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RE: preferences - 7/29/2009 7:29:45 PM

chiaThePet

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Oh yes, it's all hunky dory, then suddenly one day she stops laughing and begins screaming,

"CLOWN!" "YOU WANT TO SEE A CLOWN?" "I"LL SHOW YOU A CLOWN!"

Then she smears a big ol' lipstick grin on ya and twists your penis into the shape of a poodle.

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RE: preferences - 7/29/2009 7:33:56 PM

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LOL- Chia- gee I forgot what I was missing on these Boards.

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RE: preferences - 7/29/2009 7:34:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: chiaThePet

Oh yes, it's all hunky dory, then suddenly one day she stops laughing and begins screaming,

"CLOWN!" "YOU WANT TO SEE A CLOWN?" "I"LL SHOW YOU A CLOWN!"

Then she smears a big ol' lipstick grin on ya and twists your penis into the shape of a poodle.

chia* (the pet)

And with that I can say I'll be going to sleep with a smile.

Gotta love that chia.

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RE: preferences - 7/29/2009 7:36:52 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow
i realize i'm going to get different opinions on this but i don't care.

Have you noticed that all of the opinions have been pretty much the same so far?

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RE: preferences - 7/29/2009 7:55:12 PM

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lol, I noticed that RedMagic.

I am waiting for the Dominant woman that is looking for a submissive
that is not obedient, acts defiantly and bratty.

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RE: preferences - 7/29/2009 8:08:24 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: fadedshadow
i realize i'm going to get different opinions on this but i don't care.

Have you noticed that all of the opinions have been pretty much the same so far?

yeah i know, i'm a bit disappointed in myself because i worded this incorrectly

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RE: preferences - 7/29/2009 10:58:51 PM

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I like spunk and spirit but I won't abide a brat. I think that bratting or otherwise bucking on a consistent basis is an insult to servitude.
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RE: preferences - 7/29/2009 11:45:47 PM

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Why would anybody want a disobedient sub?

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RE: preferences - 7/30/2009 5:09:30 AM

MsStarlett

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yeah i know, i'm a bit disappointed in myself because i worded this incorrectly

The word "Brat" is not popular here. I see you've figured that out. It mostly implies a sub who CONSTANTLY disobeys to manipulate their Dom. I believe the majority of us prefer to be with someone who has a personality that we like, which can be mischievous or impish, but not defiant. It all pretty much depends upon the way such behavior is couched. If it is perceived as just being playful, that's fine. If it crosses the line into the realm of annoying or flat out disobedience, that's not good.

Impish is telling me that my electronic device is not working because I'm not using it the way the box says to.... but the box could be wrong. Bratty is 'cleaning up' and rearranging all my stuff so I can find anything. Deliberately breaking things by 'accidentally knocking them off the shelf' would be grounds for immediate dismissal.

My Westie used to switch to his higher pitched "subby voice" when he corrected my errors - like when I screwed up the computer. My new one enjoys "sassing" me and shooting me "the look" to see how I react. Depending on the dynamic, some subs can get away with more 'bad behavior' if they do it in a playful way that signals to their Dom that they are only teasing.

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RE: preferences - 7/30/2009 5:52:03 AM

fadedshadow

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i know i was mistaken by choosing "bratty", MsStarlett. i was trying to imply a submissive that's playful and maybe a little mischievous. i apologize for my screw up

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RE: preferences - 7/30/2009 5:57:54 AM

PeonForHer

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Depending on the dynamic, some subs can get away with more 'bad behavior' if they do it in a playful way that signals to their Dom that they are only teasing.

Maybe a more productive question would be "How seriously should a domme take herself?" Most dommes, I've noticed, like the 'impish play' stuff. A few, though, put such behaviour under the heading of 'brattiness'. One gets the feeling that for these dommes, allowing even the merest smile at a sub's joke would mean the entire world of D/s instantly shattering.

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RE: preferences - 7/30/2009 6:02:38 AM

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i didn't know it was that serious, peon. it'd be bad if i had a domme since i really like to make jokes.

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RE: preferences - 7/30/2009 6:32:41 AM

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Nah, they're all right here, fadedshadow. Mostly. A bit cranky and bad-tempered - but what do you expect? They're dommes, after all.

Watch out for Lashra, though. Her idea of a mild reprimand involves a mallet and testicles nailed to the floor.

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RE: preferences - 7/30/2009 6:39:44 AM

fadedshadow

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thanks for the heads up, peon. i already introduced myself to her. but if i'm nice and polite, i should be ok. right?

i do find it that i have been called adorable here. so yay for not being scary =P

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RE: preferences - 7/31/2009 1:52:15 AM

MasterFireMaam

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Obedient. That way, I can order them to be bratty for X amount of time, if I want to.

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RE: preferences - 7/31/2009 3:43:45 AM

MsStarlett

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Faded, you just have to realize that just like male subs often 'present' as alpha male types in r/l social or business situations, many if not most Dommes (I wouldn't hazard a guess at the percentages) have a duel personality (for lack of a better term.) There is a time and a place for that fun loving impish behavior... and a time when it will get you big trouble.

Personally, I can't speak for all, only myself, but I'm no Ice Bitch. Actually, I've never met a Domme who was that stereotypical Ice Bitch 24/7/365. I can't imagine what trying to stay that angry all the time would do to one's blood pressure... not to mention the amount of Botox it would take to keep those frown lines off a lady's face. I prefer to have friends who are lively, fun loving and into mischievous jokes. I prefer my subs to be friends first, then add the layer of D/s on top of that foundation. Basically, if I can't stand to spend vanilla time with you, I don't want to bother wasting my precious little D/s time on someone I don't LIKE. But when I put on the stilletos and pick up a flogger, you better zip it and do as you are told or you will rue the day you were born.

If you don't believe me, I can give you references.

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RE: preferences - 7/31/2009 5:14:44 AM

fadedshadow

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i believe you, MsStarlett, and to be quite honest, i would want to establish a friendship too.

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RE: preferences - 7/31/2009 7:53:25 AM

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You can be playful and obedient at the same time. I'm rarely bratty at all, and am uninterested in brats, but a good dose of silliness is essential.

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RE: preferences - 7/31/2009 8:32:34 AM

Ambyant

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Feisty !.. Real personality with spirit, a sense of humor coupled with the need to serve.. it's all good.
bratty seems to mean deliberately disobedient.. far too often.
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RE: preferences - 7/31/2009 9:27:42 AM

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thanks

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