Bearlee
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Joined: 10/25/2004 From: South Central CO Status: offline
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FastReply: For me, the slash-speak gets in the way of the natural flow of conversation; for me, that’s a bit over the top. Having said that, I rather enjoy the capping thang; I see it as a way to show, literally (pun intended) that, even when apart and writing to another…the whole dynamic of WIITWD is a part of what I enjoy and where my head is while I’m writing. Still, I do not ever refer to myself in third person, nor can I bring myself not to cap ‘I’…again, that’s a bit over the top (for me) and I feel it gets in the way of typing (not to mention reading!). I suppose I liken this way of corresponding to some of the other ‘rules’ the Dominant one might conjure up. I know one who does not allow his slave to sit while peeing. Yup, she must squat over the toilet; seat up and not touching the bowl. Why; because it reiterates his control of her even when she is not around him and keeps her head in the space where they both enjoy it. That’s sort of how I see the ‘caps’ thing, too. It’s a way to keep the headspace. YMMV
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