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RE: How do you Id? - 8/28/2009 8:12:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DavanKael

Steel:  You're on a roll lately!  :> 

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Prinsexx:  Here goes: 
How do you Id?
****As you seem to be speaking mostly of sex and gender (Not the same things), I'm going to go with a female to whom gender neutrality and/or third-sex orientation feels rather comfy. 

Do you Id differently in different contexts?
****Nope, I'm always me.  Just different costumes. 

Do you feel it necessary to have to state gender…on a work application, CV, on a profile on Face Book, Collarme? Alt.com? and so on?
****Work application: if there's a box to check, I check it
****CV/resume: no, it's unprofessional
****I refuse to start a Facebook, Myspace, or Twitter account; I am relatively certain such things will lead to the decline of Wester Civilization and my innate sense of paranoia is tweaked by such things (Someone recently contacted my best friend asking after me, I was wigged) that she said anything more than "she's fine"
****CollarMe: It asks, so I answer.  Plus, I desire a male partner 
****Alt.com: Not on there but imagine same answer as CM

Why do you feel it necessary or unnecessary?
****I'm female, I'm groovy with that.  It means I get to go shopping for (Glancing over at my latest acquisition) fabulous fuscia purses on clearance racks and such, lol!  Eh, once I made my peace with the fact that I couldn't appear androgynous, I became more accpeting of myself as a female (And, I've made further improvements, still, after my relationship with my ex- ending in which he ultimately de-sexualized me as much as he could in his mind), however I still acknowledge that there are many, many ways where I am far more comfirtable 'bein' one of the guys' or, that I am a 'guy's chick'.  So, in some ways, sexual identification is extremely relevant to and for me and in other ways, not at all.  :> 
  Davan





i'm just ME......and most of the time i know what i want when i see/talk to her...

umm a diff note...DK... i have one hell of a hard time imagining you being de-sexualized......you sure hes HUMAN????

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RE: How do you Id? - 8/28/2009 9:19:30 PM   
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He is...him.  I don't know what aspects of himself he's indulging these days, not my responsibility anymore.  I appreciate your sentiment and a lot of people, myself included, appear to agree.  Strange polarity, I assure you, when one that you love treats you as if you are non-sexual and people who matter far less treat you as quite the opposite.  I hope he finds what he's looking for.  He used to say that people are monsters.  Shortly after we broke up, I told him, "I have news for you, you're one of the monsters".  Each unto their own, 
  Davan

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RE: How do you Id? - 8/29/2009 8:02:57 AM   
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i find it sometimes just amazing the way people we care about can take such a drastic change in who they seem to be or how they treat us....

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RE: How do you Id? - 8/29/2009 9:37:09 AM   
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fast reply:
 
"How do you Id?"

Straight female owner.

Pushy bitch. AKA control freak.

Athlete, musician, writer, scholar.

Goal-oriented optimist. (Optimost?)

Nature freak. (Some might argue freak of nature, lol...)

Student, teacher, mother, daughter, aunt, sister.

Friend.

Champion of the downtrodden. (No, not a downtrodden champion...)

Smart, sweet, cute. Not too young, but not too old. Juuust riiight.

Stardust. Golden. Back in the garden.

Architect of FUN!

"Do you Id differently in different contexts?"

Yes, of course! For example: I identify very strongly in terms of my profession, but I don't mention it above because it demands discretion.

Re: gender: There is a lot of discrimination still going on in this day and age, and I have experienced my share. So that sucks, but I'm in good company so I try not to take it personally. We all have our prejudices. Not to excuse it, but I'm certainly not perfect myself, in that regard. So I'm not casting stones, from within my glass house...

I enjoy being a girl!
 
Thank you for the great questions, girlfriend!



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RE: How do you Id? - 8/29/2009 9:50:32 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: dreamerdreaming

fast reply:
 
"How do you Id?"

Straight female owner.

Pushy bitch. AKA control freak.

Athlete, musician, writer, scholar.

Goal-oriented optimist. (Optimost?)

