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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/18/2009 5:24:21 AM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: NormalOutside

Whenever you hear someone on this site complain there are no "true" doms (or subs, slaves, etc), mentally replace 'true' with 'suitable for me'. EVERYBODY is true. There's no such thing as a false person. It's just really easy for people to get frustrated and label anyone unsuitable for them "fake" or "not true".


Well, it's hard to say that the sixteen year old "Dom" who portrays himself as 34 year old Lord UberDom with ten years' experience is not fake.


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/18/2009 5:26:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

And yet another profile has disppeared, or am I the only one. 



You may be the only one vulgar enough to comment upon it, and draw everyone's attention to this "evil bad girl's cowardice."

Feel better now that your h8's been acknowledged? Pat, pat, pat. (smirk).

I think the thread starter was smart to delete this profile. She was asking for help in her own way, but because she didn't ask in the prescribed way for this forum (which involves plenty of ritualistic butt kissing and giving attention to the regulars and telling them how kewl and wise they are) she was set upon, like a hare in a circle of wolves. Harried, provoked, humiliated, simply because she wasn't as sly about doing the old soft-shoe suckup as some new posters are. Her profile is now a dead end, thanks to certain sweethearts who so generously shared their bile with her. She'd never be able to ask a serious question again in this forum without being instantly treated with rudeness and derision.

The Usual (and very tired) Disclaimer: I don't know the thread starter. I don't know the regulars, nor do I want to know most of them, given what I see in threads like this (shudder). I do find group attacks such as this (points vagely at the entire thread) vulgar and disgusting and I will speak up about them upon occasion (like those certain times where if I don't do so I'll probably vomit in self-disgust). You may now return to your regularly scheduled snarktoadiness. Fresh toad food will be layed out in the next hour or so, I imagine.

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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/18/2009 5:50:45 AM   
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but because she didn't ask in the prescribed way for this forum (which involves plenty of ritualistic butt kissing and giving attention to the regulars and telling them how kewl and wise they are) she was set upon, like a hare in a circle of wolves.


Actually, her post was somewhat off-putting with the attitude that came through and the wording talking about there not being TRUE dominants that no one is sincere, etc.  Has nothing to do with kissing the regulars' asses at all. Attitude comes through and hers came through negative.


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/18/2009 5:58:37 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

quote:

but because she didn't ask in the prescribed way for this forum (which involves plenty of ritualistic butt kissing and giving attention to the regulars and telling them how kewl and wise they are) she was set upon, like a hare in a circle of wolves.


Actually, her post was somewhat off-putting with the attitude that came through and the wording talking about there not being TRUE dominants that no one is sincere, etc.  Has nothing to do with kissing the regulars' asses at all. Attitude comes through and hers came through negative.

Sari stated this perfectly


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/18/2009 9:41:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

Actually, her post was somewhat off-putting with the attitude that came through and the wording talking about there not being TRUE dominants that no one is sincere, etc.  Has nothing to do with kissing the regulars' asses at all. Attitude comes through and hers came through negative.


   A little common courtesy goes a long way, asking things in a negative, demanding tone really does no one any good. Just because Lumus isn't on CM doesn't make Him any less real. Besides, honey always catches the flies better than vinegar......(not that Weal and Twue dominants are flies!)

As probably any pilot can tell you, the approach is critical to the landing. Come in the wrong way and you won't make the landing. I wish the OP luck and hope that she learned something from her brief foray onto the boards. 


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/18/2009 10:54:57 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: NormalOutside

Whenever you hear someone on this site complain there are no "true" doms (or subs, slaves, etc), mentally replace 'true' with 'suitable for me'. EVERYBODY is true. There's no such thing as a false person. It's just really easy for people to get frustrated and label anyone unsuitable for them "fake" or "not true".


Well, it's hard to say that the sixteen year old "Dom" who portrays himself as 34 year old Lord UberDom with ten years' experience is not fake.



Why when we are the internet do we call them 'fakes' and not liers?


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/18/2009 12:31:44 PM   
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Status: offline 		gone to good slaves, everyone;
when will they ever learn?
when will they ever learn?


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/19/2009 2:20:51 PM   
imtheman31069


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Status: offline 		hey everyone. i  am new here well actually i had an account here a year or so ago but wasn't very active. i am back! while i am very new here and pretty new to pursuing this as a lifstyle, i do enjoy reading your post. thanks for sharing! i am really looking forward to getting to know some of you.  as with any adult site i hope that some just skip right over me :)

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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/19/2009 2:24:49 PM   
mnottertail


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/19/2009 2:28:47 PM   
imtheman31069


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Status: offline 		thanks. I am not always the best at following rules. exspecially if i don't know what they are. i do however try not to be intusive until i learn what they are. thanks for the welcome!

