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KCalli -> RE: New Submissive slave seeks advice (8/4/2009 4:07:37 PM)
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ORIGINAL: Focus50
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
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ORIGINAL: vadams
I am new to the dom/sub world.
No kidding.
Your role is to please your Master. He should know how you should do that without sending you out to ask everyone.
How much experience does he have?
I must've missed where the OP said she was "sent" here to ask everyone? Seems to me that asking others is a perfectly logical and reasonable course of action for anyone lacking knowledge and experience, no?
To the OP, firstly, welcome.... :-)
The bad news is that what your master asks smells of red flag territory (geek alarm). Assigning such hopelessly vague and subjective tasks to newbies tends to betray their own lack of knowledge and experience. Which, btw, isn't necessarily a bad thing if they're honest about their own lack of expertise. Though probably not the case with your master, I suspect.... I say so because giving idiotic assignments to inexperienced subs is usually their way of getting educated themselves without having to admit they're as much in the D/s wilderness as you.
Doms and masters (practically by definition) need to lead by deed as much as by command.... Surely he has some idea of what defines a "submissive act" in order prove (sorry, "demonstrate") your "dedication to him"??? Because for every dom/me, it's likely something different. Doesn't he even know what it is that he really wants of his own slave? Yep, lotsa red flags around him....
I'm guessing his next instruction will be to ban you from these Boards - building barriers is how the threatened really command....
Focus.
Sir, I must agree. I know each D/s is unique, but if there isn't trust, both ways, it will be as you say. In my case Master knows that whether he is standing over me, or away elsewhere, I will always have him foremost in my mind, and always, always bring honor to him. That is my great freedom. All that I do, and the way I carry myself is to bring honor to him, as it honors me also. I do actually have "homework" that also allows me to grow as a person, which also brings him honor, as he abhors "brainless twits." He wants me to learn more of many things and subjects. To have him tell me how proud he is of me, and how I brought him honor when in an unexpected circumstance, is beyond words.
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