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RE: Spa Night with your Lady - 8/27/2009 8:44:23 PM

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Well as the post from Reigna shows ... it's all about knowing YOUR Domme and what She does and doesn't like! However, Me personally ... well I fit in with the bulk of the respondents in saying YES PLEASE! to most of this! And if it serves as an incentive for other boys to improve their service skills in whatever capacity ... all good!

Master does a lot of personal things for me which is great, but does occasionally grumble about the amount of "slave maintenance" required and couldn't I have found a subby boy to do some of it? Well I keep telling Him I keep trying ...

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RE: Spa Night with your Lady - 8/31/2009 9:11:30 PM

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Spa Night is about bonding. Different from using rope and having My way with him.....no, this is much more about pampering > ME! I'm not a girlie girl, necessarily. I don't have 100 pairs of shoes, and I don't wear foundation. (that's the makeup that's skin-toned for all you boy boys out there). I do have nice-looking hands, though they show my age more than my face. Since I use them all day, hand massage is one of my favorites, secondary to having my feet or scalp rubbed. Yes, I am a sensation junkie, and touch is my language.

Reigna - this is not about him coming to me with a *do me* attitude. It's about sharing something we both enjoy. You could easily fill in all those areas Otter listed, as Your list of favorites.

Indeed boys and girls, it IS about what your Lady enjoys, and what you and She enjoy sharing together. Whether that be pain or pleassure, sexual or non, cleaning out the garage, transplanting your house plants or brushing the dogs, those having the relationship define *quality time* by their own standards. For Me, it's about being connected and NOT worrying about the outside world for a few hours.

Happy Monday all!

Sthrn (just back from camping in WY all weekend)

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RE: Spa Night with your Lady - 9/1/2009 12:02:03 AM

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Otter,

Great post and thanks for sharing your fun ideas,

Lady Irish

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RE: Spa Night with your Lady - 9/1/2009 6:18:38 AM

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quote:

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Reigna - this is not about him coming to me with a *do me* attitude. It's about sharing something we both enjoy. You could easily fill in all those areas Otter listed, as Your list of favorites.

I understand. I just wanted to add some counterpoint to the chorus. First because, in marked contrast with most respondents here, spa nights and "girly stuff" really are not my sensual pleasures of choice. Second because, much as I love a hot guy in a skirt, I am creeped out by the very common MtF fantasies built around the theme of "just us girls hanging out together." When approached with such, my gut reaction is, "Yo, I'm not a girl and neither are you."

I hope that by "Wyoming" you mean "Yellowstone." Namaste!

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RE: Spa Night with your Lady - 9/1/2009 7:58:03 AM

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Another thought on "do-me's."

When a sub wants to do something that appeals to me, I think how compatible we are, how wonderful this sub is, etc. On the other hand, when a sub wants to do something that doesn't appeal to me, it's very easy for me to interpret that want as a "do-me."

For various reasons, spa nights as they were described in the OP don't appeal to me, and so any request for such a thing comes across to me as a "do-me." I suspect that things work the same way for a lot of people. Thus, it's no surprise to find that women who love spa night stuff would be very pleased at the offer of same.

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RE: Spa Night with your Lady - 9/20/2009 6:47:56 AM

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i agree otter i attended a training class to do just that and both my M'Lady and my wife love it, although my wife just goes for the bath and massage, still a good time is had. it is so much fun to do things like this that are enjoyed it really helps the dynamics of the relationships.

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RE: Spa Night with your Lady - 9/20/2009 11:06:06 AM

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Otter,

    Excellent post and Thank You. Goddess isn't into the Feminization aspect for Her Property, but there is a lot to be learned for any male who cares and wants to show it. If we take the time to think it through and find out all the little niche's that She likes, It Is Impressive to Her and we can Give Her a Good Time. Thanks Again.

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