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Are you a booty call?


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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/25/2009 8:14:49 PM   
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Ya call it kinky, ya naughty vixen

*hugs the superduper redhead back*



*swoons* 


That was too easy! 


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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/25/2009 8:50:35 PM   
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"Too easy" is just me, Bear-Bear. 

I mean... um, that's not what... um... 

*giggles*

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/25/2009 8:54:08 PM   
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Nah, I'm a relationship kind of a girl, though if I were into booty calls, what's to say that it'd be me being called to service cock rather than me calling someone(s) to service pussy (Or other orifice or body part(s) of my choosing? 
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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/25/2009 8:55:38 PM   
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How many out there are content to be a booty call?  That is, being not in a relationship where you might have dinner, see a movie, or talk about things which are not sex.   That odalisque topic in general has made me wonder if there are women who would be content to get that call for cock servicing. 



nahh, i can't be stuffed.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 8/25/2009 9:02:03 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Daddysredhead

"Too easy" is just me, Bear-Bear. 

I mean... um, that's not what... um... 

*giggles*


Red...Red...Red.......haven't you learned from me that one can never be too easy!


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RE: Are you a booty call? - 9/12/2009 5:19:38 PM   
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Before my hearing loss, the women would call me. or I would usually just find them at a dance club, or walking down the street, The 70's-80's three was plenty of booty LOL with out a phone.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 9/12/2009 5:42:01 PM   
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Yes, in the not so distant past.
 
Would i consider it again...yes.   (cmail me for the phone number )

Hmmmmm, i didn't get any cmails asking for my phone number.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 9/12/2009 6:22:44 PM   
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edited cause lil miss thing already responded. good grief.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 9/12/2009 6:49:17 PM   
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nahh, i can't be stuffed.

porcelaine



Really? I rather like it when he's stuffing me.

But no, casual never works for me, never did.

And if there aren't going to be lots of strings attached to me, what fun is it?

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 9/12/2009 7:13:46 PM   
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No longer the caller or callee here. I got more important things to worry about like my UM, my mom, myself...

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 9/13/2009 6:44:26 AM   
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Hello folks,

Well here I am being serious.  Jeesh it happens so much.

We all want to be loved, to belong, to enjoy life.  But sometimes the big relationship isn't there, and after awhile of emptiness, you just NEED a little fix.  Whatever that fix is, of course, depends on the person. 

During my 20's and 30's I was wildly sexual.  I had a chart to keep track of all the men I was fucking (honest, a real chart).  Sex was like going to the movies.  It was fun, and I enjoyed it, but I didn't need it cause there was so much available.  And then I met the love of my life.  He was on the chart, he was just another guy.  Somehow all the other men just kind of dropped off the chart.  I would rather have been talking with him than fucking the other guys.  He made me want to convert to Catholicism (seriously).  I would have rather made him a cup of tea and sit with him while he worked and I read than anything else.  How fulfillingly joyous that time was!  After that relationship ended - very lovingly by the way - I didn't ever want another booty call.  It seemed so empty for me.  I wanted love again.

And then I went to Peru.  Sigh.  Swoon.  Ohhhh lord did I sow my wild oats!  I had a great time, I danced to my heart's content, had wonderful one night stands - or several nights - and felt beautiful!  I loved all of them.  Right then, in that moment I loved those men.  But it never lasted.  Some would call it a booty call, but I had an emotional attachment, and that is a line for me about booty calls.  If I care about them, it's not a booty call.  So, I had fun and a lot of passion.

And then I went to Korea.  Sigh.  Blech.  I was invisible, noone ever touched me - as in pat my hand, slap me on the back, hugs, NOTHING.  I felt like I was dying for touch.  This phrase came to me at that time:  When you are starving, you will eat dirt.  That's how I felt.  I was desperate for touch and all of a sudden booty calls didn't seem so bad.  Yes, I became one.  At the end of my year there, one of my students *I taught adults* came to my home and we chatted and laughed.  I'd always liked him.  He was sweet and smart and caring and had a depth that I didn't often witness in Korea.  (It may be there, I just didn't have the opportunity to witness it).  He stayed at my apartment one night and we kissed, touched, never had sex, but we were very physical in a gentle way.  He healed that lost, starving part of me.   Thank goodness! 

If we are starving, we will eat dirt.  And sometimes we find a wonderful hidden treasure. 

Am I a booty call?  When I have to be.  Do I want to be?  No.  I want the love that I had with my wonderful Catholic lover.  I want the intimacy I had with my wonderful Korean.  But when these things are not there, when I don't have the touch that I need to feed my spirit, yes, I will do that.

Well wishes,
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RE: Are you a booty call? - 9/13/2009 8:32:47 AM   
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well fiddlefuck.  I didn't mean to kill the thread.  Harumph.

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RE: Are you a booty call? - 9/13/2009 8:44:37 AM   
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Didnt kill it for me.  I loved your reply. 
When I was younger I cant say I got into a casual sex, though it was the bar days of the 70's.  I had a LOT of sex though.  Inevidibly the men I chose to date were very sexual and much more touchy feelie than I.  I love sex.  But the cuddle part was foreign to me unless I am with a man.  Affection was not part of my childhood but it has been a huge part of my romantic adulthood.
I wasn't a booty call, I was a dinner, movie, sex, cuddle, sex, cuddle, sleep, sex call. 
Now that I am older and without a mate, there are days that being a booty call seems passable.  But I think my prior life of having that cuddle part turned me to a softer fluffier (though still masochistic) side.  I can't imagine just being there for sex.  Orgasms are easy enough on my own, I would really feel lacking without the movies or dinner, and the cuddles. 
I think that starvation you mentioned?  For me, was the lack of affection in my extreme youth.  There is nothing really that replaces that; not even sex.

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