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Are you a booty call?


Yes
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No
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Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 11:16:31 AM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		How many out there are content to be a booty call?  That is, being not in a relationship where you might have dinner, see a movie, or talk about things which are not sex.   That odalisque topic in general has made me wonder if there are women who would be content to get that call for cock servicing. 

And as a side note topic:
If you are into cock worship in this way are you young, fit, and up to tradional standards of beauty where "upkeep" is part of your ritual so that you might stay in favor?

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 11:30:19 AM   
hizgeorgiapeach


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Status: offline 		I'm not into cock worship at all.  I simply have no desire to form any sort of relationship with a male that goes deeper than either of us being a booty call for the other.  I have a couple of male friends for whom this is exactly the case.  I know if either of 'em calls, that's what they're actually asking about.... and they both know that if I call them, the same is the case.  No muss, no fuss, no hassles, no expectations that haven't already been clearly defined, and no worries that either of 'em is gonna pull something stupid like attempt to draw me into some sort of deeper relationship which they know I don't want and wouldn't be happy with them for offering.
 
I'm not "young" (mid 40s), I'm no Less fit than the Guys involved, and no I've never been considered traditionally pretty or to hold any sort of great physical beauty.  If by "upkeep" you're refering to horseshit like never leaving the house without makeup on and the clothes being "just right" - no.... in fact, I so seldom wear makeup at all that there are people who know me Well who've never seen me use it,and who would be shocked to find out that I even own any.  I dress for comfort, not style, and I have neither the time nor the inclination to give a flying shit about whether I'm in fashion or 10 years out of date - my cloths are for the purpose of protection from the weather and protection from arrest for indecent exposure - not to show a bunch of twits with barely functioning brain cells how closely I can follow what some cocaine stoned homosexual male fashion designer thinks women should be wearing.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 11:53:42 AM   
LaTigresse


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Status: offline 		I am so far from being a booty call that the word "ice" has been used on multiple occasions, as part of a description or nickname, for me.

I do my stuff (hair, clothes, makeup, jewelry, etc...) for me, because it makes me feel good and I enjoy it.


< Message edited by LaTigresse -- 8/24/2009 11:55:20 AM >

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 1:40:04 PM   
peachgirl


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Status: offline 		my relationship is very, very satisfying.  but if somehow it were to end...who knows?  I'm not sure I'd have the energy to pursue another one.  being a booty call would have it's appeal at that point.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 1:43:38 PM   
GoddessImaginos


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Status: offline 		A long time ago (ok, about ten years), in a galaxy far, far away (called New Hampshire), I was a booty call. I fell deeply in love with him, and of course he was unattainable and it ended badly.
Never, ever again.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 1:52:57 PM   
beargonewild


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Status: offline 		At one time my answer would've been yes. I haven't been anyone's booty call for quite a long time and that is fine. It cannot sustain anything fulfilling and it does quickly become unwanted.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 1:53:58 PM   
GoddessImaginos


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Status: offline 		What Bear said.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 1:58:08 PM   
krikket


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quote:

ORIGINAL: beargonewild

At one time my answer would've been yes. I haven't been anyone's booty call for quite a long time and that is fine. It cannot sustain anything fulfilling and it does quickly become unwanted.




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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 2:12:31 PM   
soul2share


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Status: offline 		Yep, I am...but conversely, so is HE!  We've actually been friends for years, and one day, the inevitable happened.  What's even better is that I never hid my toys when he was here...and he finally asked about them...so now he knows how to use them...and he's pretty damn good with them too!

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 6:03:27 PM   
littlewonder


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Status: offline 		I am only a booty call for Master but being long distance..yeah, not gonna happen..sigh.

For anyone else..nope, outgrew that interest years and years ago. I don't do casual relationships.

As for cock worship.. I worship all of Master, not just his cock. There's a lot more to him than that and I try to stay in shape to the best of my abilities to please him and myself.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 6:14:38 PM   
Level


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Status: offline 		FR: Do the booty callers see the callees as substitutes for prostitutes, only cheaper?

Just a fuck, no strings.

< Message edited by Level -- 8/24/2009 6:16:41 PM >

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 7:18:41 PM   
LinnaeaBorealis


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Status: offline 		My option isn't up there.  When His Evilness & his lovely wife & I get together there will most definitely be sex involved.  But we do talk about everything under the sun also.  We don't go out to dinner & movies because they're very busy with their family & there isn't much money for stuff like that.  There is nobody else in my life for a booty call, but I wouldn't mind having that to supplement. 

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 7:23:29 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		I had a friend with benefits for a period of time before I met Fox. *I* wasnt the booty call, he was around whenever I had the itch. It did get old, and lost its allure pretty quickly when there was nothing for pillow talk since we had very little in common. We liked te same music, but music only gets you just so far.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 10:24:51 PM   
Missokyst


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Status: offline 		I think I had a lover like that when I was much younger.  He was a great fuck but dumb as a post.  As long as I was with him though, I convinced myself it had to be more than sex.  It wasn't until I pulled the plug that I realised one week after he was out of my life, it didn't bother me in the least.


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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 10:35:19 PM   
ResidentSadist


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Status: offline 		I have maintained a "little black book" most of my life . . . doesn't everyone?

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 10:48:21 PM   
lronitulstahp


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quote:

 He was a great fuck but dumb as a post.

i have had a couple of those....i hate when that happens!!!!! In my case, it was even worse once...add "He was rich as Croesus." in front ot the above quote.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/24/2009 11:12:26 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		I used to do the booty call thing, both as caller and callee. 

It was perfect for what I wanted at the time:  i.e. no strings, no having to wake up next to someone (or even have them stay the night)..

scratching an itch.


Obviously, that is the past, and I am happy to leave it there.


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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/25/2009 1:44:10 AM   
KMsAngel


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Status: offline 		no. sigh.
quote:

ORIGINAL: ResidentSadist

I have maintained a "little black book" most of my life . . . doesn't everyone?


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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/25/2009 2:53:31 AM   
Sundowner


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Sheesh Angel, can I keep you in my black book? Could I be in yours? Please? Pretty please?

I'm scared at the moment, worried that XI will come and rip the dom epaulettes from my shoulders, tear up my CM card and banish me. I broke the rules.

There are 3 twue and weal ways things are supposed to happen here. Either you mail someone and they ignore the mail (that's the preferred basis); or you mail someone and they reply with "sod off sad loser" or similar; or you mail an interesting female and get chatting and 15 miles down the line you find you're talking with a bloke in an attic. That's what's supposed to happen.

But I mailed an interesting-looking girl, we got chatting and we've met. And she's as sexy and as bright and as much fun as I thought she might be. I'm not stupid - I've learnt from close observation of CM that this is not how it's supposed to happen (unless you're Greedy, who apparently has special dispensation to break the rules and live happily ever after).

And (eventually I get close to the topic point) we went shopping and came home and did what CM ppl do and went out to dinner and came home and did wiitwd again and fell asleep together and I want to see her again. But - topic point coming even closer - I want us to be friends, not lovers, I want more than just calling her, playing games for a few hours then packing her off in a taxi but I don't want deep emotional involvement.

So is she a booty call? Or is there a middle ground between booty call and lover/partner which is more a "close friend"?

And even though no sub ever calls me up for just a quick scene and nothing else, if it were to happen I'd be over there like a shot so (sorry Missokyst, I know this was aimed at girls) I voted yes.



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(And a thought for holly - in this poll wwajd?)  




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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/25/2009 3:34:20 AM   
KMsAngel


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woo hoo! i've gone from postage stamp size to sticky-note size! thanks darlin

*mind you that's cause you three have such ridiculously long names!*

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