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Male Dom in SoCal New to the life. - 8/20/2009 3:57:44 PM

MrLee101

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i am here trying to better my Dom skills. but i need to find a real good book to help me be that good Dom i want/need to be to a sub.
also if u r a sub that in SoCal hit me up and let chat.

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RE: Male Dom in SoCal New to the life. - 8/20/2009 5:04:57 PM

IronBear

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Ahh, I may as well ask the obvious question for those ignoramie amongst us: What in blue blazers is SoCal?

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RE: Male Dom in SoCal New to the life. - 8/20/2009 5:13:35 PM

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A contraction for Southern California. Los Angeles, Disneyland, Hollywood.

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RE: Male Dom in SoCal New to the life. - 8/20/2009 6:37:26 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrLee101

...i need to find a real good book to help me be that good Dom i want/need to be to a sub.

Here you go...

http://www.amazon.com/Training-Minutes-Howell-reference-books/dp/0876054718/ref=sr_1_38?ie=UTF8&s=books&qid=1250818403&sr=1-38

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RE: Male Dom in SoCal New to the life. - 8/20/2009 8:23:39 PM

GotSteel

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MrLee101

i am here trying to better my Dom skills.

I'd advise you to start by improving your writing. In this format much of the impression that you're going to make will depend on your prose, so you probably don't want it to be full of errors. I'd suggest that you capitalize I, capitalize the first letter of a sentence and never use "u r". Hopefully you get the idea. I also find capitalizing dom and not sub to be cheesy, but that could just be me as plenty of other people do it.

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RE: Male Dom in SoCal New to the life. - 8/22/2009 6:43:54 PM

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RE: Male Dom in SoCal New to the life. - 8/23/2009 11:37:56 PM

masterlink65

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when you find that book, please let me know so i can have my slave read it and then summarize it for me. until then, realtime experience is the best if you cannot find a mentor in your area. i am sure if you looked hard enough in your area you could find some direction

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