rosanegra -> RE: Christians everywhere! (10/6/2008 7:43:55 PM)
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Okay.. I'm lazy, didn't bother reading every post, and am quite possibly repeating someone else here. But, hey, my opinion to the original question will not change regardless of who else may have said it, or something close to it. It merely adds credibility to the viewpoint if they have. So.. here's what I think... I think when you get down to the fundamentals.. a Christian believes in God, believes that Christ was his son sent here to make the ultimate sacrifice for our sins, and was resurrected. They have accepted Christ as their savior, and understand that they are guilty of sin (otherwise why would Jesus have needed to die?) and not perfect, but strive to become moreso. All the rest.. the different denominations, and the individuals in each of those denominations, makes it very muddy water to tread in, indeed. As I posted recently.. you can ask three different clergy about the morality of something, and get three different answers. Throw various churches into the equation.. and we're talking about vastly different OPINIONS. I'm settling out some for myself as we speak. I guess the conclusion that I have come to is that if I can see harm in it for myself or someone else, it's probably not the right thing to do. That is why not only Christians, but the majority of society as a whole, think that things like adultery, murder, stealing, etc.. are wrong. I don't get the whole anti-sexuality thing. Never have, never will. It is probably because they believe by reinforcing modesty they will encourage people to wait to be married before becoming sexually active. I admit, I wish I'd waited.. but I didn't have much of a choice in the matter anyway, so my control was limited. I definitely followed up with some pretty stupid decisions though... Why this emphasis on waiting, and fidelity? Well it's very logical really. STDs suck. Personally I've had partners who had been unfaithful to me... and my biggest problem with it was what they exposed me to without my knowledge or consent. Anyway.. Christianity and BDSM don't seem at all mutually exclusive to me, so what's the big deal?
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