GYPZYQUEEN
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Joined: 4/14/2009 Status: offline
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TO THOSE WHO SAID "KEEP US POSTED": A while back I posted about a sub male who had served in the fall..moved away and now was being transferred back and wished to serve me again. I had indicated concerns around no speech except repeating "Whatever pleases Mistress" and no eye contact etc. and lack of following direction other than in sexual situations. I had wondered if he had been abused the 7 years previous by former Mistress. I got lots of wonderful replies and ideas and THE ONE IDEA I did not think would be the answer to what was going on... WAS THE ONE!!! This man turned out to be a master topper from the bottom who wanted 1 thing...to come over to be pegged at his convenience and that is about it. I took the advice of many here and assigned simple things that were never followed up on...journal..call on the phone...make a list.. I asked for communication and it was only when he was in town on business( up to 4 weeks and nothing) and wanted to come over for an hour.. if I said "Sure you can run me a bath or do a foot massage.while we catch up".he was suddenly busy. I appreciate all the discussions I had on CM because I saw past my own desire to HELP and rescue...what seemed like a lost soul.. and realized it fairly quickly. ty CM GQ
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