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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Hey Jeff. What's happening?

I don't think the op is a top. I mean he's done a couple of things she really loved and has never since repeated them.

And where he gets the idea the first time he does anal should be very rough must be from porn. Since it's most likely going to end in best case scenario her hard limiting it, and worst case in the ER.

Really scary here is that he's proposing stuff with no knowledge of where her lines are, or how to do things safely or with consent. He needs to learn a lot, before he jumps in to the deep end of the pool.

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ORIGINAL: pleasuredancer

I have to agree with DarkSteven. Most of us want to please, not be pleased. We want to see your animal, your passion. We want you to use us as you wish you could use all those pretty young things that walk by your desk during the day, wearing a short skirt and a smile. We don't want to say it, but we want to be fucked like a bitch in heat, our needs ignored. We want to get all prettied up for you, and then have everything messed up in a matter of minutes.

When you are on the couch, reach over, grab her hair and push her under your waiting mouth. Ask her if she is going to be a good bitch for you, then push her toward your cock. It doesn't have to be rough, in fact, you need to be in control of it. It shouldn't hurt her, yet, it should feel like she can't get away, though. Firm, controlled. When you do that, the most likely response, and the best case scenario, is that she will become all weak and helpless and putty in your hands. Her voice will go wispy and she will retreat into some little girl-like state. If all goes right.

She probably wants control from you, and when she gets that, she will probably be more submissive. Take away the key to her pussy from her-- when women are in control of when men get sex, they are in control of a huge part of the relationship. When men, who are dominant, with women who are submissive, take control, the keys to the cunt change hands. Generally, submissive women will be wet and wanting for men who can take that sexual control. it is a good thing.

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ORIGINAL: obsessiv

Thx for the reply.
I guess hearing what other experienced dominants would do to her if they were me is what Im looking for :)