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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/22/2006 7:05:09 PM   
FelinePersuasion


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Status: offline 		Actually Raven Muse if I had a cockroach in my garden I'd set out the insecticide lol.
quote:

ORIGINAL: RavenMuse

This might sound a little harsh but IF you are a Domme then act like it. Ignore this pestering insect like you would a cockroach in your garden. He can only bother you if you let him!


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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/22/2006 7:40:24 PM   
ShadeDiva


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Status: offline 		I'm enough of a smart ass that I'd just tell the dude I was a guy trying to sucker in male dominants so I could get them alone and then turn the tables on them.

Or something SO freaking rank and nutty like I dream about collecting penises to make a penis skirt or some bizarre shit like that and then ask how deeply they sleep. Or maybe mention that I also adore using cloroform on unsuspecting doms to kidnap them and sell them off to OWK. Yanno whatever really whacked idea springs to mind.

Some of them give me enough amusment that I'll just keep on getting worse and worse until they either get scared or bored - I don't really care which. lol.

They usually leave me alone fairly quickly for some odd reason. *smile*

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/22/2006 8:02:58 PM   
KnightofMists


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ORIGINAL: Aileen68

Oh silly Dom. You're just playing hard to get. I know if I send twenty more you're bound to answer.



well show up in my dungeon... and I will continue to play hard .... to get... but you are bound to get your answer!!!

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/22/2006 8:09:14 PM   
Petruchio


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quote:

I would just like to say that I found petruchio's question quite offensive, do you really think it is your place to question someone’s approach to their own sexuality?. You also qualified you question in offensive terms which makes you look like you were making a somewhat unsubtle attempt at being abusive.


quote:

I would like to refer you to a thread called “domination and pain” in which petruchio, for whatever reason makes exactly the same attempt at questioning the person who posted the opening messages definition of their own sexuality.


What an improbably long memory!

MstrTige, I'm not sure why you once again choose to single me out to the point of distorting my question, but Phoenxx, trusub, and Raven have answered you.

Consider:

  • My comment was not about her sexuality at all, although you raise the issue.
  • Secondly, I deliberately added a sentence that I was not NOT dismissing her question, but– based on profile factors– asked to examine the original premise– and I did that politely.
  • When I realized I had not welcomed her, I openly pointed out my own oversight. She is new and should be made to feel comfortable.
  • Kindly don't mistake trusub's first remark as an invitation to jump me– she's a friend and we banter constantly. (I think she's 3 points ahead right now.)
  • I too like Sassy's answer #2.
  • I noticed you didn't jump the poster who started off with 'This might sound a little harsh…' (nor should he be, either).
  • If my questionn was truly egregious, don't you think the moderators would have popped me?
    [


MstrTiger, I write this not to defend myself (and perhaps not quite succeeding) but trusting in my awkward way to build a bridge here. I have done nothing against you. I recognize that you are intelligent, intent, and your avatars are very dramatic. It would be nice if you restrain yourself from making me a 'special project', but I don't insist upon it. Fair enough?

(bow) Special thanks, swtnsparkling, Phoenxx, trusub, Raven, Jasmyn, Sunshine119, FelinePersuasion, others, and the very funny MoGa.

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/22/2006 9:54:42 PM   
Evanesce


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Status: offline 		The best way to get rid of a troublesome Internet pest is to ignore them. They tend to get bored easily, and if you do not react or respond to their antics, they're quickly off in search of greener pastures.

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/22/2006 11:20:35 PM   
Real0ne


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nymphoshaz

i have been having problems with a certain master on here....i have made it perfectly clear i am not interested in him.........i have it posted in my profile that i am a domme and this master keeps insisting on being my master.......i dont want a master.......i do want to find a dom to teach me so i can treat my subs properly and safely....i know i can block this person but i dont think that solves the problem.......anyone care to comment on this problem?


harrassment should be reported to support

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/23/2006 4:37:49 AM   
Aileen68


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quote:

well show up in my dungeon... and I will continue to play hard .... to get... but you are bound to get your answer!!!


You know...if you keep inviting me I may just show up one day.
Just to sell Girl Scout Cookies of course.
Thin Mints anyone?

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/23/2006 6:11:24 AM   
KnightofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

You know...if you keep inviting me I may just show up one day.
Just to sell Girl Scout Cookies of course.
Thin Mints anyone?



you know if you show up one day... I just might buy what your selling *G*



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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/23/2006 6:50:22 AM   
cellogrrlMK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

Personally 2 is My favorite way to deal with them.




MistressSassy, you are EVIL!!!!!!! I LOVE it!

Thanks for starting my day off with more than a smile

cello

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/23/2006 6:58:36 AM   
cellogrrlMK


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyV

"Bow down and kiss my feet"
"So you want me to bow down?"
"Yes, bow down and kiss my feet"
"ok, well how should I bow? I want to do it right."
"(explanation of bowing)" or some rant about how come I don't know how to bow
"ok.. So I'm supposed to bend at my waist? should I be kneeling? What if I hurt my knees? How long should I kneel?"

And so on and so forth.. it takes more time but it can get quite fun. Like having a staring contest to see who blinks first.


Oh, you ladies are the BEST!!! I love this too... gotta remember it the next time I'm IM'ed by a troll!

Too too rich

cello


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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/23/2006 7:00:18 AM   
cellogrrlMK


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ORIGINAL: IronBear

What an excelent idea SimplyV. Perhaps an alternative is to do what kids do to parents and keep asking "Why".... I'm stealing some of you post here so a thankyou is in order....



