RE: female to female question!

Collarspace Discussion Forums

Home Login Search

RE: female to female question!

View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: female to female question!

Page: << < prev 1 [2]

Message

<< Older Topic Newer Topic >>

RE: female to female question! - 8/17/2009 5:31:49 PM

LadyHibiscus

Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline

Hmmmm... younger dominants are more reckless, too! wheeeeeeeeeee!!

And in answer to the OP, when it comes to women, I do look for emotional maturity rather than chronological age. Men... well, after a lifetime of older men, I am looking at the ones my own age. Because Viagra? Fooey.

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]

(in reply to PeonForHer)

Profile

Post #: 21

RE: female to female question! - 8/17/2009 5:40:47 PM

PeonForHer

Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Hmmmm... younger dominants are more reckless, too! wheeeeeeeeeee!!

And in answer to the OP, when it comes to women, I do look for emotional maturity rather than chronological age. Men... well, after a lifetime of older men, I am looking at the ones my own age. Because Viagra? Fooey.

Actually, I totally agree on the need to look for emotional maturity. Is it possible that a middle-aged femdom can have the emotional maturity of a teenager? I didn't think so once, but I do now.

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)

Profile

Post #: 22

RE: female to female question! - 8/17/2009 8:17:03 PM

Tantriqu

Posts: 2026
Joined: 12/29/2006
Status: offline

Lol, thanx, MsFlutter, for saving me the [key]strokes.
And of course men say that all time, here and on vanilla sites: over-middle-aged men demanding and expecting '18+,' and 'No drama', and they don't get dissed for it [except by Us].

Besides being sedulous, sweet/tangy, and simply FABulous in bed, I remain cheerful, cheering, interesting and interested, engaged and engaging, and I surpass the definition of mental health as 'knowing when to say 'No', knowing when to say 'Yes,' and knowing when to say 'Yippeeee~!'
And I knows whats and whoms I likes. OOOH! And when I'm with that cheerful, interesting, engaging sub, I come like a bull.
[Bows gracefully,] and now back to the dehijacked thread.

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: MsFlutter

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

The younger ones are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier.

That's true of younger dommes too, Tantriqu. The older ones tend to be lazy, vinegary old bats who are no good in bed whatsoever. No offence meant, of course.

'scuse me???

No no, don't get me wrong: I was only talking about really old women - over 30, say.

Nah. Seriously, though: I do sometimes think that it's strange that certain things are OK for women to say, but not for men to say (Fair enough - no doubt, vice versa, too). I was laughing at the thought of a man turning up to opine that 'younger dommes are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier'.

(in reply to PeonForHer)

Profile

Post #: 23

RE: female to female question! - 8/18/2009 1:44:31 AM

PeonForHer

Posts: 19612
Joined: 9/27/2008
Status: offline

And I knows whats and whoms I likes. OOOH! And when I'm with that cheerful, interesting, engaging sub, I come like a bull.

Feckenell, Tantriqu. I had an image of you getting interested in some man, going to the toilet, then coming back and charging head first into his stomach. Whumpf!

_____________________________

http://www.domme-chronicles.com

(in reply to Tantriqu)

Profile

Post #: 24

RE: female to female question! - 8/18/2009 1:58:26 AM

RealSub58

Posts: 1073
Status: offline

quote:

ORIGINAL: sandra25

hi there!

Just wondering, I am aware of the fact that I am merely attracted to those (much) older than myself. I get the feeling that most women prefer someone of their own age as their slave, or am I wrong? Wrong !!

love,

sandra

I actively sought a sub/slave sort of companion/partner
for several years and the lovely young ladies just chickened out in the end. I don't blame them, I am twice your age Sandra. Who wants another "mom"?

I have never considered myself a switch but on the occasions that I was part of ffm, I topped the other female and was it a hot rush. A sensual, hot bubbles, wax, silk tie bondage, body oil touching carassing sort of intense hot that left me wanting more. I won't go on....

