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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 11:07:59 AM   
DavanKael


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

I don't trust anyone who messages me the first month or so that I create an account somewhere.  I don't care if they are nice or not.  It is the behavior of a predator.

That makes no sense. The first month of a new profile is when it is likely to garner more exposure than any other time (sites tend to have some means of featuring new accounts prominently). So...assuming there's even a minor inclination for you to be open to seeking a partner, you are refusing to acknowledge such greetings at a time when you have the greatest likelihood of running into someone worthwhile based on this odd interpretation of messaging in a certain timeframe.

And while the term "predatory" sounds conveniently derisive, the fact is that the entirety of the human courtship process is predatory.



Uh oh, I think we started talking within a month of your profile being up.  This must mean I am a predator: don't you feel preyed upon by me.  ;> 
  Davan
Oh, and agreed: predatory isn't always a bad thing.  :> 

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 11:10:07 AM   
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OP, take the wankers with a grain of salt.  Really, they are plentiful and you'll run screaming if you allow them to get to you. 
Best wishes, 
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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 11:20:05 AM   
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Wankers...LOL.  There is a thread on here about profiles (or lack of).  As a man I don't get all of the wanker mails so I can not completely relate, but watching all of the wanker mail LadyPact gets makes Me laugh  She is a Dominant and states that She is looking for local only and then gets the "I read your profile and would love to get together with you so you can submit....or I live in whatchamacallit, 2000 miles from you state and want to meet, ETC".  So like Davan said... grain of salt and maybe a margaritta or two .

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 11:26:51 AM   
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I've actually written no wack jobs on my profile...
maybe wack jobs can't read.........


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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 11:41:14 AM   
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I am pretty sure they can't read !  but I have to say I am finding it pretty funny.  I can often tell what the cmail is going to say just based on the user name of the sender...

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 11:43:20 AM   
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Love the new pic Prinsexx.  *End of Hijack*

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 11:48:34 AM   
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FR, after read thru

Hey, dundreggen, it's perfectly okay for the cats to play with the mice 'round these parts . .. . . Some days it's the most entertaining thing going . . .. .. Bat 'em around, chew on 'em a bit in a mostly non-lethal way, let 'em think they're gettin' away with stuff then pounce again . . . .. lol . . .. . &, in my book, no need to feel too terribly guilty (only as much as one wants or tolerates) about the whole thing cuz this site (as with most social networking sites) is a consensual participatory experience . . . . ..

  Welcome to CM & the CollarChat experience . . .. . . Have fun & try not to let an excess of seriosity get ya down . ....

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:02:49 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DavanKael


Uh oh, I think we started talking within a month of your profile being up.  This must mean I am a predator: don't you feel preyed upon by me.  ;> 

Well, you are the Mad Anal Rapistâ„¢, after all.


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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:05:20 PM   
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OK NZ and Davan. Sheez, get a room.. or a saint andrews cross.. or whatever it is that US deviant types do (*laughs* OK, so I've acknowledged that I'm a deviant, but I'm still clueless about it all)

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:13:59 PM   
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Love the new pic Prinsexx.  *End of Hijack*

Thank you so much for liking the new pic.
End of thread?

Prinsexx: Resident thread finisher. (This thread only).


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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:18:25 PM   
Prinsexx


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ORIGINAL: dundreggen

I am pretty sure they can't read !  but I have to say I am finding it pretty funny.  I can often tell what the cmail is going to say just based on the user name of the sender...

Jerkitoff4U
Misterydickhead
Shrewtamer
Lameexcuses
PhonesRUs
Snailtrainer
Clitclicker
Getyuraresingear

spring to mind.
All characters are fictional and any resemblance to actual wankers is purely chance.



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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:22:26 PM   
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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:32:35 PM   
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Prinsexx those names are far too creative and subtle.. (and yes your pic is awesome)

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:38:49 PM   
Prinsexx


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ORIGINAL: dundreggen

Prinsexx those names are far too creative and subtle.. (and yes your pic is awesome)

ScrewTopJar
Neckbrace3
PeaCane
FishFingerer
Fingerpuppet......

Please don't ask me to out the real wack jobs.
Well you could...




< Message edited by Prinsexx -- 8/3/2009 12:40:00 PM >


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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:51:16 PM   
DavanKael


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ORIGINAL: NihilusZero

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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Uh oh, I think we started talking within a month of your profile being up.  This must mean I am a predator: don't you feel preyed upon by me.  ;> 

Well, you are the Mad Anal Rapistâ„¢, after all.


< giggling >  You've divulged my most closely guarded of secrets and figured out the entire basis for our friendship!  < smirking >
< giving my most innocent of looks >  Nuh uh, and I have cats as witnesses. 

I'm telling you, we need t-shirts, then we need to wear them out and about simultaneously.  And, photos: photos to post on here of said jaunt in t-shirts! 
NZ: CM Sex God Du Jour
Davan: Mad Anal Rapist
It shall be fantastic!  ROFLMAO! 

Davan
(Who swears she's never had to anally rape any boys, she promises, lol!)

< Message edited by DavanKael -- 8/3/2009 12:52:09 PM >


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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:57:15 PM   
DavanKael


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ORIGINAL: leadership527
OK NZ and Davan. Sheez, get a room.. or a saint andrews cross.. or whatever it is that US deviant types do (*laughs* OK, so I've acknowledged that I'm a deviant, but I'm still clueless about it all)


Okay, so I'm going to have a non-s-type moment and insist that Jeff get out here and join us on said t-shirt excursion.  His shall say:  Jesus, I've ALWAYS been a deviant. 

So, to re-cap: 
A jaunt out and about in the following t-shirts: 
NZ: CM Sex God Du Jour
Davan: Mad Anal Rapist
Jeff: Jesus, I've ALWAYS been a deviant

(Doing a happy dance about Jeff coming out about being one of us deviants; I knew he would come to the Dark Side, all he needed was to be reminded that there are cats and it was only a matter of time!)

Don't y'all want to see the pictures?! 

OP, while some of us who post a lot will occasionally hijack a thread temporarily, we're mostly harmless.  :> 
Again, welcome!  :>   

Davan
(Who promises not to anally rape anyone)

< Message edited by DavanKael -- 8/3/2009 1:01:10 PM >


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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 12:58:39 PM   
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ROFL... ok... that's got photo-op written all over it.

Oh, and how dare you top me from the bottom..... *pauses to ponder*... no wait... you're not my bottom... top me from the side? from the east coast? Well, whatever... just don't top me.... too much...

< Message edited by leadership527 -- 8/3/2009 1:00:02 PM >


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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 1:02:51 PM   
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thats ok I love a good threadjack  thank you  for the welcome

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 1:04:01 PM   
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ROFL... ok... that's got photo-op written all over it.

Oh, and how dare you top me from the bottom..... *pauses to ponder*... no wait... you're not my bottom... top me from the side? from the east coast? Well, whatever... just don't top me.... too much...


Okay, so I almost fell out of my chair and onto a cat ROFLMAO!!!  :>   

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/3/2009 1:07:03 PM   
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So I just put up a profile .  Which states I am NOT looking for anything more than friends, just here for the forums (total forum whore here) So i get cmail right away.  I get one guy who is very pushy.. finds me on yahoo and starts messaging me.

I WON'T STOP UNTIL YOU LOVE ME!


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