Daddysredhead -> RE: To all subs; Calling another Dominant by Sir, Master or Lord...etc... (8/23/2009 8:30:02 AM)
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As has been stated before, I call people I meet at clubs, parties, etc. by their first names, regardless of what side of the slash they are on. I'm Southern, so good manners are key. I would not let my kids call an adult by his/her first name and act like they are on the same level as that grown-up. Most of the people from the boards know that when I'm on the phone with them and the wild things ask who I'm talking to, I say, "Miss (first name)" or "Mr. (first name)." That's just the way it is. There are many sub types who address DaddyBoo as "Sir" right from the bat. It doesn't bother me, it's actually rather sweet. I do not address their D types as such, because I may not feel that the person has earned that from me, or perhaps it's because I'm switchy that I feel like I shouldn't. There have been 2 gentlemen who have received "Sir" from me from the very start. One is John Warren, when we spoke on the phone for his research, and the other is a gentleman from the club who is amazing with a bullwhip and whose play style I have drooled over for years. DB asked this man to whip me at my birthday party in May, as a surprise to me, and it was all I could do to maintain myself from becoming giddy, while DB looked on and smiled. Mr. Bullwhip got "Sir" from the start. He is amazing, shows tremendous care and knowledge of what he does, and was very deserving of that "title." On the flip side, if some crazy chick comes up and says, "Hi, Daddy" to DB... she will hear from both of us that she is waaaayyy out of line. Our two past sub girls knew that "Daddy" was reserved for me, "Sir" was fine for them.
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