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SLAVEBOY32 -> RE: Rant! Explain it to Me?! (8/17/2009 6:19:15 PM)
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I despise flakey people, and pride myself on not being one. This does happen to me alot more in the D/s community I notice then in vanilla land. But I must confess, once....I did something sort of similar to what you described. I do not think the reason I acted in this manner, is the same reason he is acting in that manner, based off what you have said about him being on line. But here goes. Some years ago, my former Domme and I split up. We were apart for 8 or 10 weeks. At around week 4 of the break up, I rejoined C.M. I made a few Domme-friends on here, who I really enjoyed talking to, and had a couple Dommes I was interested in and vice versa. We had not gotten to the point of exchanging numbers or anything. At around the 10 week mark, my Domme and I got back together. We had 4 years of history when we had broken up. We had lived together for 3 years before splitting up, and immediately resumed doing so. So, out of respect for my Domme, I signed on to CM one last time, and closed the account. No explanation to my friends or the Domme I was interested in. Did not open my mailbox, nothing. Just came on, and closed the account and never looked back.
A little over two years later, (Feb 08)we called it quits again. I came back on line, and while I did not attempt to contact the Dommes I had been chatting with for D/s puposes, I did try to contact the ones I had been talking to for social puposes. To my surprise, a couple of the ones I was friends with, were still really pissed. Even after I explained my reasons.
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