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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/19/2009 2:38:35 PM   
daintydimples


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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth

I'm reminded of my daughter graduating college with a degree in 'Art History'. She wondered why the Louvre wasn't calling her either.

With apologies to Pete Seegar
Where have all the good Dom's gone?!
Long time passing
Where have all the good Dom's gone?!
Long time ago
Where have all the good Dom's gone?!
Gone to Folsom every one...
When will we ever learn,
When will we ever learn?



Okay this did crack me up.

Probably b/c I'm old enough to sing along.

I've been here on CM a relatively short time, and have met some fantastic doms. So far none of them are the perfect match for me, but there are great unattached doms out there looking.

Of course I've had to filter though a lot of less than marvelous males....it's all part of the process. I think the important thing is to enjoy were you are, where ever that is . . .


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/19/2009 3:30:22 PM   
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This site is full of doms
Though you might think they've gone
The Goreans don't fear the real doms
Nor do the switches the subs and the slaves
You can be like they are
Come on baby
Don't fear the real doms
Baby try your hand
Don't fear the real doms
No need to whine and cry
Don't fear the real doms
Baby there's your man
La la la la la
La la la la la

Now the wedding has gone
In Tampa there was one
GreedyTop and Pirate
Are together in eternity
(GreedyTop and Pirate)
4,000 subs and doms every day
(Like GreedyTop and Pirate)
Another 4,000 joining every day
Come on baby
Don't fear the real doms
Baby try your hand
Don't fear the real doms
No need to whine and cry
Don't fear the real doms
Baby there's your man
La la la la la
La la la la la

This thread started by subann
Here but now she's gone
Posted last night for advice
And it was clear that she couldn't go on
Maybe new mail and a dom appeared
Or she remembered alt and just disappeared
Or maybe she's about to reappear
Maybe the doms won't be afraid
Come on baby
Maybe she'll come back here
And she found a dom
And the dom was real
And she changed her profile
She has become like we are
She has found a new dom
She has become like we are
Come on baby
Don't fear the real doms......


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/19/2009 5:04:03 PM   
DarkSteven


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/19/2009 9:58:30 PM   
GreedyTop


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/20/2009 8:02:37 AM   
beargonewild


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/20/2009 12:16:07 PM   
Aanakaris


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"A little common courtesy goes a long way, "

Common courtesy is not as common as it used to be, just like common sense.


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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/22/2009 7:07:06 AM   
CaringandReal


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SassySarijane

quote:

but because she didn't ask in the prescribed way for this forum (which involves plenty of ritualistic butt kissing and giving attention to the regulars and telling them how kewl and wise they are) she was set upon, like a hare in a circle of wolves.


Actually, her post was somewhat off-putting with the attitude that came through and the wording talking about there not being TRUE dominants that no one is sincere, etc.  Has nothing to do with kissing the regulars' asses at all. Attitude comes through and hers came through negative.



Being single, I rather agreed with her statement and felt some empathy toward her. Nothing about the post personally put me off. It was a little awkwardly worded (but there is nobody posting in this forum that cannot be accused of doing the same at one point or another) and also doing dual time as a second personal ad, but it wasn't a personal attack on anybody that I could see.

To me, there is very little difference between saying someone is copping an "Attitude" or is "offputting" and saying "you didn't kiss my butt enough new poster!" To me the former is mostly a more socially acceptable and less blunt way of saying the latter.

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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/22/2009 7:27:09 AM   
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Its not magic sauce, my first owner did show up on my very first foray into the hawaiian scene, the man I serve now took 3 years.

And as a dominant, I have explored many submissives, and slaves, and what I have learned is that the right person shows up at the the right time, there is no rushing it,.

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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/22/2009 7:35:15 AM   
Aileen1968


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Status: offline 		I got the best dom on this site. *does the happy dance*
Sucks to be you.

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RE: Where have all the good Dom's gone?! - 8/22/2009 7:39:31 AM   
SassySarijane


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quote:

ORIGINAL: CaringandReal



To me, there is very little difference between saying someone is copping an "Attitude" or is "offputting" and saying "you didn't kiss my butt enough new poster!" To me the former is mostly a more socially acceptable and less blunt way of saying the latter.


There is a big difference for me in it. As a long time member and poster here of nearly 5 years, I expect no one to kiss my ass new or not. Her post came across very negative and negativity is very off putting to me. Simple as that. Has nothing to do with ass kissing or lack thereof.


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