So yes...there are those of "us".

< Message edited by RealSub58 -- 8/18/2009 2:01:44 AM >

(in reply to sandra25)

Profile

Post #: 25

RE: female to female question! - 8/18/2009 3:37:32 AM

MsStarlett

Posts: 1879
Joined: 12/23/2007
Status: offline

My best beloved Westie was 20 years my junior. We knew from the start that it would most likely end when he found a girl his own age and it did. He needed a full time life partner, not just a weekend visit once a month.

My current is my age. He has a nice settled life and is comfortable being alone. It's quite nice.

When I was younger, as in my 20's, many of my partners were 8 to 10 years older. I would say that two were as much as 30 years older. But those were one night stands and it was always known that it was just for fun and games, not a relationship.

There are pros and cons to every age group. The value of the person is far more important than the date on their birth certificate.

_____________________________

It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.
It is by the beans of Java that thoughts acquire speed,
the hands acquire shakes, the shakes become a warning,
It is by caffeine alone I set my mind in motion.

(in reply to RealSub58)

Profile

Post #: 26

RE: female to female question! - 8/18/2009 9:23:00 AM

ShaktiSama

Posts: 1674
Joined: 8/13/2007
Status: offline

I have found a lot to love about my younger submissive and his body and mind, but I have also been with people my own age, older, etc. in the past. I don't have a strong physical age preference, but I know many other women here do, and gravitate toward one age group or another--some older, some younger, some the same age. *shrug* It's just another one of those things like height and body type or whatever--superficial, but part of the appeal of the package if you have a "type".

_____________________________

"Women and cats will do as they please, and men and dogs should relax and get used to the idea."
-- Robert A. Heinlein

(in reply to PeonForHer)

Profile

Post #: 27

RE: female to female question! - 8/18/2009 11:02:37 AM

MsD

Posts: 68
Joined: 4/25/2004
Status: offline

the replies here, as usual, disqualify the "most" in OP's statement ... you get a slightly different answer from everyone. Personally, I have always related to younger vs. my own age, in vanilla & in bdsm ... it has a lot to do with energy & passion for life *s* I will say, though, emotional maturity counts for A LOT in being able to relate on any level

(in reply to sandra25)

Profile

Post #: 28

RE: female to female question! - 8/19/2009 6:29:11 PM

chamberqueen

Posts: 1597
Joined: 10/25/2007
From: Kalamazoo, MI
Status: offline

I prefer subs younger than me. I enjoy helping to mold them into someone more mature. : )

_____________________________

(in reply to MsD)

Profile

Post #: 29

RE: female to female question! - 8/20/2009 12:20:18 AM

DominaAmy925

Posts: 41
Joined: 11/23/2008
Status: offline

For a female or male age really dosen't mater to me. As long as you both get alone what dose age have to do with it.

_____________________________

Domina Amy
http://www.clips4sale.com/store/24912
http://www.fetishvideos.com/store/forbiddenfantasys
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/dominaamy925
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/clubfemcolumbusohio/
http://twitter.com/DominaAmy
http://dominaamy.

(in reply to chamberqueen)

Profile

Post #: 30

RE: female to female question! - 8/23/2009 4:00:28 PM

lateralist1

Posts: 886
Joined: 11/22/2006
Status: offline

Age is just a number.
What matters to me is personality, ability and a successful life.
If a sub/slave can't manage hir own life then what use is she/he going to be to me?

(in reply to DominaAmy925)

Profile

Post #: 31

RE: female to female question! - 8/24/2009 2:20:04 AM

islandgyrl

Posts: 37
Joined: 9/8/2008
Status: offline

Ah, yes, emotional maturity. I have known young women with an abundance of maturity. Some women my age have demonstrated that the number of years one lives doesn't necessarily relate to their level of maturity. Age, like skin color, doesn't really matter to me. What matters is their emotional stability, level of maturity, and if there is chemistry of course.

Island

(in reply to lateralist1)

Profile

Post #: 32