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Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/11/2009 7:42:23 PM   
luvzdabutt


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone! This is my first post here. This is a simple thread; no right or wrong answers....i just want Your opinions.
i'm looking to make a list of music,(both songs and artists), that is good for certain Domination scenerios. i'm partial to FemDom, but want to hear any suggestions. Everything from slow, sexy grooves to go with worship, sensual torture and teasing, to wild sexy numbers to accompany strap-on sex. Beat-heavy songs to be spanked or whipped by. Even dark, Goth-themed music for more intense scenes. Anyone know of any groups or artists that use a lot of D&s-themed lyrics in their songs?
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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/11/2009 7:47:55 PM   
pinnipedster


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Status: offline 		I played with a woman who liked to have music on during scenes.  I just found it distracting.

At clubs and play parties, loud music is common, and I don't much care for that, either.  It makes for less tension, and makes it harder to do "quiet" scenes. 

Not to say there aren't occasions where music is appropriate or can enhance things, but I think its use is overdone, myself.

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/11/2009 7:54:22 PM   
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Status: offline 		Ode to joy (ninth symphony) for the vaginal sex, Jupiter by Wagner for the strap-on. A sound beating is music enough.


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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/12/2009 6:20:13 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't have special scene music, but I listen to music a lot, and almost always have it on during play.

J.J. Cale has been a passion of mine for years. Loreena McKennitt. Engima. Lots of times I'll deliberately pick something unfamiliar to my sub--some lesser-known Bach and Dengue Fever are themes for me right now. Unfamiliar music disorients him while he's blindfolded and tightly bound, and I like playing with that little extra edge.

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/12/2009 7:19:37 PM   
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Status: offline 		Love Enigma, especially MCMXC A.D. - it starts slow and builds. Totally amazing for doing a full scene especially when fisting my mate as we start with the stretches and by my favorite song i am swaying and really taking his ass

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/12/2009 10:47:14 PM   
aidan


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Discipline and Closer by Nine Inch Nails

Blood, Sex & Booze by Green Day

Coin-Operated Boy by the Dresden Dolls

Pretty When You Cry by VAST


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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/13/2009 2:10:27 AM   
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Status: offline 		I like "Locked in Cage" by Skillet.

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/13/2009 2:20:29 AM   
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Status: offline 		I'd have to agree with Enigma.  They're like, specifically made for sex or something a lot of the time.

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/13/2009 8:51:45 AM   
aidan


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Status: offline 		Oh! I almost forgot. Anything by Lords of Acid is appropriate, especially Coda (The Power is Mine) and The ABCs of Kinky Sex. Also anything by Genitorturers.

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/13/2009 12:58:50 PM   
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Discipline and Closer by Nine Inch Nails


How could you leave out "Meet your Master", "The Hand that Feeds", and "Reptile" (also NiN)?

Polly (Nirvana)
Eat Me Drink Me (Marilyn Manson)
Close My Eyes Forever (Lita Ford)
Wreath of Barbs (Whumpscut)
Come Together (Joe Cocker version from Across the Universe Soundtrack OR Beatles original version)
The World Is Not Enough and #1 Crush (Garbage)
Roads (Portishead)
Voodoo (Godsmack)


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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/13/2009 10:29:15 PM   
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Status: offline 		Karl Orff's Carmina Burana can add an interesting atmosphere to scenes.

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 8/14/2009 6:44:52 AM   
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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 9/28/2009 10:06:19 AM   
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ORIGINAL: CallaFirestormBW

quote:

Discipline and Closer by Nine Inch Nails


How could you leave out "Meet your Master", "The Hand that Feeds", and "Reptile" (also NiN)?



I know this has been here for more than month now, but I just saw it and want to comment.

A song like "The Hand That Feeds" is specifically about rebelling against those in power and destroying existing power structure. It's essentially a protest song. Not exactly what brings the kinky D/s sexy feelings, at least for Mistress and I.


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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 9/28/2009 1:45:02 PM   
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Status: offline 		Hello A/all,

A few year back, I discovered a band named "Bitch" in L.A.  They had a song called Be My Slave, and the rest of their stuff seemed to have a Fem-Dom. edge to it.  My T/O, Meade likes the "Braveheart" soundtrack quite a bit.  Pat Benatar's music always puts me in mind of powerful women too.

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 9/28/2009 2:36:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		If you do a search on this, there have been some great threads with lots of music. I have an extensive list that I should keep on hand for these threads as some of what I have found is not real popular but really says a lot that we can relate to... like Ride the Pain. I just am sorry I don't have time to put it all together at the moment. I wish I could remember the one thread that was amazing in music choices.

Good luck with this!

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 9/28/2009 3:46:24 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: aidan

Oh! I almost forgot. Anything by Lords of Acid is appropriate, especially Coda (The Power is Mine) and The ABCs of Kinky Sex. Also anything by Genitorturers.


You beat me to it Aidan ( No pun intended )

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELIktpD23aQ

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 9/28/2009 4:07:32 PM   
SnowRanger


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Status: offline 		Hey!  Didn't the 'Stones have a song Let the whip fall?...  No?

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 9/28/2009 4:44:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		I don't want any vocals. I just find words to be distracting.

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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 9/28/2009 8:55:55 PM   
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RE: Music and D&s, BDSM - 9/28/2009 11:17:35 PM   
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