Andalusite
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MaamJay, it actually feels pretty similar to fireplay (when both are done with a flat hand), but has far more fine-tuned control! Violet wands are actually safer than a lot of other kinds of play, but it sounds like your guy was afraid of electricity. Sometimes things scare people when they've had a bad experience, or it sounds more frightening than it actually is. My Master and I just met up with a lady who I've known for a few months this evening. She's planning to mostly casually play with me, with some co-topping with him and possibly another Dominant that we all know. She hasn't tried violet wands before, but is interested in them, and my Master is planning to show me how to do it. Hopefully you'll get a chance to try it sometime. BoundDragon, you're right that bottoming to and submitting to various things can feel wonderful in all kinds of different ways! This felt really different from impact play or most other kinds of play, because it didn't seem like he was using a toy on me, it was *him*, just touching (and zapping) me! Scotty, he touched *my* tongue once, but didn't lick me while he was using it. I couldn't see any sparks actually jump off of him when he touched or zapped me, but I could smell the ozone as the air was ionized when there were several zaps close together. It sure looks pretty though with the other attachments that do show the sparks dramatically!
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