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TimrehIX -> Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 2:44:32 PM)

I was talking to a Dom the other day and there was something off. He seemed more manipulating than dominant. For instance when I said I said I was nervous about meeting him, he said something like “I knew you would chicken out, I have a sixth sense about these things.” That seemed a little strange, especially because I was on my way out the door to meet him at the time. I told him I had not backed out of meeting him, all I said was that I was nervous. He said that if I really wanted to be a sub I wouldn’t be nervous. I then said that I have never gone to meet some one for the first time without being nervous. He then said alright and I should go to the meet. I backed out because I was pissed at this point and not in the right frame of mind. Witch he then took to mean I was chickening out after all.

Another time I was trying to talk to a Dom on YM. His posts were horribly difficult to read. There were typos in almost every word, no punctuation and poorly constructed sentences. I found myself only getting the gist of what he would say to me. Eventually I just gave up. All his posts were like “Od wnt metm e netx wEen?d”

Another Dom I spoke to, immediately started telling me (first conversation) how I was THE slave for him. He has been looking for a slave just like me for years and I should move up there so be his collard slave. He could send a plane ticket and I didn’t have to bring anything with me. He would keep me naked, shaved and plugged I would never leave the house, and he would (if I was good) loan me out to his friends. This is too much, talking about such things in hypothetical terms is hot but he really was pushing for me to make the move. First he offered then he ordered me to do it. When I said no he accused me of not being a “real slave.”

So these are a few Doms I haven’t met with because they were to out there. Does any one else have stories about creepy Doms –whether you met them or not-?



lovingpet -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 2:49:49 PM)

Not really. My mailbox is pretty empty actually and was before my little note about my partner on my profile. For the most part, I have met with sensible folks, but I guess my luck could run out one day. What is your selection criteria for choosing to get to know someone or to meet them? It seems like a pretty large concentration for one person to run into.

lovingpet



GoddessImaginos -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 2:58:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

Not really. My mailbox is pretty empty actually and was before my little note about my partner on my profile. For the most part, I have met with sensible folks, but I guess my luck could run out one day. What is your selection criteria for choosing to get to know someone or to meet them? It seems like a pretty large concentration for one person to run into.

lovingpet


Hi pet. I know I'm not a sub/slave, but I just wanted to throw in there: even listing as a Domme and stating very specifically that I'm a married Woman and what I am and am not interested in (by way of example: it says, right at the top of My profile, "NO Dominants, etc. and so forth, except in friendship). This doesn't slow 'em down a bit. One night, I had to threaten to report this one human butt plug because He kept insisting that I show Him nekkie pix, never mind that I'm a married Domme. I've also had several marriage and relocation proposals, and the sort of compliments on My photo collection that were obviously designed as come-ons, I've utterly lost count.
I don't really mind someone perving My pix but that was all a little over the top. Most of them I ignore, unless they really do piss Me off, then I let 'em have it with both barrels.



lovingpet -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 3:01:48 PM)

I know how fortunate I am to somehow dodge the mail bullet. I don't know if my cyber breath stinks or what, but I'll take it! LOL

My concern is that the OP is deciding to go beyond that first email with folks like the above mentioned. You ignore, block, delete, and even report if necessary. He's intrigued and gets to know them. I still say selection process.

lovingpet



cornflakegirl -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 3:04:52 PM)

I get lots of mail from guys telling me about their dungeons they want to keep me in. Delete/block, no biggie.

I talked to one guy who seemed super nice and really fun and then the tone all of a sudden totally changed. He demanded to know where I lived right that moment, and then started accusing me of being paranoid for not telling him. Then he threatened to find my address and stop on by. I blocked him, but what a weirdo!

I have talked with several guys who seem really nice and a couple who were ok but just too pushy for my tastes. I went out with one guy. He was sweet and we had a nice time.

Seems like it's the same all over the net. There are lots of decent people, a few real weirdos, and a few really great people.



RedMagic1 -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 3:05:48 PM)

I think sub/slave gay men have to wade through the most crap.  Even more than femdoms who post hot pics.  Sorry, dude.  A lot of horny men get weird, and a lot of weird men get horny.  Not much else to say.



littlewonder -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 3:06:32 PM)

I've got quite a few stories from meeting some in r/l.

The ones online I just always saw as lame and put them on ignore or just deleted their emails.

The stories aren't important though. Just scratch them off your list as incompatible and say "NEXT" and move on.



leadership527 -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 3:42:36 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lovingpet
I know how fortunate I am to somehow dodge the mail bullet.

You know creepy isn't really a natural style for me.. but I"m a quick study and I'm sure I could cobble something together for you so that you don't feel left out....



seababy -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:02:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TimrehIX

Another time I was trying to talk to a Dom on YM. His posts were horribly difficult to read. There were typos in almost every word, no punctuation and poorly constructed sentences. I found myself only getting the gist of what he would say to me. Eventually I just gave up. All his posts were like “Od wnt metm e netx wEen?d”



To be fair to the Doms out there, in this case you where probably conversing with someones pet cat left unattended at the keyboard.