Nature freak. (Some might argue freak of nature, lol...)

Student, teacher, mother, daughter, aunt, sister.

Friend.

Champion of the downtrodden. (No, not a downtrodden champion...)

Smart, sweet, cute. Not too young, but not too old. Juuust riiight.

Stardust. Golden. Back in the garden.

Architect of FUN!

"Do you Id differently in different contexts?"

Yes, of course! For example: I identify very strongly in terms of my profession, but I don't mention it above because it demands discretion.

Re: gender: There is a lot of discrimination still going on in this day and age, and I have experienced my share. So that sucks, but I'm in good company so I try not to take it personally. We all have our prejudices. Not to excuse it, but I'm certainly not perfect myself, in that regard. So I'm not casting stones, from within my glass house...

I enjoy being a girl!
 
Thank you for the great questions, girlfriend!



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I have come here to lose the smog
And I feel to be a cog in something turning
Well maybe it is just the time of year
Or maybe its the time of man
I dont know who l am
But you know life is for learning
We are stardust
We are golden
And weve got to get ourselves
Back to the garden.~.. xx
thank you for everything
prin x



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RE: How do you Id? - 8/29/2009 11:23:17 AM   
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RE: How do you Id? - 8/30/2009 6:42:20 AM   
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Female here. sexually submissive, assertive feminist female in life. The trouble (imo) in heterosexually impaired society is that there are only 2 genders, male or female. The "journey" so many ts women have to endure is that very problem. Until she can interact with society in general and be perceived as female there will be problems, mostly for those that encounter her.

I find it odd but typical that most, profile forms don't allow for tswomen to ID as female. you will see a fill blank for male, female, tvcdts, ts women (mtf) ID as female, tsmen (ftm) id as

I'm only "out" as ts online. I live a "stealth" life with my butch lesbian GF. she id's as butch me as femme" as it's called in lesbian social structure. Those that do know I'm a tswoman seem to be ok with it. I say they are ok because I did what it takes to ok with myself.

I've only recently became of the word "pansexual" Not sure it's possible but I'm open to the concept.

Denise

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RE: How do you Id? - 8/30/2009 7:41:56 AM   
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Prin,

Gender to me is fluid, sexuality is also fluid.....so this is always a hard question...this is the best I got for you.... biofemale: poly,queer,switch...(not confused just greedy)

Amy



Re youremail :Yes I am at FL my name there is mingdestiny freind me anytime.

< Message edited by crouchingtigress -- 8/30/2009 7:48:41 AM >

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RE: How do you Id? - 8/30/2009 7:47:02 AM   
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Loved it but I thought it could have used a litttle more cowbell.....

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RE: How do you Id? - 8/30/2009 8:11:08 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: DollToyFetish2B

Female here. sexually submissive, assertive feminist female in life. The trouble (imo) in heterosexually impaired society is that there are only 2 genders, male or female. The "journey" so many ts women have to endure is that very problem. Until she can interact with society in general and be perceived as female there will be problems, mostly for those that encounter her.

I find it odd but typical that most, profile forms don't allow for tswomen to ID as female. you will see a fill blank for male, female, tvcdts, ts women (mtf) ID as female, tsmen (ftm) id as

I'm only "out" as ts online. I live a "stealth" life with my butch lesbian GF. she id's as butch me as femme" as it's called in lesbian social structure. Those that do know I'm a tswoman seem to be ok with it. I say they are ok because I did what it takes to ok with myself.

I've only recently became of the word "pansexual" Not sure it's possible but I'm open to the concept.

Denise

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RE: How do you Id? - 8/30/2009 8:12:59 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

Prin,

Gender to me is fluid, sexuality is also fluid.....so this is always a hard question...this is the best I got for you.... biofemale: poly,queer,switch...(not confused just greedy)

Amy



Re youremail :Yes I am at FL my name there is mingdestiny freind me anytime.

I understand.... I'm likely to Id differently on a Tuesday than a Thursday. Complicated is a good Id.

< Message edited by Prinsexx -- 8/30/2009 8:13:20 AM >


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