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sandra25 -> female to female question! (8/16/2009 8:08:37 PM)
hi there! Just wondering, I am aware of the fact that I am merely attracted to those (much) older than myself. I get the feeling that most women prefer someone of their own age as their slave, or am I wrong? love, sandra

Tantriqu -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 8:19:17 PM)
Younger for Me! Men in their 20's and 30's only so far. The older ones have toooo much baggage and drama, or are only into their own fetishes, or of course 'aren't quite divorced yet' aka sluts. The younger ones are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier. Of course, other Dommes' experiences will vary, but I've yet to meet an older sub who meets My criteria.

sandra25 -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 8:23:17 PM)
Well, I am only talking female to female here ? :D

StoneFox -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 8:26:31 PM)
If I was into chicks I would want a slave who was close in age to myself. You know...similar life experiences and all.

Tantriqu -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 8:34:08 PM)
Lol, I thought you meant female Domme to Domme, not female ON female ;-)

BotanicalMiss -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 8:54:16 PM)
I am more concerned with maturity than age. A young woman who knows who she is or who she wants to be is much more attractive to me than a woman my own age who thinks being a smart assed brat is cute.

dreamerdreaming -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 9:08:51 PM)
I prefer men MUCH older than myself. They're yummy. [:)] And they're sweet, and obedient... And they know their ass from a hole in the ground. Those my age have never interested me, beyond friendship. And the guys who are my son's age (or younger).... Ew... That's just nasty. And not in a good way.

Lashra -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 9:15:18 PM)
Ten years either way works for me. My male sub is 9 years younger than I am, the male I owned before him was 17 years younger and that was just way to big of a difference. Haven't had a female yet but maybe one day. ~Lashra

SomethingCatchy -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 9:22:34 PM)
Since I have only met a handful of women my age who were mature enough to not drive me up a wall within minutes, I'd have to say I'd go with an older woman IF I were so inclined to lean that way.

MissLaura1973 -> RE: female to female question! (8/16/2009 9:24:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: BotanicalMiss I am more concerned with maturity than age. A young woman who knows who she is or who she wants to be is much more attractive to me than a woman my own age who thinks being a smart assed brat is cute. Couldn't have stated it better myself.

MaamJay -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 1:30:18 AM)
I am open to the prospect of a male or a female sub. I'm not against younger people, Master is 15 years younger than Me anyway! Someone half My age would have to go some to convince Me that they really really want to be with Me, but I wouldn't count it as impossible. Similarly, someone close to My age or older would have to go some to convince Me that they are comfortable with a younger Man being head of the household! But I wouldn't count it as impossible. Perhaps one issue I'd have with a much younger female (and that Master might have with a much younger or better endowed male) is an element of insecurity or jealousy. A lesbian female wouldn't be "after Master" so that would be good, but she'd be likely to have a far more delicious figure than I, and that might provoke a bit of envy! However, I think that could be worked through, it needn't be a deal-breaker. Maam Jay aka violet[A] Edited to add: It's possible a younger person will be a lot less set in their ways and therefore will be more easily trained to do things in the way I like them done. So that could be a definite asset! And like an earlier poster said, no way I want a smart-assed brat of any age. Master and I also have so much in common it's amazing, far more than I had with hubby 1 (4 years older than Me) or hubby 2 (same age as Me)! So age isn't the only determinant of that.

LaTigresse -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 4:09:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sandra25 hi there! Just wondering, I am aware of the fact that I am merely attracted to those (much) older than myself. I get the feeling that most women prefer someone of their own age as their slave, or am I wrong? love, sandra I have only ever had younger. It isn't that I limit myself, it's just how it has worked. I don't mind being called a dirty old lady....[:D]

BoiJen -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 4:42:09 AM)
It ain't anything bu ancient 'net history at this rate, but MsKitty is 16 (or so...months aren't exact) years older than I am. Age is something you need to decide for yourself. I'm in for "dirty old ladies" personally. boi Edited because I caught myself in a grammatical crime using "then" rather than "than" and I hate that; so I had to fix it.

sandra25 -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 7:10:15 AM)
Thanks all!

Drifa -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 7:34:05 AM)
My Lady is 9 years older than me. Of course, I've always been attracted to older, confident women, which gets reflected in my artwork.

PeonForHer -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 9:07:41 AM)
quote: The younger ones are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier. That's true of younger dommes too, Tantriqu. The older ones tend to be lazy, vinegary old bats who are no good in bed whatsoever. No offence meant, of course. [;)]

MistressSassy66 -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 4:35:36 PM)
I am older than Punk by a couple months. Being the same age has little to do with how we think. She was raised in a middle/upperclass family,only child at home and spoiled rotten,she doesnt see things the way I do coming from a lowerclass,welfare life. I see a "beautiful" flower she sees "a" flower. Life experience plays a huge role in how we act,its not just about age.

MsFlutter -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 4:55:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: The younger ones are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier. That's true of younger dommes too, Tantriqu. The older ones tend to be lazy, vinegary old bats who are no good in bed whatsoever. No offence meant, of course. [;)] 'scuse me??? [sm=mistress.gif]

fadedshadow -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 5:04:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lashra Ten years either way works for me. My male sub is 9 years younger than I am, the male I owned before him was 17 years younger and that was just way to big of a difference. Haven't had a female yet but maybe one day. ~Lashra you had a sub my age? awesome

PeonForHer -> RE: female to female question! (8/17/2009 5:22:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MsFlutter quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: The younger ones are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier. That's true of younger dommes too, Tantriqu. The older ones tend to be lazy, vinegary old bats who are no good in bed whatsoever. No offence meant, of course. [;)] 'scuse me??? [sm=mistress.gif] No no, don't get me wrong: I was only talking about really old women - over 30, say. [:D] Nah. Seriously, though: I do sometimes think that it's strange that certain things are OK for women to say, but not for men to say (Fair enough - no doubt, vice versa, too). I was laughing at the thought of a man turning up to opine that 'younger dommes are more cheerful, interested and engaged, as well as mentally and physically healthier'.

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