This is good too!

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/23/2006 1:59:15 PM   
Aileen68


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quote:

you know if you show up one day... I just might buy what your selling *G*


mmmm....good cookie sales. I might win the top prize.

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/23/2006 2:18:24 PM   
MHOO314


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quote:

ORIGINAL: nymphoshaz

i have been having problems with a certain master on here....i have made it perfectly clear i am not interested in him.........i have it posted in my profile that i am a domme and this master keeps insisting on being my master.......i dont want a master.......i do want to find a dom to teach me so i can treat my subs properly and safely....i know i can block this person but i dont think that solves the problem.......anyone care to comment on this problem?



AHH yes the age old, "Honey spend one night with Me and you will come to your foolish little girl senses"---

Been there, done that, I think its a hoot, because its submissive men parading as Doms---I STILL have one on the WestCoast trying to get in My pants---just send him to a FemDom site and tell him to wank away.

So let's see if I can do My best RavenMuse impression:

"Sunshine you will never get the dew on those petals so crawl off like the miserable cockroach you are before Mistress pins you to a butterfly board!"


Welcome to CM!

< Message edited by MHOO314 -- 2/23/2006 2:19:00 PM >

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/23/2006 5:18:22 PM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cellogrrlMK


quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

Personally 2 is My favorite way to deal with them.




MistressSassy, you are EVIL!!!!!!! I LOVE it!

Thanks for starting my day off with more than a smile

cello




Why Thank you very much..
It works every time.

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/24/2006 1:13:59 AM   
stonefemmie


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my goodness, there ARE some very creative Dominants, and one or two submissives, in this thread! Lady Sonelle, i think You get my vote for the most ominous solution for getting this person to stop pestering Ms. Nymphoshaz! Porcupine quills and leeches, indeed! Your mind is a virtual fertile field for creating torment, that's for sure.......stated with all due respect.

On to the question at hand: Just from my own personal persective, i see this question by Ms. Nymphoshaz as being in two parts. i am not attempting to speak for Her, but only to divulge my own thoughts about this situation.

1. i see Ms Nymphoshaz as being pursued by a Dominant whom She does not wish to be bothered by, and is asking for opinions on how to stop the pestering.

2. i also see this as a difference in dynamics. If i have interpreted Her profile and Her question posed at the start of this thread correctly, i think Her main objection is that the One chasing after Her is a Master and not a Dom.

Her own words when posing the question that started this thread states, ".......i dont want a master.......i do want to find a dom to teach me so i can treat my subs properly and safely....

Her own words in Her profile states," i want to learn from a dom NOT a master!."

There is a world of dissimilarity and individuality between the Master/slave relationship and the Dom/me/submissive relationship. In my opinion, the dynamics of each of these separate alliances are very different.

So, it is my opinion, and my opinion only, that Ms Nymphoshaz recognizes these differences in the dynamics between a Master/slave union and a Dom/me/submissive one, and is looking for a Dom, rather than a Master, to bring out Her submissive side. Ultimately, to be more aware of what Her submissives would/will need from Her.......

As for getting this pest out of Her life, i think there were some every good practical suggestions in the posts here on how to handle this situation.......and if none of them work, Ms Nymphoshaz, just get out the porcupine quills with the sterling Silver handles, and.........well, i think the idea was fairly clear.......


Respectfully,

stonefemmie...

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/24/2006 1:52:36 AM   
phoenix1


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ORIGINAL: BitaTruble

Block them and if they stalk you, report them and let the Mods deal with them.

Celeste


ditto

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/26/2006 6:39:18 PM   
nymphoshaz


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Status: offline 		I want to thank A/all of you for your comments and suggestions. I am going to change the wording in my profile, many of you have pointed out to me the flaws that are there. If and when this so called Dom coontacts me again i will report him but also will get the porciphine quills out.....lol...Thanks again.

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/26/2006 6:57:34 PM   
mnottertail


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Status: offline 		Heimskringla........

Loosely translated my friend........it means the world's round is filled with many indentations.........

Two mouthfuls, two posts.

Everything is as it should be.

LOLOLOL,
Ron



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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/27/2006 1:45:07 AM   
RavenMuse


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MHOO314
So let's see if I can do My best RavenMuse impression:

"Sunshine you will never get the dew on those petals so crawl off like the miserable cockroach you are before Mistress pins you to a butterfly board!"


They say imitation is the sincerest form of flattery

I'll be the one over here in the corner looking all flattered.... and wincing at the thought of MH with a butterfly board

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RE: opinions on telling someone no - 2/27/2006 5:06:33 PM   
midnitegirluk


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Status: offline 		I had a recent problem, I had a male on here chatted to him twice on here, and then on Yahoo, but then he was getting a little bit 'not nice' with me, so I told him not to contact me any more, he kept trying to get hold of me on yahoo and on here so i blocked him off, then he used a few different ID's and tried to contact me, verbally abusing me as i had blocked him off, then i got lots of people trying to chat to me on yahoo having a go at me and being really rude and nasty to me, 58 people in just under 3 hours, apparently he gave my id out in a chat room somewhere. I had words with someone at support on here, and changed my yahoo ID, now i have noticed he isnt in my blocked list anymore and old messages in my mail are greyed out, So i think now he has been removed from here, I just hope he leaves me alone.
Theres always 1 person to spoil things, and I seem always to attract them.

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