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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 4:04:24 PM   
RedMagic1


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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal
I get men describing in loving, gloating detail doing to me the things that cause me the most extreme feelings of horror and self-hatred.

Thanks for posting this.  Hopefully it gives twentyforseven some perspective on what it means to be a woman on a kink site.


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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 4:12:25 PM   
CarrieO


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Welcome to the internet.  What do you do about rude people?  Well, you could do what I just did with the rude " you dirty slut turn on your cam, get on your knees, contact me and be prepared to act like the slut you are" email I open 5 minutes ago....block sender, delete message and get on with my day.

People can be rude.  People on the internet can be even worse because they're anonymous.  Life goes on...trust me

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 4:38:29 PM   
twentyforseven


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Status: offline 		Most of your advice as not to take a nasty comment to serious and personal is very good and really who wants to be with a mean person anyway, but pointing out insulting behavior patterns and having a general discussion about it can be helpful , in particular newcomer can feel that they are not alone against the “ugly”.

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 4:42:17 PM   
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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 6:32:19 PM   
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ORIGINAL: twentyforseven

Most of your advice as not to take a nasty comment to serious and personal is very good and really who wants to be with a mean person anyway, but pointing out insulting behavior patterns and having a general discussion about it can be helpful , in particular newcomer can feel that they are not alone against the “ugly”.


Another thing to consider.........you can either allow yourself to be insulted or not. Most of the time, I prefer to not allow it.

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 7:13:10 PM   
reify


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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 7:49:09 PM   
twentyforseven


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Status: offline 		Great, I am " well educated, articulate, and can use big, fancy words, properly.....". Thanks LaTigresse

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 7:50:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: twentyforseven

Hi,

four months ago I sent a short message to a user complementing the writing of her profile.


“If you like my profile and want to know more about me I am happy to hear from you. Your list of fetishes looks perfect to me. I like to ad that your profile displays emotional intelligence and makes more sense then most I have ever seen. XXOO”

I just now got the following answer:

“not interested in superficial bastards who picture surf.”

Please note she : “Deleted Unread”

Do any you have a policy how to deal with people who just insult others for no reason at all?




I would track her down and wrap her windshield wipers with fruit rollups.

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 8:01:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth


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ORIGINAL: Rule

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ORIGINAL: twentyforseven
Do any you have a policy how to deal with people who just insult others for no reason at all?

Shrug and move on.


That can be really problematic sometimes. Imagine if this sort of response is all you're getting - if you get no positive feedback, and nothing but negative bitching, eventually it starts to wear on one's mental health.


If the only responses you are getting are negative, then maybe the problem is not with the people responding.

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 8:18:39 PM   
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If the only responses you are getting are negative, then maybe the problem is not with the people responding.


Also very true! Some people are simply utter failures at life.

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 8:18:40 PM   
mystiquenz


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if she is local to you, then ask her when you go to a munch.  Who knows, if she is local to you then she probably had a pmt day!  There is no reason for rude behaviour, even online.   

If she's zillions of miles away, then really Sir, why don't you just wash your hands and move on. 

she probably had one of those sexy profile pictures which men masturbate over when they log on.  If that is the situation, you have saved yourself being tied up in knots over some one who probably isn't real anyway. 

Looking forward to seeing you the next time I attend a munch up your way. 

Well wishes,
mystiquenz

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 8:40:30 PM   
DemonKia


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Well said, too . ... .

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ORIGINAL: mystiquenz

she probably had one of those sexy profile pictures which men masturbate over when they log on.  If that is the situation, you have saved yourself being tied up in knots over some one who probably isn't real anyway. 


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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 8:44:07 PM   
mystiquenz


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gives her a knowing *wink*

wishes DemonKia well.,


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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 9:12:08 PM   
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I challenge them to a duel. But that's just me.

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 9:13:43 PM   
twentyforseven


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Status: offline 		Thanks for asking but no she's not from around here but it's not about that, in fact I think it’s better to find out if someone has 35 days pre-menstrual tension in a month before the first date.
Best wishes to you to.

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 9:21:11 PM   
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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 9:22:13 PM   
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Yes. And depending on how infantile they become, it becomes not nearly so passive.

*Repeats what NZ said in a silly voice.*


10 points.


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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 9:23:58 PM   
twentyforseven


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[sORIGINAL: mystiquenz "he probably had one of those sexy profile pictures which men masturbate over"]

PS: No her picture is awful but I liked the writing

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 9:25:47 PM   
Racquelle


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ORIGINAL: CaringandReal  I get men describing in loving, gloating detail doing to me the things that cause me the most extreme feelings of horror and self-hatred.
Are you getting e-mails from that guy about the polyester double-knit dresses too?

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RE: people who just insult others for no reason at all - 7/24/2009 10:53:09 PM   
KneelforAnne


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ORIGINAL: Ialdabaoth


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ORIGINAL: Rule

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ORIGINAL: twentyforseven
Do any you have a policy how to deal with people who just insult others for no reason at all?

Shrug and move on.


That can be really problematic sometimes. Imagine if this sort of response is all you're getting - if you get no positive feedback, and nothing but negative bitching, eventually it starts to wear on one's mental health.


And one's shoulders....  *smiles*

< Message edited by KneelforAnne -- 7/24/2009 10:58:57 PM >

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