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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 9:33:09 AM

MsStarlett

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ORIGINAL: fadedshadow

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I had a new 'no limits, no safeword' slave who called a safe word on the very first strike.

that couldn't have been very fun

It actually was. All my subs and most of my friends have a good laugh over that one. I tend to warn new boys that "I do NOT 'hit like a girl'."

As for poor Lobo.... Did you send her a pic of your 'package'? She may have spit more beverages on her keyboard than a Brawny towel could handle.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 9:35:07 AM

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Bad setting of a precedent here. Three emails and a block now is considered a "relationship." We're all doomed.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 9:46:49 AM

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What was said during these three messages? Sometimes a Mistress is looking for complete submission, in which, you may have let on that you were not completely submissive. OR, the other way around. Shes more of a switch, classified as a Mistress and you were too submissive. Females are quite hard to figure out. Even for other females.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 10:32:22 AM

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i told Her i was inferior and would always be inferior to Her. i was completely submissive. i did not disrespect Her in any fashion. i was completely polite obedient and submissive. Yet i was turned down. i m beginning to see tho that Your right. She was maybe just a user
kevin

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 11:00:42 AM

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Omg... so glad I set my coffee down!

Kevin this sounds like one of those kneel bitch emails and you complied too fast or from some of your other post... she said hi, you had her pictured in heels, taxi parked, walking down the street looking for someone to smack and she found you... then thought better of it... took her heels off and ran.

You really must love this dude.

Did Her sister work in security at the airport?

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 11:42:46 AM

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i told Her i was inferior and would always be inferior to Her. i was completely submissive. i did not disrespect Her in any fashion. i was completely polite obedient and submissive. Yet i was turned down. i m beginning to see tho that Your right. She was maybe just a user

Or, more likely, she read some of your posts and realized you were just plain hopeless.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 11:52:16 AM

MsSonnetMarwood

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

i told Her i was inferior and would always be inferior to Her. i was completely submissive. i did not disrespect Her in any fashion. i was completely polite obedient and submissive. Yet i was turned down. i m beginning to see tho that Your right. She was maybe just a user
kevin

Or maybe she felt that she deserved a sub who wasn't inferior and was therefor worthy of her time and attention.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 11:53:10 AM

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i told Her i was inferior and would always be inferior to Her. i was completely submissive. i did not disrespect Her in any fashion. i was completely polite obedient and submissive. Yet i was turned down. i m beginning to see tho that Your right. She was maybe just a user

Everyone has the right to change their minds, that doesn't make her a user

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:00:16 PM

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i told Her i was inferior and would always be inferior to Her. i was completely submissive. i did not disrespect Her in any fashion.

I think you may have disrespected her in her eyes, Kevin. Telling her that you are "her inferior" might, to her, have sounded like you wanted to get your kink on too early. I do think it's generally (though maybe not always) best to keep kink out of it till you've got to know someone on a vanilla level first.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:03:28 PM

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I strongly suspect you overwhelmed her with your charming apearance and charismatic personality, perhaps your obvious intellect so outstretched her intellectual abilities she just returned to those lesser evolved she was more comfortable with.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:14:51 PM

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Actually, Mistresses and Masters want a slave that seem to have a little bit more self-worth. They do not want someone who is going to submit to them all the time because they get bored quicker. Three e-mails later, for instance....

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:21:48 PM

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I totally ignore men who tell me I am superior to them. I am dominant, not superior. They are submissive and in my mind not less than I am, only different. Although... hang around this place long enough and one may have second thoughts on that!

How is one a user when they have shared three emails with you and how the hell does one get to considered, collared, attached or anything else in that amount of time? Kevin... cloud nine is really not a place.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:27:15 PM

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ORIGINAL: CatdeMedici

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ORIGINAL: Lockit

Omg... so glad I set my coffee down!

Kevin this sounds like one of those kneel bitch emails and you complied too fast or from some of your other post... she said hi, you had her pictured in heels, taxi parked, walking down the street looking for someone to smack and she found you... then thought better of it... took her heels off and ran.

You really must love this dude.

Did Her sister work in security at the airport?

Hummm I think I missed one! But... it might be good if she did... she could warn her.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:28:16 PM

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ORIGINAL: xoxkittenxox

Actually, Mistresses and Masters want a slave that seem to have a little bit more self-worth. They do not want someone who is going to submit to them all the time because they get bored quicker. Three e-mails later, for instance....

You've confused two separate things. It is completely possible to have self-worth and to submit fully. It is more work for both the sub and the dom than some fantasy where the sub just takes orders and blindly obeys them. In the healthy D/s relationships I have seen, the sub is a thinking, active participant who is encouraged to give input and state concerns. Then, whatever the dom says, goes.

Being obedient is not the same thing as being a sniveling toad.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:29:49 PM

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I will agree on one element, Red. The sub in question must have cognitive, rational mental abilities.

To date, the OP has proven he has neither.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:31:40 PM

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i have been owned by a Domme for all of 3 hours

Kevin...perhaps YOU thought you were owned. Methinks it may be news to her.....

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 12:42:32 PM

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Of course. As a slave, she takes much pride in serving and serves well. She may not find herself worthy on a daily basis, but she is working on that. She has yet to find one person who she feels she deserves to serve. Of course, many have told her she is worthy, she does not believe so. Learn from her, Sir. She has lost numerous Mistresses and Masters because of her self-doubt.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 1:01:14 PM

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Kitten, you might consider typing with the words "I" and "me" if you are unowned and not under direction to speak in the third person. You will project a greater sense of self-worth to potential friends, and potential relationship partners, if you do that. Otherwise, it comes off a bit as though you are involving me in your objectification fetish without asking for my consent. Plus, it's harder to read and understand.

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 1:04:44 PM

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She is Gorean, Sir. It is not an "Objectification Fetish." She speaks this way no matter who it is with or where she is. If it was that hard to read, then why try, Sir?

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RE: Is this a record short slave Mistress relationship? - 8/3/2009 1:06:16 PM

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I've had dommes tell me they own me in the first message lol. maybe she was inexperianced scammer and it took her 3 hours to find out you don't have a credit card?

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