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marie2 -> RE: Can I get that on a silver platter for you? (8/15/2009 6:11:27 PM)
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If people search bdsm under google, cm might well be one of the sites that comes up. I'm not sure how talking to actual people about their questions is much different than reading an article or a book. I would think talking to people who have real life experience is about as close as one can come to getting decent info.
Granted, you can't learn to use a flogger or a singletail or whathave you by talking to people, but maybe by raising the question, someone will offer some safety tips, recommend a demo in their area, or a good DVD on the subject. Like anything else a person is new to, it starts with a thought, then information, then talk, then action.
Many people get into a state of anxiety over "trying" this, as if it's life or death, as if they're going to fuck something up their "first time", as if there is a right or wrong way, etc etc. I don't find these people offensive at all, they're just seeking advice and info. If someone is here interacting and asking questions, I don't consider that lazy at all. It's the person who doesn't seek info that seems lazy to me, or worse yet, the inexperienced person who thinks he's a know it all.
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