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RE: Would women pay? - 8/4/2009 2:48:35 AM

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No way women will pay. It's a matter of economics -- supply and demand. There are far more men who are willing to sub than women willing to dom. When supply is greater than demand prices drop. In this scenario the supply of sub men is so large the demand drops below zero into negative territory. Men are the ones who pay because kink, like everything else, is driven by the market.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/4/2009 7:18:56 AM

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I hope the rope skills are better than the writing abilities.

Taz has multiple learning disabilities and this is the best he can do.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/4/2009 7:44:08 AM

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The only male pro doms I know of service the gay community.

Straight women can always find an occasional play partner. However women prefer to have an emotional connection in their relationships, and that's not what you get with someone you pay to do you.

I would say most women prefer to have an emotional connection in their relationships, not all. And the amount of that emotional connection can vary...from being in love with the one they are playing/fucking with to being friends with the one they are playing/fucking with. Sometimes, the one they are playing/fucking with is someone who is a friend but who is not interested in a relationship that goes beyond being a steady play/fuck partner...he is not interested in being a dominant 24/7 or he doesn't want to be her dominant 24/7 but he likes her, she likes him and they have mutual needs/desires and so they engage in a relationship that may be going on while they are involved elsewhere in a more serious relationship OR may be going on while they are not involved elsewhere but are looking OR may be going on because one or both are wounded from past experiences and need that human contact...want it...that comes from D/s interaction and BDSM play and fucking but no strings other than being willing to make it more than a one-night stand but not take it as far as trying to turn it into something more than what it is.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/4/2009 8:35:02 AM

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I've paid for the use of certain facilities (heck, the owner invested a lot of money and effort), but never for a person.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/4/2009 9:35:37 AM

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A few women here, myself included, did just say they would pay. And the scenario doesn't have to be paying for a male sub, it could be any number of scenario's they're paying for.

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No way women will pay.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/4/2009 1:28:40 PM

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Oh, yes I did, Queencaliph. Take it easy. I meant it as a compliment.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/4/2009 5:31:26 PM

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All known that men pay pro dommes/Mistresses for "services" at Dungeons or otherwise...however would or do women pay pro Doms/Subs/Masters/Mistresses for services or is it just presumed guys are out there who would gladly submit or perform for free so why pay...?

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Excellent question.

I established myself as a pro male sub some months back but, perhaps it's the general economy, however, I'm finding the market for a 51 year old, slightly balding, somewhat overweight male sub isn't what it's cracked up to be.

I've refinanced my home 7 times in the last 6 months (because I believe in the dream), but it appears I may have to go back to work at McDonalds shortly.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/4/2009 8:30:50 PM

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I tried being a professional male Dom; the only responses I got were from men.

In a a nursing home.

In Ghana.

Don't think I will give up the day job.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/5/2009 9:19:48 AM

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I have but yet to see a female pay there is always a willing male or some female to use them

Yep, that is what I thought. Why pay for something you can get for free...! LOL

Guess that is why you don't see many Pro Masters or Pro Male Slaves.

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Ps So much for me making some extra cash in this line of work,,,lol

You and others can still benefit from your skills, try teaching or lecturing. If you're knowledgeable and practiced enough with your tools of choice to profit from it, you ought to be good enough to share what you've learned.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/5/2009 9:55:34 AM

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I would pay :)

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/7/2009 6:50:39 AM

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ORIGINAL: TickledToDeath

All known that men pay pro dommes/Mistresses for "services" at Dungeons or otherwise...however would or do women pay pro Doms/Subs/Masters/Mistresses for services or is it just presumed guys are out there who would gladly submit or perform for free so why pay...?

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I am not sure sure exactly what the OP is asking
In most cases, a man will do whatever for a women, if it involves the possibilty of sexual arousal

However as for the Pro
In his eyes, there is absolutely nothing special about you other than your checkbook and should you desire a Pro, you had better be willing to pay for it

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/7/2009 11:46:22 AM

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We often hear that women want intimacy and guys just want sex. Well most women seem to want a LOT of material goods from guys. This is called cultural conditioning and is a response to economic inequality. Hopefully as women become more prosperous, they will start buying us dinner and buy their own sports cars, etc.

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RE: Would women pay? - 8/7/2009 12:05:29 PM

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We often hear that women want intimacy and guys just want sex. Well most women seem to want a LOT of material goods from guys. This is called cultural conditioning and is a response to economic inequality. Hopefully as women become more prosperous, they will start buying us dinner and buy their own sports cars, etc.

Lol, not in the current century: only barbie dolls do that, not REAL women. This, too, is cultural conditioning: older unpleasant men have to pay in material goods for young attractive women to give them the time of day or their bodies: Trump, Hogan, Hef. Nice guys get taken out for dinner ALL the time, but no real woman would be interested in a barbie boy gigolo who expects sex for favours or vice versa.
Remember, with trust comes abandon, and the more a sub trusts a Domme, the better the sex is, and the more trust, the deeper the relationship. Otherwise, it's just an orgasm, for women more easily accomplished with a memory and a Hitachi than going through all the stress of finding a suitable man to plug or beautiful ass to spank. Let alone that it's ten times easier for a woman to catch an STD from a slutty guy!

Nothing more beautiful than an eager, willing and monogamous sub alpha male. Nothing lonelier than someone who will kneel for anyone who'll put a tenner in his dancebelt or a car payment in her g-string: or perhaps it's the person who pays.

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