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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 8:53:30 AM   
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Status: offline 		I am not big on fancy assignments, but I do give subtle ones at first.  I want to see most of all if I will be obeyed.  (pesky detail, that!)  I also want to see if that person will fit into my life, and my family, vanilla and otherwise.  If the person is not interested in impressing me during the getting to know you period, well...

I want to clarify that I consider "assignments" to be different from the everyday stuff like "get the oil changed in my car".

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 10:09:59 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscusI want to clarify that I consider "assignments" to be different from the everyday stuff like "get the oil changed in my car".


As far as I'm concerned, "assignments" are what are given to soldiers, secret agents or the Mission Impossible team.  Nowadays even schoolkids are asked to do "assignments" rather than homework. Annoying word.  I'd expect a Domme to give me "jobs" or "tasks".  If she were once to give me an "assignment", I should feel constrained to kill her upon its completion.

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 10:12:12 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscusI want to clarify that I consider "assignments" to be different from the everyday stuff like "get the oil changed in my car".


As far as I'm concerned, "assignments" are what are given to soldiers, secret agents or the Mission Impossible team.  Nowadays even schoolkids are asked to do "assignments" rather than homework. Annoying word.  I'd expect a Domme to give me "jobs" or "tasks".  If she were once to give me an "assignment", I should feel constrained to kill her upon its completion.


My goodness! 

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 10:18:23 AM   
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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 10:20:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscusI want to clarify that I consider "assignments" to be different from the everyday stuff like "get the oil changed in my car".


As far as I'm concerned, "assignments" are what are given to soldiers, secret agents or the Mission Impossible team.  Nowadays even schoolkids are asked to do "assignments" rather than homework. Annoying word.  I'd expect a Domme to give me "jobs" or "tasks".  If she were once to give me an "assignment", I should feel constrained to kill her upon its completion.


I somehow feel as if before this post, we all should have seen a man with a microphone saying quietly "We secretly switched PeonForHer's regular coffee with Folger's Instant, let's see if he notices..."




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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 10:21:52 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I am not big on fancy assignments, but I do give subtle ones at first.  I want to see most of all if I will be obeyed.  (pesky detail, that!)  I also want to see if that person will fit into my life, and my family, vanilla and otherwise.  If the person is not interested in impressing me during the getting to know you period, well...

I want to clarify that I consider "assignments" to be different from the everyday stuff like "get the oil changed in my car".


LH, it astonishes me how often your approach and mine are either the same or very similar.  This is exactly how I approach it, and a goodly number of subs have been dumped before playtime because I saw no evidence of any obedience to anything other than their kink and their cock.  Of course, the best thing is having someone anticipate your needs, before you even realise you have them.  Sheer bliss!

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 10:55:13 AM   
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Status: offline 		Talk about a word trigger Peon! Dude you need to warn people of such things! lol

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 10:57:42 AM   
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Status: offline 		I have an image of Clint Eastwood in A Fistful of Dollars saying "I don't think it's nice you switchin' my coffee.  My coffee don't like to be switched.  'Course, if you were to apologise to my regular coffee . . .' ;-)

Right, that's enough banter.  Back to the original subject.

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 11:17:17 AM   
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The only times JR has given me assignments have been to help me past something I found difficult, or to help me organise my thoughts and benefit our relationship.

For instance, the first time we met it was a vanilla meeting, during which we arranged to meet for play a week later. It was to be my first bdsm experience, and I had expressed on a few occasions how nervous I felt about getting naked in front of him. So during that week he got me to send him a different nude photo of myself each day. It helped enormously because when it came to stripping in front of him I knew he had already seen all there was to see, and it obviously hadn't put him off me!

I actually have an assignment at the moment... our relationship started off mainly as SM but has developed to include more of a D/s element with me feeling a strong desire to please him. He has had several subs before, but these sub feelings are something new to me, and after discussing them he's given me a couple of books to read, about different paths through vanilla to SM to D/s. Once they're read he wants me to write an essay/report on them, comparing them with each other and considering which points in them do or don't apply to me, and where I feel I am now in that journey. Then we'll discuss the issues raised. I find that only a few chapters into the first book they're very thought provoking, and I think I'll get a lot of benefit from the exercise as I always find putting my thoughts down in writing helps me to see them more clearly, and to explain them better when I come to share them with JR.

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/2/2009 3:58:51 PM   
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If she were once to give me an "assignment", I should feel constrained to kill her upon its completion.


Killing her would be topping from the bottom old bean. Its in the rule book dontcha know.

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 7:06:14 AM   
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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


If she were once to give me an "assignment", I should feel constrained to kill her upon its completion.


Killing her would be topping from the bottom old bean. Its in the rule book dontcha know.


This line is full of WIN...

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 9:18:36 AM   
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Status: offline 		PS and Otters,

I do hope that you will both heed my request to stop bantering now.  I very much wish to avoid . . . . . . unpleasantness for you both - as well as your respective families.

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 9:32:38 AM   
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PS and Otters,

I do hope that you will both heed my request to stop bantering now.  I very much wish to avoid . . . . . . unpleasantness for you both - as well as your respective families.



Watch it buddy or you'll find a horse head in your bed....


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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 9:48:46 AM   
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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

PS and Otters,

I do hope that you will both heed my request to stop bantering now.  I very much wish to avoid . . . . . . unpleasantness for you both - as well as your respective families.



Watch it buddy or you'll find a horse head in your bed....



Well, I expect it will be nice for him to find something in his bed, for a change.

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 10:58:34 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: OttersSwim

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

PS and Otters,

I do hope that you will both heed my request to stop bantering now.  I very much wish to avoid . . . . . . unpleasantness for you both - as well as your respective families.



Watch it buddy or you'll find a horse head in your bed....



Well, I expect it will be nice for him to find something in his bed, for a change.


Ouch.....

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 2:18:57 PM   
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"Why do We give assignments? "



It keeps the male in a certain state of mind, for YOUR benefit and his. And it serves as a litmus test for discovering where his priorities lie.

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 2:26:00 PM   
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Status: offline 		Assignments-tasks-missions-- laughs because i recall My Ma'am and i laughing about should i chose to accept the mission--
we are subs we need these things-it validates us!<<< oohh i hope i didnt open a can of whooop ass for that comment. 
But All Dommes and Doms know this!!! 

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 3:45:01 PM   
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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 4:32:28 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: Venatrix

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I am not big on fancy assignments, but I do give subtle ones at first.  I want to see most of all if I will be obeyed.  (pesky detail, that!)  I also want to see if that person will fit into my life, and my family, vanilla and otherwise.  If the person is not interested in impressing me during the getting to know you period, well...

I want to clarify that I consider "assignments" to be different from the everyday stuff like "get the oil changed in my car".


LH, it astonishes me how often your approach and mine are either the same or very similar.  This is exactly how I approach it, and a goodly number of subs have been dumped before playtime because I saw no evidence of any obedience to anything other than their kink and their cock.  Of course, the best thing is having someone anticipate your needs, before you even realise you have them.  Sheer bliss!


Why surprised, V?  There's that little circle of Separated at Birth Doms here.    I dream of finding that person who can actually learn to ANTICIPATE my needs!  For now, just learning to get my drink right is pretty fab.  (aiming low these days)

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RE: Why do We give assignments? - 9/3/2009 5:42:35 PM   
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Status: offline 		I'ven ever had someone give me an assignment before. Personally though, I think I might enjoy it - I liked writing when I was younger. Granted, that may defeat the purpose (ie: assignments as a punishment), but still.

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