont care if we are infront of thousands of people, I wont hear, or sense anyone but the person infront of me."
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