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Raythedom18 -> Age? (8/13/2009 11:23:31 PM)
HI CM I was wondering as a young Master Would Age matter? Like if an 18 year old Master were to take a 24-35 year old slave as their property,would this be wrong?

GreedyTop -> RE: Age? (8/13/2009 11:42:33 PM)
not if both parties were ok with it.

LadyPact -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 1:01:48 AM)
It wouldn't be wrong, but I would have to say that it is rare.

Focus50 -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 3:19:12 AM)
Of course it'd be wrong as I can only see it happening via kidnap/abduction etc.... Focus.

VvShadowspawnvV -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 4:38:32 AM)
I agree with LadyPact and GreedyTop, not wrong, just not common. I would think it would depend a lot on the levels of maturity involved. I know that my girl has difficulty taking younger men seriously, especially when things reach an age level difference that makes her "mommy" reflexes kick in. She is 36, so just out of your range, but close enough for discussion's sake. As usual, my opinion is basically "Do as thou Wilt"... if you find a girl you like and she doesn't have a problem, then give it a shot. One thing though, the fact that you are unsure enough to ask other people about it might be something you need to examine.

DarkSteven -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 5:52:46 AM)
OP, a few suggestions... 1. Don't call yourself a Master. You're a Dom. "Master" is properly used as a title of respect given one who has considerable experience and recognized abilities. 2. I checked your profile. Please reduce the font size. And the font color looks somewhat juvenile to me, like crayons. If you want to appear mature and chase after older women, try to think more like us old farts. Also, quit using smileys! 3. "I'm a new Dom to the lifestyle. tried being a sub but noone wanted me :( SO I decided to become a Dominant :D" Ray, I gotta give you points for honesty, but having failed as a sub is not a stellar reason for becoming a sought-after Dom. Having a desire to Dominate is. Go to munches. Go to play parties (I assume that some allow 18 year olds). Find out what you're comfortable with and enjoy. You'll have an easier time hooking up if you have some experience under your belt.

VvShadowspawnvV -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 7:08:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven 3. "I'm a new Dom to the lifestyle. tried being a sub but noone wanted me :( SO I decided to become a Dominant :D" Ugh... okay, so I shoulda read the profile.... Yeah, I would drop the Master idea for the time being and stick with exploring your dominance and deciding whether or not it is for you. Saying you are interested in a slave is a much larger commitment than you want to get into at this point. DarkSteven is right, if you aren't really sure, just take it slow and easy. It is NEVER a good idea to present yourself as something you aren't just so someone will "want you". Nothing down that road but hurt feelings and a dead end. If you feel that you are a sub, don't give up just because you haven't had any luck right away. It's not about just finding anyone who will sleep with you. At least I hope not. But even if you find that it is, hey, just admit that and go with it... Just be honest, with yourself as well as others. Explore your needs and follow your heart or your gut, not places lower than that. You can't really find what you need if you don't even know what you are looking for... not even if you trip over it... ya know?

OsideGirl -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 7:31:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Raythedom18 Like if an 18 year old Master were to take a 24-35 year old slave as their property,would this be wrong? No, but claiming to be a Master when you're an 18 year old with no experience is.....

SouthernSpankin -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 7:34:44 AM)
I bet this lil snip from your profile has prospective slaves begging to be your property... I'm a nice master...but if I'm in a bad mood I may have to take it out on you

HumiliatePorky -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 8:10:17 AM)
I wouldn't mind submitting to someone younger, but as stated above, you need more reasons to want to dominate rather than just being the other role didn't work for you. Most wouldn't take you seriously, it may also help having a more detailed profile so curious submissives could know a bit more about you. Only my perspective.

littlewonder -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 2:43:32 PM)
If both are attracted to each other and are compatible and don't find any problems in being together then no. 24 is only 6 yrs older...not that big a deal imo. It's when the gap starts to get larger that you may start to run into problems.

RapierFugue -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 2:45:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven 1. Don't call yourself a Master. You're a Dom. "Master" is properly used as a title of respect given one who has considerable experience and recognized abilities. That made me throw my head back and laugh like a cavalier. Well batted mate [:D]

Focus50 -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 2:55:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven 3. "I'm a new Dom to the lifestyle. tried being a sub but noone wanted me :( SO I decided to become a Dominant :D" Whoa, his profile really says that...?!? I love it when my preconceived, generalised prejudices about teenage "Masters" hit the dead centre of the bullseye. And perfectly reinforces my first reply here.... lol Focus.

lovingpet -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 2:55:29 PM)
Age is not the issue. Ability is. lovingpet

LillyoftheVally -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 2:59:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet Age is not the issue. Ability is. lovingpet And maturity, and self awareness, and confidence, and self esteem etc etc

lovingpet -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 3:02:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet Age is not the issue. Ability is. lovingpet And maturity, and self awareness, and confidence, and self esteem etc etc I consider all of those as part of that "ability". Without them, a person has absolutely NO ability to master ME. lovingpet

GoddessImaginos -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 3:05:23 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet quote: ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet Age is not the issue. Ability is. lovingpet And maturity, and self awareness, and confidence, and self esteem etc etc I consider all of those as part of that "ability". Without them, a person has absolutely NO ability to master ME. lovingpet Double-plus ditto that, absolutely. This is kind of like another saying I favor: "it isn't quantity, it's quality.."

RapierFugue -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 3:09:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet Age is not the issue. Ability is. lovingpet Agreed. Neither of which have anything to do with the use of the terms "dom" or "master". But it was the phrase "recognised abilities" which caused me most mirth. Recognised by whom? And when? Are the WI holding testing sessions that don't relate to cakes? I think we should be told. The truth will out [:D]

GoddessImaginos -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 3:11:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: lovingpet Age is not the issue. Ability is. lovingpet Agreed. Neither of which have anything to do with the use of the terms "dom" or "master". But it was the phrase "recognised abilities" which caused me most mirth. Recognised by whom? And when? Are the WI holding testing sessions that don't relate to cakes? I think we should be told. The truth will out [:D] Are You kidding? There should be classes at the local YMCA involving judicious use of nautilus machines, but hey, maybe that's just Me..

TurboJugend -> RE: Age? (8/14/2009 3:12:34 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Raythedom18 HI CM I was wondering as a young Master Would Age matter? Like if an 18 year old Master were to take a 24-35 year old slave as their property,would this be wrong? when I was 17 my first slave was 45. She tought me a lott. It depends how deep it goes. This was not 24/7. Living together with a a big age difference propably would be problematic ( for me). But it is not impossible ofcourse. Just the way you think changes when you get older. Now I am older I notice with subs/slaves that are to young..we have to many different opinions. No one to blame...but it is not comfy in a relation.

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