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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/4/2009 5:56:30 AM

DomImus

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ORIGINAL: leadership527
The only consolation prize is that the female persuasion has their own set of idiocies they do.

One of them being their relentless need to start threads like this.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/4/2009 7:51:03 AM

dundreggen

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if you don't like a thread you don't have to give it more hits

The great thing about this world is that different people find different things funny, sexy, normal...

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/4/2009 9:27:54 AM

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You need a tit pic.

Ill draw one with purple crayon and see how that goes.

Cheers

Won't you be surprised when someone falls for it.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/4/2009 1:18:15 PM

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I just joined today and I was shocked at the number of messages I got in the first couple of hours. I haven't even had a chance to really do a complete profile yet. I clearly stated that I am looking for friends only and that I am spoken for. It doesn't seem to matter. Interesting....

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/4/2009 1:49:27 PM

Missokyst

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lol yep. its the nature of being new to the site. I would bet that if you created another user profile you will get 75-100% of the email you have now from the same guys.
When I came I was looking for one person in particular because one of my members was interested in learning more about her. I was not looking for a playmate and stated that clearly.
I was slammed with emails that first month. I am chatty and don't mind making friends but even the nice guys got around to saying they would drive up for a meet to see if we connected. Some wanted to drive over to play even though I stated I was not interested.
New meat.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/4/2009 3:07:41 PM

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Damn, after going through this thread I kinda feel bad for the ladies out there. You have a lot of crap to put up with just for being here.

Well, different crap anyway. We get relatively few Nigerians looking for money for a plane ticket to be our absolute slave for life.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/4/2009 3:10:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: DomImus

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ORIGINAL: leadership527
The only consolation prize is that the female persuasion has their own set of idiocies they do.

One of them being their relentless need to start threads like this.

And their innate capacity to finish them.

Prinsexx: Resident thread finisher.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/4/2009 7:09:11 PM

GotSteel

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Welcome to spam, your mailbox gets junk mail, telemarketers call your phone, commercials appear on your tv, Mormons come to your door, etc.... We have Nigerians and the socially clueless, just block them and move on.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/6/2009 11:23:36 AM

AUniqueDominant

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

You know, some of my fellow men almost make me ashamed to have testosterone....

And I have so much of it.....

While I hear that... and 100% agree with you. There are PLENTY of women on CM that are "winners" too. Let's take a peek at some, shall we?

1. The women that are married and don't tell you until after you meet AND then meet again (I won't do any "play" on first in person meet... just not safe)... WTF?

2. The "women" that are really dudes... so much fun for straight folks.

3. The women that don't know themselves, don't know what they want and can't seem to commit (yes, I'm laughing too) to THEMSELVES about who/what they are.

Now... all that being said... I know that the original poster is talking about the complete and utter nonsense that women have to put up with on sites like these... and yes, the actions of our shared gender can be/is disgusting.

So, a lot of words to come darn close to agreeing with you.

Just my 2 pennies... that's about all that they are worth.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/7/2009 7:31:43 AM

Acer49

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So I just put up a profile . Which states I am NOT looking for anything more than friends, just here for the forums (total forum whore here) So i get cmail right away. I get one guy who is very pushy.. finds me on yahoo and starts messaging me. I ignore him but then he gets snarky so I decide to play (yes I am submissive.. but not to idiots-hmm i think idiots are a hard limit with me)

He wants to me to put my cam on. I say no, I don't have one on this puter anyway, he askes me if I am ugly... I dunno did you look at my pic? He gets uber pushy and gets very demanding, cam now.. cam now.. umm no.. ummm no. And then leaves in a huff when I won't play his way. His leaving remark is "good luck in your search then" as he flounces off..

It says right on my profile I am not looking.....

Why Dast you, you did not fall at his feet, begging to be accepted, willing to show total devtion? What kind of sub are you? Do you need to re-read the submissive's handbook, chapter 7 page numbers.... I am sorry but it seems like many others, he left his manners and common decency at the log in screen.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/7/2009 7:45:45 AM

MstrPBK

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My experience says it does take a lot to find that partner. Since 1992 I have been searching for that "next" slave. They are indeed hard to find. But fear not there are a lot of decent people along the way. Some will become friends and others pass quietly in "the night" (so to say). Hope your journey is more pleasant than not.

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/7/2009 2:26:01 PM

TrannyJeannie

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I think some guys don't read profiles, they just look at the pictures.
Mine says I'm looking for a domme woman.. but I'm still getting plenty of men sending me messages.

I just politely say I'm not interested and leave it at that!

J

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RE: so I just made a profile and already met a winner (... - 8/8/2009 12:15:48 AM

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Well, when I first signed up I met someone who had messaged me, and I found her very attractive. We went out and had 6 absolutely great nights together. I liked her a lot. She told me that she had never had such a good sexual connection with anyone and that I made her feel better than anyone had. One day she makes a comment about how I dress "prepy". She apparently dresses "punk". I tried to build a relationship with her but I guess it ended up not working out. She said we had a terrific sexual connection, but that was it. She theorized that we had possibly had sex too early, maybe that was true because we did on the first "date". But hell when two people are attracted to each other and have similar interests in sex it's damn hard to say no. One day she just stopped answering my calls. I really am not sure what happened, I can only guess.

Anyway, my point is... That I had high hopes for this site after my first week here. Its been crap since.

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