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RE: What do you do when a need isn't being me? - 8/20/2009 5:57:57 PM

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ORIGINAL: xchellekittyx

the word "poly" wasn't in the OP, perhaps the poster is unaware of the term...she said she wanted to possibly add onto her current relationship making it 3 in the relationship, well...i don't know about anyone else but that sounds like poly to me, as long as everyone is honest, as i noted in my post...

it is a common opinion of poly people that one person cannot meet all the needs of another person, not that the people are "half-compatible"...in fact if they were the relationships would not work...and i can understand that a monogamous person may not understand that, but the terminology you used was "less than flattering"....not an attack...where did i say attack?

That isn't the way I understood the OP, who states that she's a kajira in a long distance relationship with a Master and that she has a 'need' for a Daddy/little girl dynamic.

I still see nothing about adding to the relationship, but that she felt it was affecting the way she was serving her Master. she spoke with him and he agreed to help her.

I'm not an expert on Gor but I was assuming that kajira means 'slave' and that the relationship was a monogamous one and in this context I used the term 'half-compatible'. I wasn't aware that we were talking about a poly relationship.

Another thing is, just because an opinion is common doesn't mean to say I share that same opinion. So not only did you take my 'half-compatible' term out of its context you also assume that I look down on people in poly relationships.

Not that I see this as any sort of a problem. We all make mistakes and we all at times misunderstand what is written and said. I hope this clarifies things.

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RE: What do you do when a need isn't being me? - 8/20/2009 9:48:20 PM

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hey i know this post has been closed but maybe there is something specific he can do that will make you feel a little bit better?

cause right now if its upsetting you so much to look for another (and its a full time job serving two doms in my experiance,) maybe there is a reason deeper then you want a daddy..

is it him, is it you, is it something another dom did that you really liked and you want to try doing that specific thing?

anyway those are just a few things i thought of that i do hope help. =) gl

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