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pro domme - 8/7/2009 5:16:01 PM

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if you cant seem to connect with a mistress your interested in due to time dates etc, and you want to fullfill your desires should you just commit to a pro or wait? Im interested in one mistress that is both proand looking for other fun i think? what should i due? i have no problem paying her for her time but i just think there is something there? i want to commit to her! does this make any sense or am i in a dream world?

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RE: pro domme - 8/7/2009 5:53:54 PM

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So you're interested in her. How do you know that she's interested in you?

She has time for her clients, but you say that she's too busy for you. I'm sorry, but I think that's a polite way of saying that she'd be happy to take you on as a pro client, but not any other way.

There are plenty of Dommes who are NOT pros. If one of them shows an interest, you will know it's sincere.

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RE: pro domme - 8/7/2009 6:08:46 PM

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I think Steven just saved Me the keystrokes.

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RE: pro domme - 8/7/2009 6:10:41 PM

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The only other person who knows if there is something there is HER. Ask her. Communication is very important.

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RE: pro domme - 8/7/2009 9:26:14 PM

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OK,so you are interested in a pro domme and she has shown no particular interest in you, and you want to know if you should go to another pro domme....is that right?
If I have the question right, then the answer is simple....if you want to, then do it. You owe the first pro domme nothing, she and you are not in a relationship. And if you pay her for a session, then when that session ends, you no longer owe her any particular obedience or respect, you paid for a service and she delivered, not much different than hiring a contractor to reshingle your roof.

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RE: pro domme - 8/7/2009 9:27:59 PM

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She has time for her clients, but you say that she's too busy for you. I'm sorry, but I think that's a polite way of saying that she'd be happy to take you on as a pro client, but not any other way.

exactly!

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RE: pro domme - 8/7/2009 9:31:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: waiting2recieve

if you cant seem to connect with a mistress your interested in due to time dates etc, and you want to fullfill your desires should you just commit to a pro or wait? Im interested in one mistress that is both proand looking for other fun i think? what should i due? i have no problem paying her for her time but i just think there is something there? i want to commit to her! does this make any sense or am i in a dream world?

I'm starting to think (sue me....I'm a marketing guy) there needs to be some consideration regards a time share kind of Domme.

(Call me...I can work out the details).

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RE: pro domme - 8/8/2009 12:53:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: Arpig
OK,so you are interested in a pro domme and she has shown no particular interest in you, and you want to know if you should go to another pro domme....is that right?

I read it differently.
if you cant seem to connect with a mistress your interested in
due to time dates etc, and you want to fullfill your desires should
you just commit to a pro or wait?
To me, it looks like he's saying that his own time issues are preventing him from connecting with a non-pro and he's wondering if he'd be better off going to a pro.

Considering his previous posts, I think that he may be better off with a pro. He talks about committing, but it seems that what he wants to commit to is getting his desires fulfilled by one woman on a regular basis. If that is the case, it seems reasonable to find a pro who is skilled in the things he wants and set up regular paid appointments with her. It appears, though, that he's thinking he'll find a pro with whom he can establish a personal (non-paying) relationship. The chances that this will happen are rather slim. Hubby and I have a number of good friends who are pro-doms. They tend to see their clients as clients, not as potential partners.

There are exceptions. A fellow whose kink is about service (butler/maid-type service, not sexual service) rather than kinky/sex play may find a pro-dom who is willing to accept service on an ongoing basis and not charge him for her time. Fellows who primarily want play but are willing to serve in exchange aren't likely to get that kind of deal. The other exception is pain pigs. Hubby is a favorite playmate for our pro-dom friends and has never paid for their services. Our prodom friends ask to play with him because he is a big, friendly, huggy, cuddly pain-pig who communicates really well. They can let themselves go and really dig up on top-space and trust that he will keep his wits about him and let them know if it's too much (which hasn't happened yet).

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RE: pro domme - 8/9/2009 2:33:19 AM

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ORIGINAL: MmeGigs

There are exceptions. A fellow whose kink is about service (butler/maid-type service, not sexual service) rather than kinky/sex play may find a pro-dom who is willing to accept service on an ongoing basis and not charge him for her time. Fellows who primarily want play but are willing to serve in exchange aren't likely to get that kind of deal. The other exception is pain pigs. Hubby is a favorite playmate for our pro-dom friends and has never paid for their services. Our prodom friends ask to play with him because he is a big, friendly, huggy, cuddly pain-pig who communicates really well. They can let themselves go and really dig up on top-space and trust that he will keep his wits about him and let them know if it's too much (which hasn't happened yet).

What a great post, and I can relate to this especially, and so true, especially regarding My none-tribute subs/slaves.

Some subs feel that all Pro Dommes, are all unattached, many have partners, fiances, husbands and sometimes children too, so a romantic relationship is out of the question.

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