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Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 7:32:44 AM

DarkSteven

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We've all heard the joke about how men have two brains, one in their head and one in their dick, and there's only enough blood flow for one or the other...

I was talking with a lovely sub today about D/s.and it hit me that Dom men are Dom because they ARE thinking with both brains! We're thinking with our dicks as well as our heads.

(EEO addition - Dommes think with their pussies as well as heads.)

Comments?

Edited to add - of course, I intended this to apply to genuine Dom/mes and Masters/Mistresses.

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 7:42:49 AM

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Sometimes they even scratch their head to give their balls a break.

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 7:44:54 AM

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Dom men are Dom because they ARE thinking with both brains! We're thinking with our dicks as well as our heads.
Dommes think with their pussies as well as heads.)

I think they cancel each other out!

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 7:52:25 AM

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Hmm I actually think most people think with both its just a nice acceptable way to be sexist

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 8:04:21 AM

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Hold on, let me think about this a minute...

*spurt*

Ah, there we go.

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 8:10:56 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

Hmm I actually think most people think with both its just a nice acceptable way to be sexist

Helllooo????? Its a joke.

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 8:13:11 AM

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Maybe its not so much that doms are intelligent - but that they do more thinking about their other than the average vanilla. And to master someone else, i think they need to be at least as intelligent as the person they are domming. If for no other reason then they need to be able to understand the reasons for actions taken by the dommee.

After all, if you don't understand how your dommee thinks, how can you control them sucessfully?

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 8:16:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

Maybe its not so much that doms are intelligent - but that they do more thinking about their other than the average vanilla. And to master someone else, i think they need to be at least as intelligent as the person they are domming. If for no other reason then they need to be able to understand the reasons for actions taken by the dommee.

After all, if you don't understand how your dommee thinks, how can you control them sucessfully?

I have known some proper thick domiannts, not to be rude but I have

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 8:27:31 AM

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Sorry, but this post is sooooo much fun, I mean, A Man ?? Multi-tasking ?? perish the thought !!
And as for "Thick" Dominants ..... are We still talking "Brain" here being in the cranial cavity ??
Or is this just a Phallussy ?

Sorry, but I couldn't resist !! but in all truth and comedy aside, I think it's just that We think "differently" about Our respective others.
as kiwisub 12 said "Maybe its not so much that doms are intelligent - but that they do more thinking about their other than the average vanilla."

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 8:29:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally
I have known some proper thick domiannts, not to be rude but I have

STRONG TRUTH. Ditto submissives.

BDSM does not make you a special little snowflake in a world that doesn't care.

Stop watching the fucking Matrix.

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 8:43:45 AM

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this is ego talking lol

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 8:58:43 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LATEXBABY64

this is ego talking lol

I'm assuming you refer to my original post. And yes, Doms have egos. We need to, to control our lives and those of our subs we well.

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 9:02:28 AM

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Hi you pretty girl, me penis, me excited, me need go now. You pretty girl.

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 9:03:22 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

Hmm I actually think most people think with both its just a nice acceptable way to be sexist

Helllooo????? Its a joke.

Yeah a joke when we are sexist to men but an outrage if a man does it to a woman, ace how that works isnt it

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 9:06:34 AM

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uumm...bdsm doesn't make you smarter.

I've met quite a lot of doms who are dumber than a doorknob.

Doms are who they are not because they supposedly think with "both heads". Doms are who they are because they have a dominant personality, leadership abilities.

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 9:07:19 AM

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quote:

EEO addition - Dommes think with their pussies as well as heads.)

Comments?

Edited to add - of course, I intended this to apply to genuine Dom/mes and Masters/Mistresses.

< Message edited by DarkSteven -- 8/9/2009 10:36:42 AM >

The OP put this in not 3 mins after the original....He's a right old sort, i'll vouch for 'im

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 9:10:58 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

quote:

ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19

quote:

ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

Hmm I actually think most people think with both its just a nice acceptable way to be sexist

Helllooo????? Its a joke.

Yeah a joke when we are sexist to men but an outrage if a man does it to a woman, ace how that works isnt it

I thinka joke made eitherway should be taken at face value. Not to wring hands over .

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 9:38:06 AM

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quote:

The OP put this in not 3 mins after the original....He's a right old sort,

now now Tulip...i agree that Stevie is old...but not so sure i agree he is a snot...

*puts on glasses*

Oops..

never mind.....

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 9:42:48 AM

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WTF is a genuine dom/me?

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RE: Why Doms are intelligent - 8/9/2009 9:44:12 AM

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Oh hell no. I have met some dominants that were so dumb I had to read comics for an hour after chatting with them so I could work my way back up to normal thought.
Brain slugs.
They were of course partnered by subs of a similar brain numbing capacity.

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