One guy I was talking to insisted that he could tell I was a "natural slave" (giving me a mental picture of  hordes of "unnatural" slaves wandering around like some kind of zombie or vampire flick) and that I should move overseas to be with him and live in a cage large enough for me to lie flat but not sit up.

He would send a friend to unlock the cage in the middle of the day while he was at work so I could have a toilet break. I guess that is another "real" test if there is a house fire, natural slaves have fire retardant properties.
If I was good (Erm, how bad can you be in a cage you cant move in?) the cage would be wheeled into the bathroom and I would get a hose down and my cage cleaned of any toilet accidents.

Very rarely would I need to be taken out of the cage as he would have access hatches.

Fun times would be had as he used tattoos, piercing and scaring on my breasts and pink bits over time, deliberately designed to clash and look ugly as a form of humiliation.
On and on went his incredibly involved and convoluted fantasies.

I decided my kink wasn't to be someones battery hen and graffiti board and didn't chase up this once in a life time opportunity. Also I decided I probably wasn't all that submissive after all, as the whole time his chatting I am thinking "What a  pompous git."
I dunno was he creepy? One persons creepy, another s holiday in the sun I guess.





lovingpet -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:11:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: leadership527

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet
I know how fortunate I am to somehow dodge the mail bullet.

You know creepy isn't really a natural style for me.. but I"m a quick study and I'm sure I could cobble something together for you so that you don't feel left out....



But sadism fits you just fine. Of course, I know you plan to live on your river in Egypt for a long time yet, but yanno! *teasing grin*

Please, oh please, send me creepy email! Somebody???? Anybody????



lovingpet -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:13:35 PM)

On the typo IM guy, I'd say that is either someone completely deranged or with a major disability who was really trying. Of course switching to the phone might have been a good idea in the case of the situation with a disability (not so much for the deranged LOL).

The others, they're not for the OP. No biggie. It sucks to have to keep searching, but settling is not a very appealing option either. Time and patience OP! I know it can be frustrating.

lovingpet



cpK69 -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:27:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: TimrehIX

Does any one else have stories about creepy Doms –whether you met them or not-?



There was one...

He said "I am creepy"

I thought, *strange* and asked what he meant. He did not respond back. *shudders*

Kim



Tantriqu -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:30:50 PM)

Lol, no way do gay subs get more trashmail than FemDommes! Alas, we win.
Death threats, mutilation, rape, all standard Inbox fodder when you dare to tick 'Domme' which cowardly doms, comp sci's and sociopaths seem to think means 'open season', just 'cuz they cain't get a woman even if they pay. When a gay sub gets a baaaad msg, they blub about the hate crime all over the interweb. When a Domme gets one, we shrug, delete, report, block, move on. Only if it's amusingly squirrelly do we mention them.
When I first signed on, I couldn't believe the venom spewing out, and probably missed some good men because I'd read the bad men's mail just before theirs, and was too scared to meet ANYBODY from the net after the one who was going to gouge out one eye so he could skullfuck me and literally cut me a new asshole so he had his choice of rapeholes. And that was the first of many. Yawn now, not then. Fortunately, I've met a very nice couple of men since then here :-)
Instead of 'you must be this tall to ride this ride', there should be an Aspberger's scale to e-mail. If you're this rude, you have to cc Admin with every e-mail. If you're this rude, you can only receive mail. And if you're THIS rude, a giant hand reaches through the monitor to yank out your highspeed FOREVER. Ahhhhhh, a perfect cyberworld.



RedMagic1 -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:31:08 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lovingpet
Please, oh please, send me creepy email! Somebody???? Anybody????

Yes, Mistress.



lovingpet -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:35:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet
Please, oh please, send me creepy email! Somebody???? Anybody????

Yes, Mistress.



OH holy Hell!!!!!!

*caught it on camera and mic and everything. Now time for the blackmail! muhahaha!!!!!*



leadership527 -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:49:42 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1
Yes, Mistress.

OK, I'm impressed. Getting "vaguely creepy" into two words is inspired.



lovingpet -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 4:56:34 PM)

Creepy????

I found it hot myself.....Like having a tiger on a chain [;)]



leadership527 -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 5:07:15 PM)

yeah.. the creepy part comes in when you realize that this particular tiger is wild and has no business being on the end of a chain... a point worth considering for someone contemplating holding the other end of that chain... *laughs*.



lovingpet -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 5:10:43 PM)

Who says she who holds the other end is not wilder? Assumptions my dear man.




RedMagic1 -> RE: Creepy Doms. (8/17/2009 5:10:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lovingpet

Creepy????

I found it hot myself.....Like having a tiger on a chain [;)]

If you will be my true dominate, I will be your personal salivate.



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