LadyNTrainer -> RE: Are you a booty call? (8/25/2009 8:58:27 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Sundowner I want us to be friends, not lovers, I want more than just calling her, playing games for a few hours then packing her off in a taxi but I don't want deep emotional involvement. So is she a booty call? Or is there a middle ground between booty call and lover/partner which is more a "close friend"? I have a relationship like this also. We have a lot in common, I'm really enjoying getting to know him as a friend, and he's a fun bottom. I know that eventually it's going to be good for him to find a regular partner who isn't poly, as he's not wired that way, and when he does we'll probably just be friends and not play partners. But that's okay with me too as I want the best for him, even if I lose access to that cute hot ass. He's definitely a booty call in that my primary relationship is the priority that I schedule my time around, but he's also a friend. If he actually needed something for real as opposed to just being bored and wanting spanked, both me and my primary would drop our plans to be there for him. The three of us get along excellently as we're all academics and RPG gamer geek types. So if there's a category for "friend and booty call", then I have one. Or he does. Or we both do. It's hard to say as it's a mutual thing and we meet a need for each other in addition to being good gaming and geeking buddies.
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