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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/12/2009 1:15:12 PM

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LMAO, Ron!

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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/12/2009 1:16:20 PM

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Make sure the lube you get will not cause adverse c hemical reactions with the toys you're using. Not all lubes are chemically compatible with toys. Also a lube meant for anal play might do better than a regular use lube.

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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/12/2009 5:39:26 PM

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Venatrix,

--- Venatrix to dcnovice:
--- It was intended as humour.

Ditto for my post to you V. It is intended in good fun and as humour. I've always enjoyed your contributions to the forums.

Elan.

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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/12/2009 7:18:06 PM

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ORIGINAL: Trunks1056

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

I am curious as to what your motivation is? Has someone told you this will make you more attractive to women?

Nope. Just something that I wanted to try and explore. Though I am not currently with anyone or have any prospective relationships on the horizon, that doesn't mean I can't keep exploring and learning new things on my own. Doing this is actually letting me learn more about my body, what it can and cannot do, and what it does and doesn't like. It's letting me get more in touch with myself in a very basic sense, and that is reason in and of itself to do it.

That makes sense. Good luck and remember lube is your friend.

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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/12/2009 8:27:36 PM

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Laughing at the inexperienced is one of the things we on the boards enjoy most. You aren't seriously suggesting that we stop?

No, I am just expressing my distaste at the practice.

If someone approached me seeking advice, I would either help them to the best of my capacity or direct them to someone or something that could help them more than I could. My first choice would not be to ridicule them or others similar to them for asking about something they don't understand. That being said, I am a believer in humor and I love using it when I make post on multiple message boards across the vast internet. However I always make sure to include advice with that humor so at least I am being constructive in the conversation.

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That makes sense. Good luck and remember lube is your friend.

It is very much so my friend. I got a large bottle of Slippery Stuff on the recommendation from a Domme that I know. It's working great so far.

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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/12/2009 8:39:45 PM

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Laughing at the inexperienced is one of the things we on the boards enjoy most. You aren't seriously suggesting that we stop?

No, I am just expressing my distaste at the practice.

If someone approached me seeking advice, I would either help them to the best of my capacity or direct them to someone or something that could help them more than I could. My first choice would not be to ridicule them or others similar to them for asking about something they don't understand. That being said, I am a believer in humor and I love using it when I make post on multiple message boards across the vast internet. However I always make sure to include advice with that humor so at least I am being constructive in the conversation.

You actually did receive exactly that. Check post #4 on the thread. Once the answer was given, the rest was kind of free game.

On this forum, you're going to find that we debate, disagree, poke fun at one another, look at weaknesses, strengths, and sometimes, we even grow from it (could be a pun if you see it from the 'anal stretching' aspect). If you found that bit of ribbing painful, wait until you try that biggest plug.

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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/12/2009 8:57:48 PM

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Once you've seen the same topic for the eighth time this month (and its only the 13th!), you find a way to have fun else you end up making a bigger dent banging against the wall.

Hmm...

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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/12/2009 9:05:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: Trunks1056
If someone approached me seeking advice, I would either help them to the best of my capacity or direct them to someone or something that could help them more than I could. My first choice would not be to ridicule them or others similar to them for asking about something they don't understand. That being said, I am a believer in humor and I love using it when I make post on multiple message boards across the vast internet. However I always make sure to include advice with that humor so at least I am being constructive in the conversation.

Yes, yes, that's lovely. Good for you. Now shall we all join hands and sing All Things Bright and Beautiful?

I really didn't think anyone was particularly unpleasant to you, and I do think you are taking yourself a bit too seriously. Think about it: you are on a forum composed of complete strangers, asking what you should do to make your arsehole more accommodating. If you can't see the humour in that, you are unlikely to withstand with much fortitude the comments that get flung about on CM. And we are, overall, a pretty nice bunch, but this is the Internet and no one is obligated to treat you with kid gloves, however much you might wish it were otherwise.

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RE: Anal Training Advice Request. - 8/15/2009 8:01:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: Trunks1056
If someone approached me seeking advice, I would either help them to the best of my capacity or direct them to someone or something that could help them more than I could. My first choice would not be to ridicule them or others similar to them for asking about something they don't understand. That being said, I am a believer in humor and I love using it when I make post on multiple message boards across the vast internet. However I always make sure to include advice with that humor so at least I am being constructive in the conversation.

Really?
You're taking sex advice off the internet....
The i n t e r n e t

If you're going to give advice, you should sow seeds of self consciousness and doubt into anything that can fuck you up if you fuck it up. Patting them on the back and boosting their confidence is riskier than making them stop and think.

Google rectal trauma, foreign body for insight into my viewpoint

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