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sunshinemiss -> 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 12:33:10 PM)
Hello all, Recently, I saw a sign up that said "100 Ways to Serve Your Community". It listed all the things that can be done - short term or long term to volunteer. I thought... hmmm, that would be interesting. How about 100 Ways to Serve an M? Perhaps we might find some nugget from each other. Sometimes services comes in a form that we don't think of. Sometimes it is funny or silly or sometimes deeply serious and meaningful. The intention is not to necessarily discuss sexual or BDSM kinds of service, but more ... what's the word?... nuanced? quiet? seamless? things that we do in everyday life that is in the name of service. How about sharing? 1. Every morning I get up before the M's and put the coffee on and have it ready.

Lostkitten3 -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 1:01:59 PM)
2. I always have his favorite food in the fridge. Ready for when he wants it.

OttersSwim -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 1:02:47 PM)
I give Her manicures and pedicures. [:)]

sunshinemiss -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 1:16:06 PM)
4. Making sure there is always enough ice in the fridge.

Lostkitten3 -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 1:19:06 PM)
5. When showering together I always wash his hair and body (including feet) before mine.

BeingChewsie -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 1:24:10 PM)
6. I work to perfect invisibility and stillness.

DavanKael -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 1:29:18 PM)
Offering soothing massages. Preparing meals, dishing them out, and taking the plate to one's partner. Buying a small, thoughtful present for a special One.

stella41b -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 1:41:06 PM)
I learn to listen effectively and to pick up on emotional cues and signals.

sunshinemiss -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 1:58:19 PM)
9. Watching Ice Road Truckers....

CatdeMedici -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 2:07:25 PM)
10. Pee sitting down

AnimusRex -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 2:15:20 PM)
Allowing Him silence and alone time when He needs it

FawneTwo -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 2:55:23 PM)
12. appreciate their efforts

pyroaquatic -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 2:56:23 PM)
Remembering the tiniest of details of a conversation even months later... a sign that you truely do listen and hold on to every word.

sunshinemiss -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 3:22:03 PM)
14. Letting the dog in before he barks so the dog doesn't wake up the M.

DesFIP -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 3:24:14 PM)
15. Proof read his letters and documents. He'll hit spell check and then not notice when it's picked up a correction. 16. Research stuff he needs to know about. Last one was how to build a concrete shower for a client.

leadership527 -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 3:45:59 PM)
17. Help him get his "dom groove" back on when he needs it (as opposed to complaing about how he's not domly enough)

mc1234 -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 4:20:27 PM)
18. Be honest and open even (especially!) when it's not easy. 19. Always let him know he's in my thoughts even when we can't be together.

SteelofUtah -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 4:23:09 PM)
20) With a Smile

leadership527 -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 6:05:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss 1. Every morning I get up before the M's and put the coffee on and have it ready. Most mornings I bring Carol coffee in bed... but then I preserve my domly status by barking out, "Drink this and you better have a good morning or else!" (sorry, I couldn't resist) More seriously, I have to admit I didn't think this thread was going to turn into anything other than "100 kinky sex acts". I'm quite surprised by the general quality of these suggestions.

fluffypet61 -> RE: 100 Ways to Serve (8/1/2009 6:10:22 PM)
21. Foot rub with soothing oils.

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