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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:53:20 PM   
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I read responses I get back from a person with whom I initiated contact. Of course, if the response is not one that does it for me, a polite note of apology and move on. Not everyone does that. It's just the way the internet is. There is absolutely no way around it. If the internet thing is not working out, perhaps try real time events. Responses and acceptance/rejections are guaranteed and immediate there.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:55:14 PM   
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Damnit!  I thought that this would be about those mind-boggler things.  What a waste of time this was!


If it makes you feel any better you can come over to my place and play with potatoes and eat eucalyptus leaves. That would be fun!


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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 12:58:37 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aylee

Damnit!  I thought that this would be about those mind-boggler things.  What a waste of time this was!


If it makes you feel any better you can come over to my place and play with potatoes and eat eucalyptus leaves. That would be fun!




Jesus!!!!!!!!  That seems like just such a colossal waste of time, to me. But, yanno, if you're in a tight spot or something; fine.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 1:14:02 PM   
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eucalyptus is good for you though.....

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 1:21:54 PM   
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I submit that they don't respond not because they are time wasters but because your profile leads them to believe you are wasting their time.

Quite frankly, it's dreadful. There is zero sense of who you are as a person. Plus I for one am skeptical about someone who can just pick up and move. To me it indicates all kinds of red flags; no family ties, no close friends, no career. I can't imagine it doesn't do the same to everyone else.

Basically, look at what you're doing to have everyone run away from you instead of blaming everyone else. Beam in your eye vs the mote in theirs.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 1:29:27 PM   
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Three words - freedom of choice. Nobody is under any obligation to do anything here.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 1:39:39 PM   
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Yeah, and  I'm going to be one of the first out here that ain't doing whatever it is.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 1:42:44 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aylee

Damnit!  I thought that this would be about those mind-boggler things.  What a waste of time this was!


If it makes you feel any better you can come over to my place and play with potatoes and eat eucalyptus leaves. That would be fun!


You just HAD to bring up the potatoes again, didn't you! 

But. . . who knows, it might be fun! 

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 2:05:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Aylee

quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet


quote:

ORIGINAL: Aylee

Damnit!  I thought that this would be about those mind-boggler things.  What a waste of time this was!


If it makes you feel any better you can come over to my place and play with potatoes and eat eucalyptus leaves. That would be fun!


You just HAD to bring up the potatoes again, didn't you! 

But. . . who knows, it might be fun! 


Only if you have my cage ready for me.......

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 3:19:49 PM   
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I have thought about this ever since forums like this show weekly posts on the same complaint, which for me has happened close to 2 yrs now.  I am sure it happened long before I got here too..

Why is it a waste of time?  Is it a waste of time to try?  Is it a waste of time to get to know people as people and not as potential fucks?  Is it a waste of time to discover that someone out there may be compatible or friendly on totally non kink levels?  Why is it such a burden on people to type out a few lines without feeling angst because someone does not write back?  Do you think they owe you something?  Do you think they are required to respond?  Why is it such a hardship because they might not?

Honestly.. do you find so little value in people that a return investment must go both ways?
Me.. If I nod hello to someone on the street or wave hi, I don't expect them to return it. It is nice when they do, but it does not get my panties knotted up if they do not.  I like people.  More importantly I like me.  No effort is a waste of my time.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 3:23:13 PM   
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Only if you have my cage ready for me.......



Sheesh!  Always wanting SOMETHING!  What a time waster! 

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 3:26:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Me.. If I nod hello to someone on the street or wave hi, I don't expect them to return it. It is nice when they do, but it does not get my panties knotted up if they do not.  I like people.  More importantly I like me.  No effort is a waste of my time.



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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 3:34:08 PM   
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It is nice when they do, but it does not get my panties knotted up if they do not. 


DANGER!!! DANGER WILL ROBINSON!!!!
Not a submissive!!!!!

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 3:35:50 PM   
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quote:

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quote:

ORIGINAL: lovingpet

Only if you have my cage ready for me.......



Sheesh!  Always wanting SOMETHING!  What a time waster! 


No!!!! That would be you! You've had almost 24 hours and haven't built the darn thing yet! LOL

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 3:47:07 PM   
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ORIGINAL: mnottertail

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
It is nice when they do, but it does not get my panties knotted up if they do not. 


DANGER!!! DANGER WILL ROBINSON!!!!
Not a submissive!!!!!


Cant breath...laughing too hard.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 3:47:30 PM   
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No!!!! That would be you! You've had almost 24 hours and haven't built the darn thing yet! LOL


Lumber is expensive!  Send me your credit card numbers!

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 4:53:08 PM   
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One person's time waster is another person's heaven.

If they're not your cup of tea just walk away. Simple.

Chalk it up to incompatibility.

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 5:08:21 PM   
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Heh.. I wear panties HOPING that something will annoy me enough to get them knotted up!
Knots in interesting spaces make for a very enjoyable day.

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst
It is nice when they do, but it does not get my panties knotted up if they do not. 


DANGER!!! DANGER WILL ROBINSON!!!!
Not a submissive!!!!!


Cant breath...laughing too hard.


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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 5:15:49 PM   
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I just wasted 87 seconds reading this thread.  DAMMIT!!!!!! 

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RE: Time Wasters - 8/19/2009 5:39:46 PM   
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I can see if my cmails get read or not,  How can you tell if they've been deleted?

I don't think you can.  He must be magic.  lol

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